Doesn't always pan out this way pal.....I'm in my 30's and right now nursing two divorcee's into their old former days as independent Alpha males. They both strongly agree on one thing...the children they wouldn't trade for the world, from another angle they feel they wasted their best years invested into a pointless and needless exercise.
Happiness and a long prosperous life does not automatically mean marriage and children. In fact the latter is the route to many men feeling trapped and unhappy and the life sucked out of them
Exactly. I'm always kind of baffled when some people are so proud of raising kids. Ffs, it's a personal ego, nothing else, NOONE cares about these kids except their parents, most would prefer them not be there at all (as they are rivals to them and their relatives) and whole Africa is doing the same shit, millions of them, every day.. Geez, having a dick and being able to knock some average female is not an accomplishment, nor is "raising them", well it probably is for a parent, but that's it. "Legacy", oh my... why would you care about your "legacy" when you are dead? Do you think Shakespeare cared about his legacy two days after he died?
Illusions.. of bunch of ants that keep reproducing ant thinking it "means" something.
Btw - Skorp is right - family doesn't automatically equal happiness. Happiness if wife is good looking at an older age, if kids are healthy, seccessfull, good looking, rich and dominating in society when they grow up. Does that always happen? Far from it... But yeah, most here have the genes of gods to transfer to their kids and their parenting abilities are unsurpassed, plenty of happy people, producing more happy people
