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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #75 on: October 29, 2014, 06:11:06 AM »
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.


I hope you're kidding. That is truly fucking depressing.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #76 on: October 29, 2014, 06:26:11 AM »
wow man sorry to hear that,when kids r involved it changes everything from being somewhat easy to really really hard,just hang in there man and everything will work out,remember that your kids r number one and thats all that matters,u will b ok trust me bro
thx but don't be sorry-its what I chose -she didn't want it

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #77 on: October 29, 2014, 06:28:54 AM »

I hope you're kidding. That is truly fucking depressing.

I have a feeling that this guy wouldn't last too long in the woods.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #78 on: October 29, 2014, 06:30:39 AM »
I have a feeling that this guy wouldn't last too long in the woods.

Agreed

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #79 on: October 29, 2014, 06:33:45 AM »
how do you guys feel about a domestic partnership if allowed in your state?

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #80 on: October 29, 2014, 06:35:34 AM »
Marriage is a ridiculous proposition.  Especially if you have money and you're a man.  More than 50% of marriages fail they say.  But how many people do we know just stay in it even though they're miserable?  So the other 50%, which is being generous, maybe more than half are already miserable.  Probably another half are cheating on each other, a quarter of them are only together for kids, and half of a quarter of them are probably fags trying to stay on the low by having a family.

Who in their right mind would go into something that has about a 5% chance of succeeding?
There is no perfect marriage; even the good looking rich stars/elites divorce. Perfection isnt what you re supposed to look for. A strong marriage, is what you should aim at. Strenght. There are poor, ugly people, with strong ties.
Marriage is an alliance to increase both male and female odds of survival until they can produce an offspring, then rest of life is spent making sure you give the best odds of survival to your offspring so it can beat the competition and so on. Power is the only thing that matters, as power equal better odds of survival. We re all fighting for power, we re all suposed to produce powerful offsprings that will defeat weaker opponents and who will ally with powerful mates once adults. Power, domination, it's what we all run after, and there s nothing worse than losing power -at work, in your family- which is often a death sentence. Failing = death. In other animal species, when an animal fail, it dies. This is why failing makes us depressed, cause we re animals. It reminds us that in a long gone past, we would probably have died. Also noone is interested in losers, losers stink death, this is why we re naturally attracted by powerful people, because we want to learn from them their best strategies of survival to include them in our own panel of strategies of survival.

An alpha male dominate at work, in his family and raise alpha kids who will keep the tradition going. He obviously is with one or several alpha women.




http://www.tmz.com/2014/10/21/david-arquette-fiancee-fight-christina-mclarty-baby-breastfeeding/

watch this vid.

I bet he wanted her to suck his dick and she said no. Look at the result. 99.9% of marriages fail cause woman doesnt care about pleasing man sexually. Sex is 50% of a relationship, everything else = the other 50%. In all mamals sexual intercourses serve as a very powerful anti depressant. Refusing it to your partner means you dont really care about him/her.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #81 on: October 29, 2014, 06:37:52 AM »
Agreed

Sometimes I will judge a man purely on how long I think he will last in the wild.


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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #82 on: October 29, 2014, 06:47:03 AM »
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.

She'll just do the same things to that new boyfriend in the future.  

During a divorce a woman has many tools at her disposal... claiming she was abused, claiming her children were abused, she can cry, etc.  She will lie and say anything to get what she wants.

A friend of mine is about to get divorced.  He's been married 15 years.  His wife is 40 and her new boyfriend is 26.  She's always been somewhat of a sociopath and he knew this before marrying her, but he did it anyway.  I told him she was nuts when he first met her, but I guess critical thinking and logic cannot compete with a tight wet pussy.

Men are absolutely insane to get married today.  Why marry a cow when you can get the milk for free?  It makes no fucking sense at all.  Societal/religious traditions and peer pressure ruin lives.  

