What's wrong with girls?

[Dr.J]

Three things:

1. I'm glad I'm not the only one

2. drop to 250mg. The physique suffers a bit, but constantly NOT thinking about sex and getting rebuffed by the wife brings a certain mental freedom. 500mg isn't worth the hassle. I constantly feel like a 15 year old boy at a school dance; ready to go, and not a chance of scoring. In fact, I actually enjoy coming off when I have, like, zero test. Just so I can stop thinking about sex. The wife actually starts coming on to me, which is weird for us. But it's only maybe once every 4-6 weeks. That's her battery charge life. It is sad. If I didn't chase her around the house, she'd be happy with sex 6-8 times a year. Brutal. I mean, it's free for christ's sake! I'm not the worst person in the world at it. Last time I checked, it's fun and feels good. What the hell holds women back from taking advantage of this? I will never understand them.

3. have you heard of xhamster.com? You're welcome.

Second validation that I should never get married.

[Dr.J]

Btw, I generally don't ask, I just do or tell them to do..100% alpha style.....if they get weird or say something stupid...then its a big sexual red flag for me and that pretty much ends the relationship. .....

[DroppingPlates]

Even if she asked me to lick her ass, I would.

Simple request, just lay there for 2-3 mins while I play with your ass and busy a nut on it.   I'm not asking her to shove my fist in her ass or anything that takes any effort on her part.   

She says, we just had sex yesterday, and I'm like yeah that was yesterday.   I guess the 500 mg test ain't helping either. 

You must really love her, if you want to continue this way...

[Dr.J]

I just pull it out and shoot it wherever oj her.


My wife is just happy when I actually pull out and she doesn't have to deal with cum leaking out of her for day/s (depending on how many loads ive dropped in her vag).

Feels  wayyyy better in the vag though. Oh well, makes going down on her way nicer

This is more like it.....

[theworm]

Three things:

1. I'm glad I'm not the only one

2. drop to 250mg. The physique suffers a bit, but constantly NOT thinking about sex and getting rebuffed by the wife brings a certain mental freedom. 500mg isn't worth the hassle. I constantly feel like a 15 year old boy at a school dance; ready to go, and not a chance of scoring. In fact, I actually enjoy coming off when I have, like, zero test. Just so I can stop thinking about sex. The wife actually starts coming on to me, which is weird for us. But it's only maybe once every 4-6 weeks. That's her battery charge life. It is sad. If I didn't chase her around the house, she'd be happy with sex 6-8 times a year. Brutal. I mean, it's free for christ's sake! I'm not the worst person in the world at it. Last time I checked, it's fun and feels good. What the hell holds women back from taking advantage of this? I will never understand them.

3. have you heard of xhamster.com? You're welcome.

Spot on!   If I never initiate, I'd be getting it 6-8 times a year!    I don't understand, she loves it says it feels amazing etc, but why don't they ever wanna do it.  

I guess girls need to feel connected to have sex
Guys need sex to feel connected

[38-26-40]

Wow...this thread makes me sad for a lot of you. I'm sorry! Anything you both did together sexually before marriage, should never stop after marriage. Actually, you should be doing more of it, and trying new things. I know I get bored REALLY fast if sex becomes a chore rather than a time of fun.

I'm hoping if I ever get married, I can get my husband to keep up with me. Then again, I wouldn't marry him if he couldn't lol 


Oh...and.....don't ask for it. Just start it up. If she bitches, bitch right back. If she can bitch at you about what she DOESN'T want, then you can bitch about what you DO want. It's only fair.

[Shockwave]

Wow...this thread makes me sad for a lot of you. I'm sorry! Anything you both did together sexually before marriage, should never stop after marriage. Actually, you should be doing more of it, and trying new things. I know I get bored REALLY fast if sex becomes a chore rather than a time of fun.

