You need to put yourself in her shoes. She is in a limbo, she made a bad mistake and is stuck between a rock and a hard place. She cant publicly come out and say that i fucked up joining ISIS, these guys are bunch of retards and sadistic animals, because guess what? if she doesnt get re-entry permission, she has to go live with those same people.
Its easy for you and i sitting in the comfort of our homes and in a democratic country saying she should do this and that, but for someone living amongst those animals in a third world country, a section thats controlled by ISIS, well she needs to be very careful what she says.
To me, this is no different than a young girl chosing the wrong life, becoming a prostitute, and seeing how terrible life is and her getting treated like shit by her pimp, and the cops refuse to help her because she decided in the first place to run away from home and quit school and become a prostitute or even charge her for being a prostitue, when she came to them for help in teh first place.
Yes people are responsible for their decisions, but there are alot of people who make bad decisions.
You are completely missing the point. And no it is nothing like the prostitute example that you gave.
She willingly joined an organization she knows is butchering and raping it's way across the Middle East and into Europe and the West. And if the toiletries had been better, she would have stayed with that organization.
The prostitute example is not even remotely comparable.
The prostitute has degraded herself and wants redemption.
This monstrosity has joined an organization that decimates villages and rapes and dismembers the women and children, and she does not regret that. She does not want redemption. She wants a higher standard of living and realizes that her heroes cannot provide it.