I have stopped reporting posts except for my nudes. I have basically given up to be honest. As for racism it is never okay. I get called a mudshark which I find offensive and not because I am ashamed but because I loved the African American man whom I was romantically involved with. The mudshark posts get left up and I see racism all over the forum. Nothing gets done about it. I don't believe that halo is racist as he had a baby with an African American woman and even though he had a bad breakup I believe he cared about her at one stage. In regards to the pm's he sent you.... Block him. Don't be afraid to use the pm system... My list is long.
You don't see Halo as racist because he has a baby with a black woman and you say your best friend is black (is she of African descent?) Run that by her and ask her that.
Think about the slave owners who had kids with black women and then kept the kids as slaves, and sometimes selling them off.
The reason why Halo gets with black women, specifically African immigrants who are poor and don't have an education is because he deems them "easier". He doesn't deal with white women, or black women with education.
He also feels that he was entrapped by this African woman who possibly was a former hooker, and according to him has gone back to prostitution. He also said that he has had a thing for chocolate women since his teens when a Congolese girl turned him down. And then he has a thing for prostitutes. It allows him to not be able to have an emotional connection with women.
He seems unable to emotional connect to anything. As Lob has said, black women are nothing more but to be used for his gratification. And so, that is why he is trying to get 18 inch arms, to get the women. But, he is unable to have a stimulating conversation with normal women his age, because he lacks the social skills and knowledge to do so, again that is where the prostitutes come in and the poor uneducated black women.
You have to learn how to read between the lines. Because you are a white Australian you know very little about racism, slavery and how his mental illness (it seems he has one) along with a perceive superiority can play into a very effed up situation.