Tony was already getting a taste of the Pussification of America
What father allows:
His only daughter to lose her virginity to a black, limp wristed, punk boyfriend from CA.
Punk boyfriend tells her that she and her family are inferior to his family.
Punk boyfriend makes fun of Tony and family for being uneducated goombas.
Punk boyfriend makes fun of Tony for being lame small-time criminal.
And Tony Soprano never did shit to Meadow's feminine little boyfriend. You fellows need a new idol.