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #83 on: October 29, 2014, 06:47:47 AM »

Look at the result. 99.9% of marriages fail cause woman doesnt care about pleasing man sexually.




100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #84 on: October 29, 2014, 06:56:02 AM »

100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.
most women are ignorant of the importance of pleasing their man sexually because often their own mother or female advisers didnt understand it. They just dont understand how it works. Somewhat they re immature, it's not their fault.  You have to teach her how important sex is for the stability of the relationship. I'm not talking about having "great sex" everytime you have sex, im talking about HAVING SEX  great or less great, everytime man feels the urge. It will always be great for man to empty his nuts anyways. And woman will be please to have been able to calm him. Yeah, we re barely evolved chimpanzees, deal with it.
Often women dont understand sex, its purpose; they have to be taught. Then they learn giving sex to their man = calm and stability , at this point they start giving more of it without you asking cause they finally understand how it works. And they ll "love" -be attached to you- even more for that.
 They might find it being a sign of submission,and it is, but hey, that's how nature works, men didnt choose any of it. Men have to work and are stressed to face the competition daily, the least they deserve in return is to be pleased sexually. A woman who accept to submit to her man during sex accept her natural place and finds solace in embracing it. If she doesnt, well she s the one who has a problem. She refuses the natural way of things.

For a man sex, is sex; it will always blow man's mind and calm him, it's the most natural and powerful antidepressant that exists. Refusing to administer it is looking for trouble.
 Women who come from stable, religious families often know the importance of sex to reassure/calm their husband.
If a healthy, happy man is with the same women for decades, you can be sure his wife is giving him all the sex he always needed whenever he needed it.

This is why it is very important to make sure the woman you want to live with, comes from a stable family where her mother was able to keep her husband happy in bed. Look at the mother to know what kind of woman you re going to have to deal with. So many women have been brainwashed by feminist mothers/aunts/friends and they keep propagating these bullshits among themselves. Fact is a woman who please her man sexually and dont play games using sex to make him feel miserable has greater chances of keeping him than the other witches.
Find a woman who has a mother who knew how to please her man and was submissive in sex, or find a woman who doesnt understand it but is willing to learn. If a woman come from a dysfunctional family where parents separated cause mother didnt want to suck fahter's dick, ask their daughter if she wants to repeat it.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #85 on: October 29, 2014, 06:56:34 AM »

100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.

Sex is just a tool for women to get what they want from men.  Their goals are: 1. To have a kid(sperm donation) at some point before their biological clock stops and  2. To have financial security via the mans earnings.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #86 on: October 29, 2014, 06:59:00 AM »
Sex is just a tool for women to get what they want from men.  Their goals are: 1. To have a kid(sperm donation) at some point before their biological clock stops and  2. To have financial security via the mans earnings.
It's up to you to dont let your woman use her body as her own tool to bully you and let her know she is, her body is, Your tool.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #87 on: October 29, 2014, 07:01:12 AM »
Sex is just a tool for women to get what they want from men.  Their goals are: 1. To have a kid(sperm donation) at some point before their biological clock stops and  2. To have financial security via the mans earnings.
most women have no conscious "goals" in mind, they just replicate what they ve been exposed to in their family, what they ve been, are, advised to do by mother figures or what they hear/see on tv/radio. Often you have teach them what you want from them, but it requires one to know what he wants in the first place and be able to communicate it with tact.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #88 on: October 29, 2014, 07:03:32 AM »
There is no perfect marriage; even the good looking rich stars/elites divorce. Perfection isnt what you re supposed to look for. A strong marriage, is what you should aim at. Strenght. There are poor, ugly people, with strong ties.
Marriage is an alliance to increase both male and female odds of survival until they can produce an offspring, then rest of life is spent making sure you give the best odds of survival to your offspring so it can beat the competition and so on. Power is the only thing that matters, as power equal better odds of survival. We re all fighting for power, we re all suposed to produce powerful offsprings that will defeat weaker opponents and who will ally with powerful mates once adults. Power, domination, it's what we all run after, and there s nothing worse than losing power -at work, in your family- which is often a death sentence. Failing = death. In other animal species, when an animal fail, it dies. This is why failing makes us depressed, cause we re animals. It reminds us that in a long gone past, we would probably have died. Also noone is interested in losers, losers stink death, this is why we re naturally attracted by powerful people, because we want to learn from them their best strategies of survival to include them in our own panel of strategies of survival.

