Another reason not to get married

[eastonb]

I have never believed in marriage

[Shockwave]

Its 2014....

a huge red flag if your wife/gf has no career aspirations or career. My wife makes double the amount of money I do, which is great. however, she will want kids by the time in 34. i am not looking for that. Literally have zero interest in it.

If you are planning to get married, make sure she has a job and plans on working for a living. My mother in law is a stay at home idiot and I think my wife was smart enough to see how pathetic that was growing up with a mom who valued lunch dates with girlfriends to gossip as something important

dont understand why one is any more valuable or important than another.

My wife is going to school online, but shes staying home and raising our son full time as i make enough to support us.

Shes going to school for the possible eventuality that she may have to go to work at some point in the future to provide for us; but right now we both prefer that she stays home.. it just matches both of our more traditional values, that she stays home and takes care of our son and the home, and i provide.

She doesnt do lunch gossip dates, she doesnt do 'girl time', or any of that stupid bullshit though. The extent of what she does is meeting another mom from our gym for a playdate for our son.

I think its great if a woman has career aspirations; but thats not really the type of woman i want. I want one that values family and spending time with loved ones... i dont want a woman i see 2 hours a day since shes putting in 14 hour days at the office sacrificing her home life for her career. No thanks.

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dont understand why one is any more valuable or important than another.

My wife is going to school online, but shes staying home and raising our son full time as i make enough to support us.

Shes going to school for the possible eventuality that she may have to go to work at some point in the future to provide for us; but right now we both prefer that she stays home.. it just matches both of our more traditional values, that she stays home and takes care of our son and the home, and i provide.

She doesnt do lunch gossip dates, she doesnt do 'girl time', or any of that stupid bullshit though. The extent of what she does is meeting another mom from our gym for a playdate for our son.

I think its great if a woman has career aspirations; but thats not really the type of woman i want. I want one that values family and spending time with loved ones... i dont want a woman i see 2 hours a day since shes putting in 14 hour days at the office sacrificing her home life for her career. No thanks.

My wife had a great career in software, but we could live comfortably on my salary so she could raise our son, so that's what we did.

[Primemuscle]

dont understand why one is any more valuable or important than another.

My wife is going to school online, but shes staying home and raising our son full time as i make enough to support us.

Shes going to school for the possible eventuality that she may have to go to work at some point in the future to provide for us; but right now we both prefer that she stays home.. it just matches both of our more traditional values, that she stays home and takes care of our son and the home, and i provide.

She doesnt do lunch gossip dates, she doesnt do 'girl time', or any of that stupid bullshit though. The extent of what she does is meeting another mom from our gym for a playdate for our son.

I think its great if a woman has career aspirations; but thats not really the type of woman i want. I want one that values family and spending time with loved ones... i dont want a woman i see 2 hours a day since shes putting in 14 hour days at the office sacrificing her home life for her career. No thanks.

I agree. So often both parents are so busy working they have no time for their children which is why so many children seem to be raising themselves. It is great if at least one parent can be their for the kids, especially when they are young.

My wife worked as did I, but our kids were I first priority and not our careers. Both my daughter-in-law and daughter were stay at home moms when their kids were growing up.

There is nothing wrong with traditional values.

[Thong Maniac]

Im merely pointing out that a girl who comes out of college and is just looking to get knocked up and married and stay at home is a red flag for young guys. I wasnt really talking about 30 somethings with kids who need to take care of them.

Lol at traditional values though, whatever the fuck that means. Sounds like a sarah palin campaign ad. When i hear "values" i want to barf

[Primemuscle]

Lol at traditional values though, whatever the fuck that means. Sounds like a sarah palin campaign ad. When i hear "values" i want to barf

It's a term which means different things to different people. I'd hardly call Sarah Palin and her family traditional, unless one thinks of basic white trash as being traditional. Of course, we all know the campaign adds are fabrications and lies designed to make the politician look good.

Another thing that's interesting is when folks suggest there is something wrong with ladies who lunch, but think it is just fine that guys have guy time with their friends.

[Shockwave]

Im merely pointing out that a girl who comes out of college and is just looking to get knocked up and married and stay at home is a red flag for young guys. I wasnt really talking about 30 somethings with kids who need to take care of them.

Lol at traditional values though, whatever the fuck that means. Sounds like a sarah palin campaign ad. When i hear "values" i want to barf

im most cases i agree, although my wife isnt a 30 something, shes 22 and we have a 2 year old son.

Traditional values in this case means i go to work and make the money, and she stays home, cleans the house and changes diapers. Basically she does the house wifey shit i dont want to do and in return i pay the bills and takr out the trash.

Works out great for us both.

[Natural Man]

im most cases i agree, although my wife isnt a 30 something, shes 22 and we have a 2 year old son.

Traditional values in this case means i go to work and make the money, and she stays home, cleans the house and changes diapers. Basically she does the house wifey shit i dont want to do and in return i pay the bills and takr out the trash.

Works out great for us both.

"thong maniac" probably think he ll have a harem of 10s working for him as a family.

[Tedim]

Beta male behavior in this thread, be a whiny cunt and your woman will leave and fuck someone else....

I would be be in a muff diving threesome 1 hr after any divorce threat. Women want BAD men, be a good guy and finish last.....the second they smell your independence gone, they are too. 

[Tedim]

also the quality of the woman is very important....some uneducated, fugly, talentless skunt from a trash family is a sure bet for slutism.

[El Diablo Blanco]

I don't know if I'm old fashioned or not but I don't want a woman I marry to blow me unless it's something she likes doing.  I love dirty whores to suck me off but not my wife. 

