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I'm A Fat Girl Who Wears Revealing Clothes. Deal With It.
« on: August 26, 2014, 08:18:24 PM »
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...some people really need to get an education in how to treat fat girls who like to show off our curves some respect. Because I've received way too many dirty looks from strangers on the street this summer while sporting my crop tops and booty shorts.

Here are five things you need to know about interacting with fat fatshionistas:

1. You Need to Get Over It.

Seriously, take a seat. Actually, take several.

If you're offended by me showing my stomach or the way my thighs jiggle, you need to f*ck off. My body is my own and no one has the right to tell me what to do with it. Period.

Boohoo, you have to look at a fat woman's body.

You do realize that we live in a world filled with violence and oppression, right? Start getting angry about that and leave my fatness out of it.

2. Don't Stare. I'm a Person, Not Eye Candy.

The most common reaction I get from others when I wear revealing clothing are stares. Some people will sort of roll their eyes or look disgusted; others will just stare as if I'm some kind of art exhibit at a museum. Either way, there are a lot of stares.

Look, I understand that I'm challenging your views on fat womanhood and forcing you to question your beliefs and attitudes, but keep this contemplation to yourself. Yes, I do notice when you're looking. Yes, it does make me feel uncomfortable.

I'm not some sort of object to be admired; I'm a human being first and foremost. Respect my right to choose to be fabulous and move it along.

3. Keep (Most, But Especially Negative) Comments To Yourself

You might have the urge to shame me for daring to own my sexiness as a fat girl, or you may even want to compliment me for my taste. But either way, I really don't want to hear about it.

I'm just trying to get a latte at Starbucks, get to class or finish writing an article; I really don't want to engage in conversation about my identity.

Sure, positive comments can be cool, flattering even, but I notice a lot of these comments are objectifying. If you have something nice to say, find an even nicer way to say it. If you're about to tell me I have nice tits, don't. Just tell me I look nice today.

I can appreciate a good compliment, but I also don't want to hear comments about my body. Stick to my outfit; as a fatshionista, that's what I care about the most, anyway.

4. Never, EVER, Fat Shame Me

My mom has this thing she likes to do when I decide to show skin; tell me I don't look "appropriate." It's funny how everywhere I go in the summertime, I see girls wearing short-shorts, but the second I show some upper thigh, suddenly, I don't look "appropriate."

What exactly is appropriate and who invented this stupidity?

Part of being an adult means choosing my own attire. The law only requires that I cover my nipples (don't even get me started about that) and my genitalia; everything else is fair game. So since I haven't started practicing public nudity yet, I'm good.

These comments she makes stay with me and because I'm a fat girl with an eating disorder, trigger me. That's why it's even more important to me than anything that people be respectful, because if they aren't it can send me into a spiral.

If you think I'm gross or need to cover up, refer to number 1 and 3 on this list.

5. Let Me Know I'm Doing Some Good

Some days, I need encouragement, like anyone else. So seeing people like my Instagram photos of my bare belly or telling me I look beautiful in a YouTube comment makes me feel good.

More importantly, it encourages me to keep pushing boundaries.

So if you think what I'm doing is awesome, or if you even like an outfit I'm wearing, tell me. You don't have to give me a full-out compliment, but even just favoriting a picture or tweet, or sharing this article is enough.

In fact, it's the best thing you can do.

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« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2014, 08:21:28 PM »
I fear that fatism may become the new feminism. Great news for hebrews.
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« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2014, 08:22:36 PM »
Sadly enough, in the year 2014, even women like that have standards.

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« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2014, 08:44:03 PM »
Sadly enough, in the year 2014, even women like that have standards.

They only have "standards" because there are guys (desperate fools)out there that would actually fuck that, sad but true...

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« Reply #4 on: August 26, 2014, 08:50:43 PM »
I'm going to post on her YouTube channel that she looks beautiful because I can't wait to see the next level of grossness.

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« Reply #5 on: August 26, 2014, 08:51:03 PM »
So many contradictions....

Women logic why!!!!?????

'Dont make comments, i dont want to hear them'

Followed by

'Let me know im doing some good,i jeed encouragemenr'

WTF?!?!?!

Also 'im not eye candy, i know im challenging your views on far sexiness but i dont want attention.... now, give me attention'

So much idiocy

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« Reply #6 on: August 26, 2014, 08:56:54 PM »
What does the Fat say?