An alpha male dominate at work, in his family and raise alpha kids who will keep the tradition going. He obviously is with one or several alpha women.




http://www.tmz.com/2014/10/21/david-arquette-fiancee-fight-christina-mclarty-baby-breastfeeding/

watch this vid.

I bet he wanted her to suck his dick and she said no. Look at the result. 99.9% of marriages fail cause woman doesnt care about pleasing man sexually. Sex is 50% of a relationship, everything else = the other 50%. In all mamals sexual intercourses serve as a very powerful anti depressant. Refusing it to your partner means you dont really care about him/her.

Fantastic post

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #89 on: October 29, 2014, 07:07:39 AM »
whats up with these women not putting out anymore-my ex always pleased me and I miss that at times-my gf had very low test and is now on the test cream and is back on track sexually-is it a hormonal thing/??

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #90 on: October 29, 2014, 07:15:39 AM »
Jesus, Uberman is crushing this thread out of the park. SOLID posts !!

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #91 on: October 29, 2014, 07:17:10 AM »
whats up with these women not putting out anymore-my ex always pleased me and I miss that at times-my gf had very low test and is now on the test cream and is back on track sexually-is it a hormonal thing/??


It's more than that. It's a " power " thing, in my opinion.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #92 on: October 29, 2014, 07:19:33 AM »
meaning power in the relationship-to have the upper hand since they are insecure etc-at least my gf is older -I couldn't imagine how it is w these 20 or 30 yr olds instagram whores

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #93 on: October 29, 2014, 07:21:56 AM »
forget about sex for a minute-what about affection-like taking care of the man-cuddling -basic comforting-I never wanted that from my ex but I love it now-does that stop too lol

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #94 on: October 29, 2014, 07:26:18 AM »
meaning power in the relationship-to have the upper hand since they are insecure etc-at least my gf is older -I couldn't imagine how it is w these 20 or 30 yr olds instagram whores

Pussy = Power


forget about sex for a minute-what about affection-like taking care of the man-cuddling -basic comforting-I never wanted that from my ex but I love it now-does that stop too lol

Who knows. Depends on the chick. How old are you ? 19 ?

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #95 on: October 29, 2014, 07:41:53 AM »
forget about sex for a minute-what about affection-like taking care of the man-cuddling -basic comforting-I never wanted that from my ex but I love it now-does that stop too lol
well  why not have both? in any normal stable relationship there s an alternance of cuddling and sex. One often leading to the other.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #96 on: October 29, 2014, 07:43:56 AM »
oh totally agree with that gotta have both

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #97 on: October 29, 2014, 09:23:34 AM »
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.
sad story bro

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #98 on: October 29, 2014, 11:06:46 AM »
Yes, but you can leave the relationship anytime you want... no strings. 

A marriage makes it legally and financially binding... you can't just get up and leave without huge financial ramifications.

Have you never heard of common law marriage or palimony?

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #99 on: October 29, 2014, 11:09:11 AM »
Its 2014....

a huge red flag if your wife/gf has no career aspirations or career. My wife makes double the amount of money I do, which is great. however, she will want kids by the time in 34. i am not looking for that. Literally have zero interest in it.

If you are planning to get married, make sure she has a job and plans on working for a living. My mother in law is a stay at home idiot and I think my wife was smart enough to see how pathetic that was growing up with a mom who valued lunch dates with girlfriends to gossip as something important