Girls Can't Accept a Man's Decisions to Stay Single

[flinstones1]

anyone remember that gorgeous NPC bikini chick from iowa  who was with that skinny dorky dude  with the grills? Getbig kept posting pictures of the guy..I think her name was stacey or lacy. Hulktron knows the girl/thread I'm talking about.

well anyways that's pretty common site to see in charleston. Im tired of talking about it go see for yourself

[Quickerblade]

anyone remember that gorgeous NPC bikini chick from iowa  who was with that skinny dorky dude  with the grills?  Getbig kept posting pictures of the guy..I think her name was stacey or lacy. Hulktron knows the girl/thread I'm talking about.

well anyways that's pretty common site to see in charleston. Im tired of talking about it go see for yourself

Lacey deluca.

[da_vinci]

but women will throw themselves at a well built guy anyway. I lived in the city with the best looking women in the USA for three years dude...numero uno!  Ive been to New york  and seen all the victoria secret models and aspiring actresses thinking they were gonna blow my chicks out of the water, , I was extremely disappointed. . They weren't much better, if at all then the chicks at my local college.
No shortage of beautiful women willing to throw themselves at suckers with a bit of muscle. I am living proof of this

Maybe its different where you are and you need these things to get beautiful women. In Los Angeles it's like that too, it all depends on where you are.

My point was a lil' bit different. Muscles are good, but skills, value and overall "drill" comes after some time. I'm too tired to go into details this time.. You can get hot ones at 20yo with good face and body, of course, but you can get the best of them by being succesfull in your life and pretty often that doesn't have anything to do with muscles. But success - takes time.  
 Let's say - you will get it pretty soon and won't think that being 30 and going for a 21yo at a club is something weird or a "loser" mentality (to be honest - it's a vice versa. Winners takes it all..).
 Tho' - if you are poor, don't have genes that are above average (body/face wise) and there's no hope for the tides to turn, you better keep that high school love, marry her, have kids and try to be happy/content.

Not everyone is destined to be a "baller/casanova" just as not everyone are destined to have three kids at 30 and lead a family life. I wish more people would get this simple truth. There would be less futile arguments that lead nowhere.

[Bevo]

Typical getbig thread

[Skorp1o]

If I ever marry, I'll put my mother's name on my house deed and my investments (mind you, it's hardly millions) to my uncle.

Even more of a reason to protect what u have imo

[Tapeworm]

If I ever marry, I'll put my mother's name on my house deed and my investments (mind you, it's hardly millions) to my uncle. On my name there will be nothing,  just my salary and if we ever divorce,  I'll quit my job the same day and either leave the country or go on the dole. NO money grabbing gold-digging whore will ever get a penny from me. Not even after a 1000 years of marriage.

That's not a good solution imo.  Not being a dick but you don't want to be fighting your cousins to recover your own house if your uncle dies, and your mother is [presumeably] going to die before you do, and even if you're her sole beneficiary everything is just going to end up back in your name.

If you really see a need to prepare then talk to accountants and lawyers.  I'm sure there are trusts or other entities which would isolate pre-existing assets from divorce settlements between individuals.  Tax liabilities are probably higher tho, and there are likely timeline issues (trust establishment, asset allocation) that would be important, like if you set up a trust and moved everything into it in the middle of a divorce proceeding it probably wouldn't hold much water.  You'd also want advice about moving post-marriage acquired assets into trust and whether this provides any protection for them, or if it actually endangers trust holdings since the trust has become a pool of 'jointly acquired' assets.

Be advised, accountants will tend to promise that everything will be hunky-dory if you just give them a few grand.  They're in business to sell you shit like trusts and charge you for the paperwork involved in it's upkeep.  Lawyers, similarly, might just bullshit you out of self interest.  I think there's some genuine protection afforded by trusts & ptys, provided they're run well, but don't imagine these people are on your side.  They're on their own side, only and completely.  If you think a woman divorcing her husband is a money hungry whore, wait until you meet the lawyer who charges $500/hr (thought about your case for 25 seconds while taking a morning poop = 15 billable minutes, etc) to 'help' you.

Given all this, I think it's best to either care less about money than about the woman and just marry her, or care more about the money and not marry her.  I walked away from 1/2 a house and, while it's not wonderful, I don't really give a shit either.  Lol, it wasn't that nice a house.  You can always make more money.  You can't always make another relationship.  That's what I've found, anyway.  Dollars aren't the right yardstick for every single thing.

