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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #25 on: August 21, 2015, 08:00:10 PM »

The quick answer is yes, people can and do fall in love over the phone and internet. However, there are degrees of love between couples.

The internet and phone affair probably hides plenty and when people meet disillusion will set in. The little faults on both sides will become more important.

The real question behind your question is whether a hot, intelligent gal could fall in love with someone like you. The quick answer here is obvious: no possible way.

Ask yourself this. Are you the kind of person who has integrity, is honest, and is a good person? Do you fabricate things and upset people? Do you lose your temper easily?

Have you had long term affairs in the past? What about your upbringing? Do you know how to share intimacy with someone close?

From what we have seen here there is no way in hell a smart woman would remain in a relationship with you. Take your substance abuse and other extremes.

You do not have a single male friend who is close. You turn against people who befriend you then try to buy friendship with all manner of unsuitable candidates.

Again, are you the kind of guy who others want to be friends with? Even hapless Josh dislikes you except for money you might send him. He doesn't think

someone like you should own a dog. Now that is a powerful statement and a sobering one as well. You need a reality check.

So that leaves bigmc. Sorry, but he was never your mate. He merely wanted to check out who you were. End of story.

Btw, anyone who has to post for relationship advice here on Getbig has to be considered naive, foolish and perhaps pathetic. In other words, a loser.

Hope this helps.


By the way, you do know the formula re how to make women fall in love with you. When that fails toss a few dollars their way. Works like a charm.

That is the easy part for a good talker like you. The hard part is how to sustain the woman's love when she finds out who you really are. Since your feelings are

not deep or genuine you fall out of love as easily as you fell in love. This sad cycle persists endlessly for you. It is always the next hot gal who is the real love of your life!

Thus, all your relationships will end in disaster. You then resort to substance abuse to console yourself and escape from the painful reality that

follows you like a heavy weight. All your posturing trying to look successful and tough are a diversion. The Flotsam are not impressed with

bullshitters. Finally, let other tongues praise you and not your own mouth.


You said this was a quick answer.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #26 on: August 21, 2015, 08:02:05 PM »
Absolutely. Most people on here know I met my wife on here. We communicated for months, PM's, Email, phone (no texting back then) we were in love before we even met face to face. We're going on 8 years of marriage and it will be almost 12 years we've been together.

Had no idea. Wow.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #27 on: August 21, 2015, 08:06:34 PM »
Btw, I live in HB. She is from Guam. More than 7000mi away.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #28 on: August 21, 2015, 09:09:07 PM »
Absolutely. Most people on here know I met my wife on here. We communicated for months, PM's, Email, phone (no texting back then) we were in love before we even met face to face. We're going on 8 years of marriage and it will be almost 12 years we've been together.

As in this very forum???
May seem like a real dumb question but need to ask anyway.
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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #29 on: August 21, 2015, 09:24:20 PM »
Btw, I live in HB. She is from Guam. More than 7000mi away.
Mail order bride?
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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #30 on: August 21, 2015, 09:40:45 PM »
Mail order bride?

Guam is a U.S. Territory. She went it NC state but graduated from UK.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #31 on: August 21, 2015, 10:12:19 PM »
but have talked to for a very long time on the internet, shared pictures and video's with, spoke to for h ours on phone and even spoke to members of their family and gotten to know that person really well.

can u you ever develop actual real feelings for someone on the internet that you have never met

or is it always a fantasy and considered an e-romance until you actually meet and exchange bodily fluids



It is a fantasy because you don't really know the person.  You just know the person who they would like to be. 

Not saying you can't get through that - but most real -> internet transitions are momentarily quite awkward.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #32 on: August 21, 2015, 10:19:19 PM »
Guam is a U.S. Territory. She went it NC state but graduated from UK.

She must have many military friends  ;)

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #33 on: August 21, 2015, 10:32:24 PM »
Guam is a U.S. Territory. She went it NC state but graduated from UK.

Did you tell her your height before you met?
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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #34 on: August 21, 2015, 10:39:52 PM »
You said this was a quick answer.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #35 on: August 21, 2015, 10:58:59 PM »
Did you tell her your height before you met?

She's 4" shorter. Im a giant. Hahaha.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #36 on: August 21, 2015, 11:03:02 PM »
Mail order bride?

Good reminder for me to look into that!
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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #37 on: August 22, 2015, 05:45:05 AM »
until you smell and taste someone, it has very little meaning.

Met up with a woman (and I told her why) was not gonna see her again. Her snatch was pure stink.

I swear it's an epidemic these days and I honestly think the culprit is these IUD's that have become a popular form of birth control now. Seems every woman I've been with the smelly snatch problem uses these as birth control.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #38 on: August 22, 2015, 05:52:34 AM »
I swear it's an epidemic these days and I honestly think the culprit is these IUD's that have become a popular form of birth control now. Seems every woman I've been with the smelly snatch problem uses these as birth control.

actually its called BV, it stinks

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #39 on: August 22, 2015, 05:53:44 AM »
Sure, much easier like that.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #40 on: August 22, 2015, 05:58:25 AM »
actually its called BV, it stinks

Yes, but what I'm saying is the IUD's are the cause the BV.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #41 on: August 22, 2015, 06:12:09 AM »

The quick answer is yes, people can and do fall in love over the phone and internet. However, there are degrees of love between couples.

The internet and phone affair probably hides plenty and when people meet disillusion will set in. The little faults on both sides will become more important.

The real question behind your question is whether a hot, intelligent gal could fall in love with someone like you. The quick answer here is obvious: no possible way.

Ask yourself this. Are you the kind of person who has integrity, is honest, and is a good person? Do you fabricate things and upset people? Do you lose your temper easily?

Have you had long term affairs in the past? What about your upbringing? Do you know how to share intimacy with someone close?