I'm hoping if I ever get married, I can get my husband to keep up with me. Then again, I wouldn't marry him if he couldn't lol 


Oh...and.....don't ask for it. Just start it up. If she bitches, bitch right back. If she can bitch at you about what she DOESN'T want, then you can bitch about what you DO want. It's only fair.

Seems like most girls like to be kind of "pushed" into it anyways. (Obviously not if they're not into you)

Gotta be careful with that though, this day and age i wouldnt do that to anyone but my wife, you're liable to get the girl hot and bothered and then wind uo in jail for rape the next day when she decides she really didnt want to fuck you.

[basil]

My girl was about to hop in the shower and I asked a simple request...   To cum on her ass.  I mean, what's the big deal, she's gonna take a shower in a few secs anyway.   But I asked a few times and she said I was disgusting and borderline sexual pervert.
But wtf?  What's the big deal?  I'm not asking her to fuck her ass.

Guess I watch too much porn.

You see, where I come from, 'my girl' refers to a daughter.  I hope you mean your lady or woman.  Pedo of peace

[WalterWhite]

Yeah this validates my none believe in marriage!

Maybe I'm a rarity but I was married a long time and nothing ever stopped. The only lull was around the time my daughter was born.

[38-26-40]

Seems like most girls like to be kind of "pushed" into it anyways. (Obviously not if they're not into you)

Gotta be careful with that though, this day and age i wouldnt do that to anyone but my wife, you're liable to get the girl hot and bothered and then wind uo in jail for rape the next day when she decides she really didnt want to fuck you.

Agreed...once you're comfortable with the other, you should be able to say what you want.

To me, the key is to NEVER say no. But this should go for both men and women. Neither should ever say no. Even if you have to fake being into it at the moment, just to make the other happy. You have to please your partner. If one wants it, they should get it. Makes it easier, plus, takes the asking and possible rejection out of the equation. 

[Bertha Butt]

Cause there was no fucking way in hell that was going to happen.   Once your married, that shit stops quick!  


Why does a bride smile on her wedding day?   No more blowjobs!

  WTF???

Why no more blowjobs after marriage?

[TrueGrit]

Dump her. You need a chick that will blow 24 guys just to get a drink, or let you shit on her chest. This ain't the 50s.

[Bertha Butt]

Three things:

1. I'm glad I'm not the only one

2. drop to 250mg. The physique suffers a bit, but constantly NOT thinking about sex and getting rebuffed by the wife brings a certain mental freedom. 500mg isn't worth the hassle. I constantly feel like a 15 year old boy at a school dance; ready to go, and not a chance of scoring. In fact, I actually enjoy coming off when I have, like, zero test. Just so I can stop thinking about sex. The wife actually starts coming on to me, which is weird for us. But it's only maybe once every 4-6 weeks. That's her battery charge life. It is sad. If I didn't chase her around the house, she'd be happy with sex 6-8 times a year. Brutal. I mean, it's free for christ's sake! I'm not the worst person in the world at it. Last time I checked, it's fun and feels good. What the hell holds women back from taking advantage of this? I will never understand them.

3. have you heard of xhamster.com? You're welcome.

In my case: contraception. The pill already lowered my libido drastically. But when I switched to the NuvaRing, my libido was non-existent. Even though the dose of oestrogen and progesteron were lower than the pills.

[Bertha Butt]

I guess girls need to feel connected to have sex
Guys need sex to feel connected

Lof of women think they should wait for that special horny feeling, something very romantic and magical. Bullshit, just start with some forplay and soon you will feel horny.

And yes, some hugging and kissing does work to convince to have sex.

[YngiweRhoads]

All women I've had long term relationships are horny as fuck. Daily sex and nothing is off limits Then again, it's me they're fucking which is a real motivator.

Y'all need to find some different women.