[TommyBoy]

Take the advice of a man married to an amazing woman, mother of his child, and alpha female.

Don't get married. That is the dumbest shit any man in america can do. There is no reason whatsoever you can't live happily together without the legal wagers of all your assets to another person. Marriage is a culturual disease injected in your psyche starting day 1 of your existence. Either via our stupid culture/society or through the bullshit that is religion.

If she tries to pressure you in to marriage, man the hell up, and leave her ass. Don't let that princess sub-culture bullshit ruin your life.

[TEH boob]

Take the advice of a man married to an amazing woman, mother of his child, and alpha female.

Don't get married. That is the dumbest shit any man in america can do. There is no reason whatsoever you can't live happily together without the legal wagers of all your assets to another person. Marriage is a culturual disease injected in your psyche starting day 1 of your existence. Either via our stupid culture/society or through the bullshit that is religion.

If she tries to pressure you in to marriage, man the hell up, and leave her ass. Don't let that princess sub-culture bullshit ruin your life.

would you have done things differently?

[Parker]

Take the advice of a man married to an amazing woman, mother of his child, and alpha female.

Don't get married. That is the dumbest shit any man in america can do. There is no reason whatsoever you can't live happily together without the legal wagers of all your assets to another person. Marriage is a culturual disease injected in your psyche starting day 1 of your existence. Either via our stupid culture/society or through the bullshit that is religion.

If she tries to pressure you in to marriage, man the hell up, and leave her ass. Don't let that princess sub-culture bullshit ruin your life.

I believe the people have changed---men and women. Quality has gone down, different expectations, plus a "quitter's attitude" with many people.

[manuelsonn]

lol@ thread and passive agressive fagotos

[loco]

I meet them, I treat with well, make them laugh, take them to the best restaurants and clubs and hotels London has to offer, even 5* trips to exotic places...etc. Then comes a time for me to move on, to be alone or seek the next adventure and almost always it ends with a speech like this.

You know the answer already.  These nice things you give them are not acceptable form of payment for sex, not to them.  They feel entitled to all these nice things already.

I'm sure you've heard the expression "you don't pay a prostitute for sex.  You pay her to leave."

These women you date are not prostitutes.  Their only acceptable form of payment in exchange for sex is an engagement ring, an expensive wedding, a wedding ring, an expensive honeymoon, kids, pets, a mortgage and a minivan.  All those things are just a down payment.  The ongoing premiums come after the divorce:  your house, half of all the rest of your stuff, alimony and child support.  All that in exchange for sex, which you get only early in the marriage.  After that, no more sex for you, at least not from your wife.

[Skorp1o]

Typical getbig thread

I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

[SamoanIrishman]

I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

Agreed.

My experience is almost always with black women. For example, my family and I were at this restaurant eating when the lady next to us starting talking shit about the waiter taking too long, then when he got there she was rude as hell and the whole time using extreme profanity. I politely asked her "ma'am, do you mind not cursing in front of my kids and others here in the restaurant that are trying to enjoy their meal".

You should have seen the look on her face. Its was like I just ripped her clothes off in public she went mad cow on me. I told my wife lets go, we got up to head for the door and the woman stood up and pushed me told me to get my pussy ass out of there before I get "delt with" while standing about 1/2 inch from my face. I right hooked her ass and she dropped like a sack of rocks. I then pulled my gun and held her and the rest of her table at gun point until the police came.

After the interview with witnesses the policed she was charged with assault as she was loaded into the ambulance.  I took her threat as a danger to me and my family and had a right to defend myself.

Funny thing is these women get all "why did he hit me" or "why would you hit a girl" and shit once you knock em one. My wife said it best "Women that act like a man and try to fight with a man shouldn't be surprised when they get beat like a man."

[The Abdominal Snoman]

If I ever marry, I'll put my mother's name on my house deed and my investments (mind you, it's hardly millions) to my uncle. On my name there will be nothing,  just my salary and if we ever divorce,  I'll quit my job the same day and either leave the country or go on the dole. NO money grabbing gold-digging whore will ever get a penny from me. Not even after a 1000 years of marriage.

Sounds good in theory but it could be a mess if your mom(god forbid) dropped dead. Inheritance tax comes into play etc... Also you can't put someone else's name on a home you bought or investments in your uncles name(not in America at least) without paying a gift tax. Today you'd be taxed anything over 14 grand a year I believe...I'm sure there are ways to do things like this in a trust of some sort but I've read about ex-wifes going after different kinds of trusts because of things you stated and won...In America the system is set up to give half the assets to the woman because the system knows the woman is going to put it all back into the system faster than the man will...One of the goals of the American government is to collect all assets from every man, woman and child and redistribute it(socialism).

