1) do enjoy your life, be comfortable in your own skin, seek God/truth/spirituality... (find Him in Jesus)
I have no respect for fuckups who pull shit like taytay does - the speed at with which they return from ruin to dispatch sage like advice is scandalous.
For a fuckup, Jesus is merely an abstract representation of their prodigious lack of self control without an overarching reward scheme hanging over them.
Christians who didn't need to fuck themselves up on drugs or contract deadly diseases before deluding themselves don't deserve to be in the same group or even the same place.
Metaphorically, that is.