[Natural Man]

I don't know if I'm old fashioned or not but I don't want a woman I marry to blow me unless it's something she likes doing.  I love dirty whores to suck me off but not my wife.  

so your wife doesnt give you blowjobs, and you cheat on her with mistresses/whores on the side? Is that your definition of being "old fashioned" ? As i stated numerous times on here, why not have both, a private whore that will also take care of home and kids -and work part time- ?

[Tedim]

so your wife doesnt give you blowjobs, and you cheat on her with mistresses/whores on the side? Is that your definition of being "old fashioned" ?

no its a joke from the Billy Crystal - Dinero movie.... "she kisses my kids with that mouth"

[The_Iron_Disciple]

so your wife doesnt give you blowjobs, and you cheat on her with mistresses/whores on the side? Is that your definition of being "old fashioned" ? As i stated numerous times on here, why not have both, a private whore that will also take care of home and kids -and work part time- ?

HAHAHA !! Some idea of " old fashioned " I suppose !!

Totally agree with Uber. Dated a woman that was a complete lady outside the bedroom. Inside the bedroom she made Jenna Jameson seem like something off a Disney movie.

[Natural Man]

no its a joke from the Billy Crystal - Dinero movie.... "she kisses my kids with that mouth"

well if more wives/mothers breaths were smelling of daddy's semen in the morning there would be way fewer kids without a father.

[gracie bjj]

Just be the best father you can to him, he will love you for that.

u r right,i was working nights at the gym when he was born then watching him all day till my wife got home from work at 7pm.i started at 12 midnight and finished at 8am,id go home and the wife is getting ready to leave and i take over and hang with him. i never looked at it as hard cause i had so much fun with him it was great,kinda like lifting,its a labor of love. i was tired tho sleeping 3 hrs or less aday but i never complained,my wifes on this trip now where shes trying to get him to side with her on everything, for instance i forgot she was picking him up from school last week so i show up also,my son goes running full speed to my car and blows right by my wife not saying anything,she gets mad at me for that ???shes says whats up with that to him,he says(mommy i like driving in daddys corvette and your car is slow and u drive like old lady i felt bad and told him dont be so raw and be more respectful toi mommy,anyway she gets mad at me cause of that. its like she doesnt want him loving me more than her,i dont know

[BigNJ]

Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.

[mazrim]

Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.

Sounds like you made some "stupid" relationship/dating choices in life...

[gracie bjj]

Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy

holy shit man u musta been married to my wife before me cause u just described r life to the T
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.

man u really described everything to the T,i was reading everything from 1 to 10 and u where right on pretty much all of them, my wife was naturally thin so the fatso witch hasnt come thru yet but i can see her little by little turning into that for u unmarried guys listen and take notes cause we r trying to save u guys that arent screwed yet.ofcoarse some of u  may be the lucky ones that find a perfect partner but the odds r slim,very slim.i never listened to good advice on marraige and now im depressed as hell and looking to get out of this shit,my sons the thing i feel bad about in all of this tho

[Tedim]

Found out recently through my wife's really chatty best friend a thing or two about my wife's past. Initially when we were dating she told me certain things were things she had never done before and didn't want to try.

Turns out she did them with her exboyfriend. I talked to her about it, she told me she did them back then and enjoyed it. But doesn't want to do them with me. (anal/bdsm/threesome)

And when I asked she didn't really give me any reasoning. She just said she didn't want to.

I can't help but be hurt over this it has damaged my ego and self confidence. She knows I am hurt over this, but hasn't really given me an answer. So I am looking to you guys.

Don't tell me divorce we have been together for 20 years, and she is the mother of my two children. I am not going to leave her over this.

I am not saying that I feel entitled to those acts, but I do feel entitled to an explanation of why.

those END relationships thats why she doesnt want to do them

[El Diablo Blanco]

man u really described everything to the T,i was reading everything from 1 to 10 and u where right on pretty much all of them, my wife was naturally thin so the fatso witch hasnt come thru yet but i can see her little by little turning into that for u unmarried guys listen and take notes cause we r trying to save u guys that arent screwed yet.ofcoarse some of u  may be the lucky ones that find a perfect partner but the odds r slim,very slim.i never listened to good advice on marraige and now im depressed as hell and looking to get out of this shit,my sons the thing i feel bad about in all of this tho

7- Women are fucking psychos


That's the only list needed.

[anabolichalo]

Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, men often go bald and in many cases get fat, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.

i edited your post for fair completion

[anabolichalo]

Another example of how many women are fake and manipulative.

The hair, the makeup, the clothes. Like a used car salesman putting a fresh coat of paint over a rust bucket and selling for top dollar.

Acting all pure and innocent like an angel in day to day life, but behind closed doors is into being degraded like a whore.

All smoke and mirrors.

so true 

[Shockwave]

those END relationships thats why she doesnt want to do them

well, anal doesnt... everything else does.

I concur, those are things that can take relationships to bad places, 3somes are something you do when you dont care about losing the woman..... that shit tears people apart. Women get super jealous, men want to chase the new pussy, etc.

Sometimes women are differently sexually with someone they love than they are when theyre young and fucking around, because their feelings and insecurities override their lust.

Its a shitty situation.

[gracie bjj]

I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.

thats messed up,a person should never play with another persons feelings cause bad things can happen like that.ive been hurt like that before and man its hard as hell to get thru it,TIME is the only healer,good freinds and some PUSSY on the side never hurt either :Di wasnt eating,listening to radio,afraid to go near her area cause i was afraid id see her with other guy ect,its pure hell and dont wish that on anyone.but once u feel better u look back on it and laugh,trust me fellas u will get thru it and b that much better for it.