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« Reply #7 on: August 26, 2014, 09:00:49 PM »
Getbig needs to flame her site.

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« Reply #8 on: August 26, 2014, 09:16:51 PM »
Next week she'll be writing a tear drenched/rage infused article about how she was trolled incessantly after this.

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« Reply #9 on: August 26, 2014, 09:28:20 PM »
The only thing a fat girl is good for is sucking di.ck. and swallowing chum. No sympathy for fat bit.chez f.duck you
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« Reply #10 on: August 26, 2014, 10:14:29 PM »
I love the brave face these fat pigs try and paint on, specialy celebs...... Only for it to end in tears followed by a gastric band or actualy training and dieting, then there all.... I was never happy fat etc etc

Fat (fake) positive women like this truely do sicken me....

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« Reply #11 on: August 26, 2014, 10:16:37 PM »
I hate...hate...HATE it when fat people try to pass off their obesity as "normal" and "god made me this way" or "genetics", no...they are FAT SLOBS because they chose to be.

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« Reply #12 on: August 26, 2014, 10:19:06 PM »
I would carry on a long-term "plutonic" relationship with her......no shit.

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« Reply #13 on: August 26, 2014, 10:19:40 PM »
Read the comments, she is getting eviscerated pretty badly.

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« Reply #14 on: August 26, 2014, 10:21:59 PM »
Her Twitter rant

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« Reply #15 on: August 26, 2014, 10:24:48 PM »
I hate...hate...HATE it when fat people try to pass off their obesity as "normal" and "god made me this way" or "genetics", no...they are FAT SLOBS because they chose to be.


In the UK they try and pass them selves as 'real women'.... That phrase has crept in, all about making these lazy greedy cun.ts feel normal or better about them selves

They all claim to live such busy lives that they can't train or eat propperly, and women whoate in shape must have trainers and or have the time to train for hrs each day and or starve them selves...

Meanwhile a little will power goes along way, if they could just control those fat greedy fingers

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« Reply #16 on: August 26, 2014, 10:28:31 PM »
Her Twitter rant



It's not just her weight.....

There are many heavy girls that are still pretty, carry themselves well, and dress with class.

Her main problem is that she is as ugly as sin.

All the dieting in the world isn't going to help.

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« Reply #17 on: August 26, 2014, 10:30:01 PM »
Her Twitter rant



Haha, I knew it... Why is it fat "phobia" by the way? I doubt those commenters fear fat, more likely they're disgusted by it.

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« Reply #18 on: August 26, 2014, 10:30:51 PM »
It's not just her weight.....

There are many heavy girls that are still pretty, carry themselves well, and dress with class.

Her main problem is that she is as ugly as sin.

All the dieting in the world isn't going to help.

X2. Agreed. Many chubby and/or heavy girls have pretty faces and carry themselves appropriately.

Its not her weight that makes her ugly per se, it's everything else about her.

She has built up this mentality in her head that she is the victim and that everyone else is out to get her.  :-\ :-\
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« Reply #19 on: August 26, 2014, 10:31:46 PM »
Haha, I knew it... Why is it fat "phobia" by the way? I doubt those commenters fear fat, more likely they're disgusted by it.

Well, if you read most of the comments on her page, you're right, it has nothing to do with her being fat. It has more to do with her epic contradictions throughout her whole rant.
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« Reply #20 on: August 26, 2014, 10:33:15 PM »
Well, if you read most of the comments on her page, you're right, it has nothing to do with her being fat. It has more to do with her epic contradictions throughout her whole rant.

Time to send her a Shitso marriage proposal....

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« Reply #21 on: August 26, 2014, 10:36:07 PM »
People in revealing clothes will get stares on the street, man, woman, fat or skinny.

If she doesn't want stares and attention she should not use revealing clothes in public places.

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« Reply #22 on: August 26, 2014, 10:41:44 PM »
Time to send her a Shitso marriage proposal....

 ;D ;D

I bet most getbiggers, on those lonely nights, would still go on a date with her.  :D :D
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« Reply #23 on: August 26, 2014, 10:43:27 PM »
;D ;D

I bet most getbiggers, on those lonely nights, would still go on a date with her.  :D :D

A plutonic date?

At least 20% of all Getbaggers have better tits than she does......

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« Reply #24 on: August 26, 2014, 10:53:30 PM »
Throw shoes at this ham-beast