What is the sham you reference?
I'm going to give my 2 cents worth of opinion on this issue.
For starters I grew up as a moderate Christian and even went to Sunday school until age 15.
As I studied various religions and world history , I changed my view.
I'm NOT a Christian now, because I don't believe in the: resurrection , virgin birth or think Jesus was the actual son of GOD.
I DO think the teachings of Jesus have some unique spiritual wisdom and may have been divinely inspired.
In my opinion, the Bible offers some timeless spiritual wisdom and is worth reading.
My profession is teaching physics , and that helps guide my intellect.
BUT, only a fool would try to fall in love using some scientific equation.
Love and faith are real experiences to us as humans, but quite different from a mathematical science.
My brain uses logic to decide the correct answers in physics or accounting, etc.
My heart and soul guides me when it comes to questions of love and faith.
As humans we can and should do BOTH.