[da_vinci]

Three things:

1. I'm glad I'm not the only one

2. drop to 250mg. The physique suffers a bit, but constantly NOT thinking about sex and getting rebuffed by the wife brings a certain mental freedom. 500mg isn't worth the hassle. I constantly feel like a 15 year old boy at a school dance; ready to go, and not a chance of scoring. In fact, I actually enjoy coming off when I have, like, zero test. Just so I can stop thinking about sex. The wife actually starts coming on to me, which is weird for us. But it's only maybe once every 4-6 weeks. That's her battery charge life. It is sad. If I didn't chase her around the house, she'd be happy with sex 6-8 times a year. Brutal. I mean, it's free for christ's sake! I'm not the worst person in the world at it. Last time I checked, it's fun and feels good. What the hell holds women back from taking advantage of this? I will never understand them.

3. have you heard of xhamster.com? You're welcome.

Geez... That may very well be a precursor for a divorce. Sexual compatibility is very important. My last long term gf wanted almost more than I did. Every other day, sometimes every day, after 5 years or so, was normal. She'd txt me at the end of the day "when we'll get back home, I want you to fuck me right away.".

Other times I'd get back home, she'd whip my dick out and start blowing with no words being said. I'm trying to train my current gf to become a personal whore like that. So far things seems good.

[Kwon_2]

You see, where I come from, 'my girl' refers to a daughter.  I hope you mean your lady or woman.  Pedo of peace

[Lustral]

Three things:

1. I'm glad I'm not the only one

2. drop to 250mg. The physique suffers a bit, but constantly NOT thinking about sex and getting rebuffed by the wife brings a certain mental freedom. 500mg isn't worth the hassle. I constantly feel like a 15 year old boy at a school dance; ready to go, and not a chance of scoring. In fact, I actually enjoy coming off when I have, like, zero test. Just so I can stop thinking about sex. The wife actually starts coming on to me, which is weird for us. But it's only maybe once every 4-6 weeks. That's her battery charge life. It is sad. If I didn't chase her around the house, she'd be happy with sex 6-8 times a year. Brutal. I mean, it's free for christ's sake! I'm not the worst person in the world at it. Last time I checked, it's fun and feels good. What the hell holds women back from taking advantage of this? I will never understand them.

3. have you heard of xhamster.com? You're welcome.

Been with gf 5 years so basically wifed, she has a great sex drive. Some wine and she is a rapist, I love it.

I also hate when gf says no, normally before we go to the gym when I see her changing. Soon as I see those chocolate nipples I lose self-control and hop on her. Sometimes I get some but normally I get the "I don't want to shower before gym" reason (excuse?).

Ah it's a good way to be, if you always got what you want things would become boring. I say no to her at times, usually when I'm so pissed I couldn't touch my nose if you paid me a million euros.

[devilsmile]

Been with gf 5 years so basically wifed, she has a great sex drive. Some wine and she is a rapist, I love it.

I also hate when gf says no, normally before we go to the gym when I see her changing. Soon as I see those chocolate nipples I lose self-control and hop on her. Sometimes I get some but normally I get the "I don't want to shower before gym" reason (excuse?).

Ah it's a good way to be, if you always got what you want things would become boring. I say no to her at times, usually when I'm so pissed I couldn't touch my nose if you paid me a million euros.

all those things mean you two really want each other. LOL "too much sex in a relationship" 

it's understandable not to fuck when one is pissed, but next time the make up sex will be even better.

I don't know about the 7 billion people, but a good relationship should be able to have sex all the time, and sometimes not even once and not be all paranoid about it.

[no one]

refused it? she should be begging for it.

[Lustral]

all those things mean you two really want each other. LOL "too much sex in a relationship" 

it's understandable not to fuck when one is pissed, but next time the make up sex will be even better.

I don't know about the 7 billion people, but a good relationship should be able to have sex all the time, and sometimes not even once and not be all paranoid about it.

I'm on test so I orgasm 2-3 times/day on average. I see a day without sex as a long time, always laugh smugly when I hear surveys say the average couple has sex once in a  blue moon.

