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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #125 on: May 25, 2015, 04:39:44 PM »
Never change, da_vinci.

Being completely clueless about family life and raising children at least makes for some humorous reads....


I could write many humorous things about a family life too, but too lazy, and too happy with my own life. The most humorous I find that people forget that life is pretty damn short and their efforts of any kind are doomed to dissapear when the time comes, it's all futile, kids or no kids. A desperate attempt for a "meaning" of an intelligent animal.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #126 on: May 25, 2015, 05:13:53 PM »
I could write many humorous things about a family life too, but too lazy, and too happy with my own life. The most humorous I find that people forget that life is pretty damn short and their efforts of any kind are doomed to dissapear when the time comes, it's all futile, kids or no kids. A desperate attempt for a "meaning" of an intelligent animal.

But you're not too lazy or too happy to post the same stuff over and over every single time one of these threads appears.
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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #127 on: May 25, 2015, 05:25:07 PM »
Never change, da_vinci.

Being completely clueless about life , at least makes for some humorous reads....


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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #128 on: May 25, 2015, 05:30:59 PM »
I don't like what DaVinci writes because that stuff does not give you hope and everything else I'm not interested.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #129 on: May 25, 2015, 05:31:59 PM »
But you're not too lazy or too happy to post the same stuff over and over every single time one of these threads appears.

Just like each of us.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #130 on: May 26, 2015, 02:18:39 AM »
Live the life you want to live.
Just try and make sure you won't end up regretting the decisions you make.

Living a single and successful life is fun for sure. However, most truly successful men usually end up settling down and starting a family eventually.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #131 on: May 26, 2015, 03:09:28 AM »
I could write many humorous things about a family life too, but too lazy, and too happy with my own life. The most humorous I find that people forget that life is pretty damn short and their efforts of any kind are doomed to dissapear when the time comes, it's all futile, kids or no kids. A desperate attempt for a "meaning" of an intelligent animal.

Diversity is never a bad thing. Neither is choice. Option to pick your preferences? Or poisons for that matter...

Frankly, I find most any and all discussions around this topic to be pretty...enigmatic.

People who are firmly on either side of the fence are firmly in the "sounds too pretentious to pay heed to" camp.

This is too trivial a thing to feel strongly about one way or another...

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #132 on: May 26, 2015, 04:32:48 AM »
Live the life you want to live.
Just try and make sure you won't end up regretting the decisions you make.

Living a single and successful life is fun for sure. However, most truly successful men usually end up settling down and starting a family eventually.
Disagree, If you have no regrets you haven't truly lived. And more failed men end up marrying than successful ones.
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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #133 on: May 26, 2015, 06:10:37 AM »
Disagree, If you have no regrets you haven't truly lived. And more failed men end up marrying than successful ones.

Everyone has regrets but something as major as starting a family or not is a regret that you sure as hell wouldn't want to make.
Most failed men can't get women to begin with so usually stay single for life.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #134 on: May 26, 2015, 06:24:49 AM »
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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #135 on: May 26, 2015, 06:29:00 AM »
Like davinci said, the second you die your life doesn't matter anyway, you go back to the darkness just like you were billions of years before you were born.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #136 on: May 26, 2015, 06:29:40 AM »
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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #137 on: May 26, 2015, 06:37:39 AM »
why the continuous need to reaffirm being single is "great"....like a fking gay pride parade on getbig









its so fking great...need a circle jerk reaffirmation every week...lol

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #138 on: May 26, 2015, 06:43:58 AM »
why the continuous need to reaffirm being single is "great"....like a fking gay pride parade on getbig

its so fking great...need a circle jerk reaffirmation every week...lol

These "circle jerks" are a good thing.  If it wakes one more man up to the legal/financial ramifications of marriage and divorce, so be it.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #139 on: May 26, 2015, 06:50:29 AM »
why the continuous need to reaffirm being single is "great"....like a fking gay pride parade on getbig

its so fking great...need a circle jerk reaffirmation every week...lol

Because the old "system" clearly doesn't work/is flawed most of the time.



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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #140 on: May 26, 2015, 06:51:46 AM »
These "circle jerks" are a good thing.  If we can wake one more man up to the legal/financial ramifications of marriage and divorce, so be it.

The classic story of the poor bastard who gets his ass kicked from the time he hits the snooze on his alarm at 6 am is a bit over played during these discussions.

Pretty much all of the guys I know who are married will give the occasional "I kinda miss going out and doing it up like the old days routine" but by and large they are all seemingly happy with their lives and love their kids.

I have a good friend who has 3 daughters and intends to keep cranking them out until he finally gets his son.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #141 on: May 26, 2015, 06:57:39 AM »
The classic story of the poor bastard who gets his ass kicked from the time he hits the snooze on his alarm at 6 am is a bit over played during these discussions.

