Yes.....the only thing missing in those young boys' lives was being put in Timeout.
and a future, and IQs, and... oh wait sarcasm? yes I SEE NOW.
lots of confirmation bias sheep opinions in this thread (not majority) but c'mon. step outside your past experiences for one moment.
would YOU hit a 4 year old kid like that?
i wouldn't. i'd never hit a kid. i was hit a bit when i was younger. in the same vain as this (less severe, not with a snatch... but with belts lightly).
well i don't think that taught me shit. i was stealing my parents cars at 12 to go out for a spin in front of their eyes cause they didn't remember where i was and i would just swap the pain killer stash from one spot to another and they would both go away and then i would steal the car at the furthest end of the garage and put it in neutral down the driveway then park and start it and dip out
then i was a drug addict
then i became rich by accident (no trust fund. parents are still alive and very well, thank god, and i wasn't raised like that. i went to harvard yes, and my dad paid for that shit, but i also made $400,000 exactly my junior year of college off basically meeting the right person at the right time and being able to write code on a professional level, and that wasn't even a fucking damned thing compared to what was coming @ 27 (last year).
so does getting beaten fuck you up later in life?
i dunno. i love my dad for beating me. then again my best night ever was getting absolutely pummelled after getting jumped at a townie bar in franklin, mass by 5 dudes, then my ribs broken at the end getting kicked by a girl in tims(bones broken, concussion, but gods of karma didn't let them touch my face for reasons obvious to not frustrate the god of man dime protection)
that shit made me very very happy
like the time i broke 26 bones that was actually living on the edge of life and death jaws of life cut open car air lift by helicopter to jacksonville hospital
the best memories though are the ones you really savor though. when you know, that they know, that you KNOW that's warm.