[devilsmile]

I'm on test so I orgasm 2-3 times/day on average. I see a day without sex as a long time, always laugh smugly when I hear surveys say the average couple has sex once in a  blue moon.

depends on how much a couple spends time with each other, so imo 2-3 times a day is not unusual even for a guy who's not on anything  

[the trainer]

I've gone on about it in another long thread. Got lots of good advice too from some great people on the board, which I appreciate.

It's not a precursor for divorce for me. Just a precursor for general frustration. If every man dumped his wife whenever he was frustrated with her lack of desire, there'd be a shit ton more divorcing out there. Which is saying something, since people divorce like crazy these days. Lots of "starter husbands" and "figuring-it-out-wives".

There's a reason male comedians joke about the lack of sex in marriage; because it happens...a lot...to a great many guys. I just happen to be one of those guys, and my wife happens to be one of those women. She was very much a different person desire-wise before we had children. Kids changed everything. I can't fault her for that; kids do a number on any couple. It's not her fault if bearing kids fucked up her libido, or if having kids crawl all over her all day long ruins her mood.

I guess I like to hope she'll just suck it up and jump my bones even if she doesn't feel like it ("36" wrote as much in her post...her husband should NEVER let her go! LOL!). But my wife is not built that way, so this is as good as it gets. I've tried a whole littany of tactics...some have worked once or twice, but most fail over time to improve her desire. She's just changed. She's not less attentive or less caring or less nurturing or less happy...she's just less sexual since kids came along. I'll stay married to her because there's a bunch of other good stuff in the relationship. For better or worse...I've chosen her. We're both going to get old, and not at the same rate. It could have just as easily been me with less libido and hers going crazy...how bad would my life be if she dumped me and cheated on me because of it? I'd feel devastated. So I see it from her angle.

I lived through my teen years with nary a girlfriend to satisfy base desires. It's just like that again...no big deal. Sex with some random woman does little to excite me and is fraught with risk of disease, which scares the living shit of out of me. So there's no reason for me to stray. And I have little capacity to figure out how to make some new woman happy with me, so I have little desire to divorce and find someone new and special.

I'm going to stay married to her as long as she'll have me. She may not be the demon in the sack that I married, but it's my job as her husband to support her.

Put it another way; if she got cancer, and just didn't want to have sex anymore, and I dumped her, you'd all think I was about as low as a worm's belt buckle. So sure, she didn't get cancer (knock on wood). But her body changed on her, and she's probably not that impressed by it either. Husbands support wives through these things.

And one of these days, I'll turn 65 and my once proud manhood will go floppy as a windsock on a calm afternoon and will be completely unreceptive to her advances or physicality. It's my hope that she supports me through that period in my life as our sex life becomes contingent on how quickly the viagra makes me work.  If I'm there for her, I think she's the type of woman who'll be there for me.

Life has to be about more than just how often you dip your breadstick in the soup.

I have known many guys like you in my life, not popular, not very attractive, a bit shy and dont get a lot of attention from women so when a girl finally gives you some pussy you feel that you are in love and you want to marry her, in the marriage the sex dries up but you stay cause you are saying to yourself she is a good woman and its better to have sex a few times a month than none at all,
 So you just settle and accept it, stare at beautiful models and horny women wishing your wife was like that then you grow old and you die.

[Papper]

Asking permission to jerk off on your wife's ass

and being told no.

even a beta knows that's beta

Nothing personal here but that is a summary of what happened and it's quite sad

I could marry - if my sex drive went to zero. Right now I don't even want a girlfriend, only if she let's me fuck others and does threesomes with me.

[theworm]

This thread has made me feel lucky as hell!   Married 12 years, 2 kids and my wife insists we do it at least 3 times a week.   Last week at least she kissed my penis, lol.   Last month she sucked me and sucks my balls.   I guess her not wanting me to cum on her ass is not a huge deal then after reading some of this.  Just frustrating some times cause I'm hornyier then hell and she is the hottest girl I've ever seen!