Liberal society want a culture where you can do whatever you want and not be victimized. But that's just not the world we live in.
Examples: If your a smoking hot 19 yo chick who goes to a frat party and gets drunk and passes out guess what; you might get raped. At least have a better chance of it than your peer that spent Friday night studying at the library.
You wanna get uppity and talk smack to your NFL husband who is running test prop, mast and tren; guess what he might just hit you.
The dudes are in the wrong totally but as a "victim" you can do some stuff to avoid putting yourself in dangerous positions.