lmao 
She would be reaching for the freezer to give him magnums (ice cream covered in chocolate) etc... if he doesn't ask for it, he doesn't want it or need it, that's my view. I'm just fucking lumbered by the fact that I have access and guardianship but that means fuck all here - if I kick up a fuss she can say I can't see him and police do fuck all.
My personal stance is give your kid values, educate them but let them make their own mistakes, constantly strive to make them more independent and grown up and be there to lead them to adulthood. Not to keep them a child and spoil them forever which seems to be the way in western countries nowadays.