Pretty much all of the guys I know who are married will give the occasional "I kinda miss going out and doing it up like the old days routine" but by and large they are all seemingly happy with their lives and love their kids.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #142 on: May 26, 2015, 07:45:54 AM »
Obviously there are people who are wired to be single, those wired to be married to the same person for a long time, and those wired to be married, but switch partners through out life. You will find happiness when you figure out which one of those you are. Trying to be anything but what you are wired for = unhappiness

That about sums it up

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #143 on: May 26, 2015, 07:52:26 AM »
The classic story of the poor bastard who gets his ass kicked from the time he hits the snooze on his alarm at 6 am is a bit over played during these discussions.

Pretty much all of the guys I know who are married will give the occasional "I kinda miss going out and doing it up like the old days routine" but by and large they are all seemingly happy with their lives and love their kids.

I have a good friend who has 3 daughters and intends to keep cranking them out until he finally gets his son.

Lazy conscious animals with nothing else to do, pretty much sums it up. I'd be glad that fella would stop as there are way too many stupid people on earth already. he's not doing a favour to anyone, except his own egoistical goals.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #144 on: May 26, 2015, 08:03:59 AM »
Lazy conscious animals with nothing else to do, pretty much sums it up. I'd be glad that fella would stop as there are way too many stupid people on earth already. he's not doing a favour to anyone, except his own egoistical goals.

You sound like a great guy. People must really love being around you.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #145 on: May 26, 2015, 08:10:44 AM »
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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #146 on: May 26, 2015, 08:38:00 AM »
The classic story of the poor bastard who gets his ass kicked from the time he hits the snooze on his alarm at 6 am is a bit over played during these discussions.

Pretty much all of the guys I know who are married will give the occasional "I kinda miss going out and doing it up like the old days routine" but by and large they are all seemingly happy with their lives and love their kids.

I have a good friend who has 3 daughters and intends to keep cranking them out until he finally gets his son.

Well, divorce rate is exceedingly high these days.

But it really all comes down to the current position you're in. I bet if you're friend gets divorced, and has to pay child support, alimony, and his wife gets half his pension (if he has one), he would be singing a whole different tune about being married. The grass is always greener on the other side. There are pros and cons about being married. And pros and cons about being single. I guess it depends on the person. The issue is that people will always find something to bitch and moan about. Its human nature.
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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #147 on: May 26, 2015, 08:46:47 AM »
There are pros and cons about being married. And pros and cons about being single. I guess it depends on the person.

This post could end every one of these threads.
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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #148 on: May 26, 2015, 08:50:31 AM »
The classic story of the poor bastard who gets his ass kicked from the time he hits the snooze on his alarm at 6 am is a bit over played during these discussions.

Pretty much all of the guys I know who are married will give the occasional "I kinda miss going out and doing it up like the old days routine" but by and large they are all seemingly happy with their lives and love their kids.

I have a good friend who has 3 daughters and intends to keep cranking them out until he finally gets his son.

You must be young because most of the guys I know who used to be married are divorced now.  The negatives far outweigh the positives.

These days about 60% of all marriages end in divorce.  It is very high risk for very little reward.  It's like going to a casino... you might win for a little while, but eventually the casino ends up with all your money.

Marriage is a legally binding financial agreement.  More often than not the man makes more money than the woman.  After the divorce the woman takes 50% of the assets, the house and the kids.  The man basically has to start all over again from scratch.... devastating.

The traditionalists on here make me fucking laugh.  Try some critical thinking.

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Re: My friend seems to be happiest in his "forever alone/single" life
« Reply #149 on: May 26, 2015, 08:59:25 AM »
You must be young because most of the guys I know who used to be married are divorced now.  The negatives far outweigh the positives.

These days about 60% of all marriages end in divorce.  It is very high risk for very little reward.  It's like going to a casino... you might win for a little while, but eventually the casino ends up with all your money.

Marriage is a legally binding financial agreement.  More often than not the man makes more money than the woman.  After the divorce the woman takes 50% of the assets, the house and the kids.  The man basically has to start all over again from scratch.... devastating.

The traditionalists on here make me fucking laugh.  Try some critical thinking.
My parents were married for 43 tears before separating, my Mum now believes marriage is extremely unnatural.  The irony is both there parents (my grandparents) on both sides also separated after 43 years of marriage.  Like most couples, my parents had no business being together, completely incompatible and only stuck it out due to societal expectations and pressure.  The only people who have faith in marriage are the young and naive who tend to romantacise most everything due to lack of experience. Marriage these days only benefits women while punishing men.  Men in general are no longer valued, when once they were providers and protectors, now they are viewed as rapists and pedophiles.  The only men who do well in relationships these days are the mommies boys who are content doing as their Mother wife tells them
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