Husband and wife competing on looks?

[_aj_]

Aj thanks for keeping the thread real instead of it being overrun with arm chair comics.

Yeah she def is pretty wrapped up in her looks. I worry about my body mainly, i domt care about clothes or cars or that shit. My body is what i take care of. I can see how this would make girls not sure of themselves and insecure in a way, but i have been like this since we met, so the "getting in shape for an affair" thing is dumb on her part

The important thing to realize is that you're never going to be able to shut that part of her brain off, so the best that you can do is both acknowledge that it is there and move on. Ask her simply: "would you prefer that I look like this (this is a good time to show her a peaked bicep) or would you prefer that I was fat with no muscle?" She will laugh and say what you know she will.

Hold her to that.

[YngiweRhoads]

I attract a lot of attention due to my physique, hair and face from both men and women. Even though my g/f is beautiful I garner most of the attention in public. She doesn't mind because I'm with her.

[Thong Maniac]

I attract a lot of attention due to my physique, hair and face from both men and women. Even though my g/f is beautiful I garner most of the attention in public. She doesn't mind because I'm with her.

Must be nice man, im actually jealous.

[Howard]

Your first mistake was getting married.

Now you're talkin' 

[Wiggs]

Sounds like she may be insecure stud.  I'd ask her why she is insecure.  She's wearing it like a stinky perfume.

[The Grim Lifter]

Aj thanks for keeping the thread real instead of it being overrun with arm chair comics.

Yeah she def is pretty wrapped up in her looks. I worry about my body mainly, i domt care about clothes or cars or that shit. My body is what i take care of. I can see how this would make girls not sure of themselves and insecure in a way, but i have been like this since we met, so the "getting in shape for an affair" thing is dumb on her part

Women are always right so you should have that affair otherwise she'd be wrong....and she can't be women are always right.

[XFACTOR]

Yup. Every woman has this thought lurking in the back of their minds. Every. Damn. One. Of. Them.

Especially after they have a baby.  They say men are supposed to gain some shit called "sympathy weight"? Instead I took the opportunity to get more shredded.  I'm currently paying the price 

I'm not sure what happened but her body changed or diet regimen maybe.  She can't nail her diet like she used to or doesn't care to? I don't know

[O.Z.]

Obviously she thinks your getting in shape
for someone else.   That's how most affairs
start...

this might be the right answer, her insecurities can be the reason for this reaction. But she sure enjoys all those looks she gets from guys on the beach.
Make her happy and be chubby or make yourself happy, healthy, confident and keep being fit&lean. Not hard choice isn't it?

[Yamcha]

Especially after they have a baby.  They say men are supposed to gain some shit called "sympathy weight"? Instead I took the opportunity to get more shredded.  I'm currently paying the price 

I'm not sure what happened but her body changed or diet regimen maybe.  She can't nail her diet like she used to or doesn't care to? I don't know

Leave her and the baby. Or nail the immigrant maid. Those are the only two options besides killing yourself.

[Thong Maniac]

Lolxxx

[funk51]

My wife hit me with a load of shit argument the other day. She has been on my ass making snide comments about how she likes me bigger aka chubbier, asking me how many cals i ate, tracking my food intake and giving me shit about it...all because im leaning up and looking good now. I called her out and it came out "i feel like your competing with me"... So fucked up cuz i would never in a million years think that way or even be so devious to "compete" on sex appeal with my wife. It was laughable but actually hurt to think she thought that. So insteasd of being supportive of my work ethic in gym and ability to not self destruct with binges, shes annoyed cuz i look good. Ridiculous.

And my wife is no fatty...bolt on tits, tiny waist with abs. At the beach this summer, every teen boy and man is gawking at her. Very in shape

Whats up here? Anyone else get this shit at home? Is this just pure insecurity from a woman?

simple she's looking for a permabulker...

[funk51]

simple she's looking for a permabulker...

better get eating these guys have a huge jump on you... break out the xxxl bikini...