[Skorp1o]

Agreed.

My experience is almost always with black women. For example, my family and I were at this restaurant eating when the lady next to us starting talking shit about the waiter taking too long, then when he got there she was rude as hell and the whole time using extreme profanity. I politely asked her "ma'am, do you mind not cursing in front of my kids and others here in the restaurant that are trying to enjoy their meal".

You should have seen the look on her face. Its was like I just ripped her clothes off in public she went mad cow on me. I told my wife lets go, we got up to head for the door and the woman stood up and pushed me told me to get my pussy ass out of there before I get "delt with" while standing about 1/2 inch from my face. I right hooked her ass and she dropped like a sack of rocks. I then pulled my gun and held her and the rest of her table at gun point until the police came.

After the interview with witnesses the policed she was charged with assault as she was loaded into the ambulance.  I took her threat as a danger to me and my family and had a right to defend myself.

Funny thing is these women get all "why did he hit me" or "why would you hit a girl" and shit once you knock em one. My wife said it best "Women that act like a man and try to fight with a man shouldn't be surprised when they get beat like a man."

Damn, like a movie script....that's an awesome story

[Purge_WTF]

I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

Where the hell were you raised?

[Grape Ape]

Where the hell were you raised?

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[TommyBoy]

would you have done things differently?

Of course. If I knew then what I know now I absolutely would have have, if my choices would still guarantee the existence of my child.

I believe the people have changed---men and women. Quality has gone down, different expectations, plus a "quitter's attitude" with many people.

Ingraining the whole "you must suffer" through a relationship mentality is the biggest crock of shit ever. It's thrust on you by the same idiots that believe in circumcisions and political freedom. Life should not be about suffering, yet that is what we are told our whole lives we must do. ....what? Dealing with rocky relationships is supposed to be one of them.

"You have to work on it, even if it's your whole life. Just because you aren't happy doesn't mean you should leave."

Uhh, yes it does you bleeding idiot. Take your archaic mantra to the grave with you please.

[Parker]

Of course. If I knew then what I know now I absolutely would have have, if my choices would still guarantee the existence of my child.

Ingraining the whole "you must suffer" through a relationship mentality is the biggest crock of shit ever. It's thrust on you by the same idiots that believe in circumcisions and political freedom. Life should not be about suffering, yet that is what we are told our whole lives we must do. ....what? Dealing with rocky relationships is supposed to be one of them.

"You have to work on it, even if it's your whole life. Just because you aren't happy doesn't mean you should leave."

Uhh, yes it does you bleeding idiot. Take your archaic mantra to the grave with you please.

Well, for many life is suffering. Suffering thru the bullshit. For bodybuilders suffering thru the disciplined diet and regimented workout. For those who do athletics or martial arts, there is a form of suffering. But, I wasn't talking about that.

If you have to constantly "work on your marriage" then there might be some issues there. Just as if you ignored certain things about your marriage---domestic violence, manipulation, bad attitudes, weight gain, money issues, etc. One could be married for 50 yrs and it can be a miserable marriage, and one could be married for that long and ignore things that one should not ignore.

You are responsible for your own happiness. If you count on someone to MAKE you happy, count on them to make you unhappy.
Do, you how many people all of sudden are "unhappy"? And when I mean, unhappy, I pretty much mean the selfish kind, where it really is when a person just wants out so that they can do whatever they please, regardless of who they hurt---basically neglecting their obligations.
Think of it like this, Flex Wheeler would cheat on his diet, and grab a meal that would make him "happy", this happiness was short lived, and the fact that he deviated from his set course meant he often lost out. One time he blamed Ninjas, another time he lost the Mr. O.

But, as I had stated the people have changed. People today are more selfish, which they learned from the baby boomer generation. Marriage in itself has stayed the same. It's people approach to it and the consequences that have changed up.

[The Abdominal Snoman]

The world has changed...Before the computer age, the average Joe didn't have the ability to meet many different women. So meeting one and getting married made sense. Now it's as easy as hitting one up on a multiple number of social networks. No reason whatsoever to ever have to be alone and no reason whatsoever to marry any one and most likely lose half of everything you ever had...

[Kwon_2]