From what we have seen here there is no way in hell a smart woman would remain in a relationship with you. Take your substance abuse and other extremes.

You do not have a single male friend who is close. You turn against people who befriend you then try to buy friendship with all manner of unsuitable candidates.

Again, are you the kind of guy who others want to be friends with? Even hapless Josh dislikes you except for money you might send him. He doesn't think

someone like you should own a dog. Now that is a powerful statement and a sobering one as well. You need a reality check.

So that leaves bigmc. Sorry, but he was never your mate. He merely wanted to check out who you were. End of story.

Btw, anyone who has to post for relationship advice here on Getbig has to be considered naive, foolish and perhaps pathetic. In other words, a loser.

Hope this helps.


By the way, you do know the formula re how to make women fall in love with you. When that fails toss a few dollars their way. Works like a charm.

That is the easy part for a good talker like you. The hard part is how to sustain the woman's love when she finds out who you really are. Since your feelings are

not deep or genuine you fall out of love as easily as you fell in love. This sad cycle persists endlessly for you. It is always the next hot gal who is the real love of your life!

Thus, all your relationships will end in disaster. You then resort to substance abuse to console yourself and escape from the painful reality that

follows you like a heavy weight. All your posturing trying to look successful and tough are a diversion. The Flotsam are not impressed with

bullshitters. Finally, let other tongues praise you and not your own mouth.


Do you compose these missives in Word and then paste it into the post box? The line spacing is always so fucked up.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #42 on: August 22, 2015, 06:33:19 AM »
Yes, but what I'm saying is the IUD's are the cause the BV.

there should be some kinda of stinker detector before you get in bed with the whores, cos after if they start stinking its annoying to call someone else up instead and drivers take forever

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #43 on: August 22, 2015, 07:41:24 AM »
Yes it is possible…In fact… …I have been infatuated with a singer named Annette Hanshaw…I have only seen a couple of her publicity photos…and heard recordings of her voice…


On this record she inverts a song usually sung by a male into a female song.



I think this is the reason I like libidinous, forward women…

(by the way…she is the reason early Warner Brothers cartoons ended with “That’s all Folks!”)


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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #44 on: August 22, 2015, 07:53:18 AM »

The quick answer is yes, people can and do fall in love over the phone and internet. However, there are degrees of love between couples.

The internet and phone affair probably hides plenty and when people meet disillusion will set in. The little faults on both sides will become more important.

The real question behind your question is whether a hot, intelligent gal could fall in love with someone like you. The quick answer here is obvious: no possible way.

Ask yourself this. Are you the kind of person who has integrity, is honest, and is a good person? Do you fabricate things and upset people? Do you lose your temper easily?

Have you had long term affairs in the past? What about your upbringing? Do you know how to share intimacy with someone close?

From what we have seen here there is no way in hell a smart woman would remain in a relationship with you. Take your substance abuse and other extremes.

You do not have a single male friend who is close. You turn against people who befriend you then try to buy friendship with all manner of unsuitable candidates.

Again, are you the kind of guy who others want to be friends with? Even hapless Josh dislikes you except for money you might send him. He doesn't think

someone like you should own a dog. Now that is a powerful statement and a sobering one as well. You need a reality check.

So that leaves bigmc. Sorry, but he was never your mate. He merely wanted to check out who you were. End of story.

Btw, anyone who has to post for relationship advice here on Getbig has to be considered naive, foolish and perhaps pathetic. In other words, a loser.

Hope this helps.


By the way, you do know the formula re how to make women fall in love with you. When that fails toss a few dollars their way. Works like a charm.

That is the easy part for a good talker like you. The hard part is how to sustain the woman's love when she finds out who you really are. Since your feelings are

not deep or genuine you fall out of love as easily as you fell in love. This sad cycle persists endlessly for you. It is always the next hot gal who is the real love of your life!

Thus, all your relationships will end in disaster. You then resort to substance abuse to console yourself and escape from the painful reality that

follows you like a heavy weight. All your posturing trying to look successful and tough are a diversion. The Flotsam are not impressed with

bullshitters. Finally, let other tongues praise you and not your own mouth.


Basile, I agree with you 100%. Although I have never met you, I fall in love with you more and more every day. Your smile, your wittiness, your charm, your massive, hairy forearms, your intelligence, and your bicep supination machine, all bring me to tears of love for you.



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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #45 on: August 22, 2015, 02:33:19 PM »
Basile, I agree with you 100%. Although I have never met you, I fall in love with you more and more every day. Your smile, your wittiness, your charm, your massive, hairy forearms, your intelligence, and your bicep supination machine, all bring me to tears of love for you.





awwww when is the wedding?
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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #46 on: August 22, 2015, 03:00:50 PM »
awwww when is the wedding?

In the winter. Basilar is flying to America. We want to get married around Christmas when it's snowing. It will be romantic. All of getbig is invited.
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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #47 on: August 22, 2015, 03:32:56 PM »
In the winter. Basilar is flying to America. We want to get married around Christmas when it's snowing. It will be romantic. All of getbig is invited.

Congratulation , but Basile looks so hairy  ??? would he get waxed ('brazilan' too  ;D)  

May I ask , who is front (BASILE or you)  :D

Any more details about this marriage  :)

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #48 on: August 22, 2015, 03:34:28 PM »
until you smell and taste someone, it has very little meaning.

Met up with a woman (and I told her why) was not gonna see her again. Her snatch was pure stink.
X 2  I found out that smell is what it's at. Not very enlightened, but it's true.

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Re: Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....
« Reply #49 on: August 22, 2015, 03:50:29 PM »
'Love' dosent exist unless your exceptionaly lucky and meet the perfect partner who feels exactly the same ( more chance of winning the lottery) you maybe think youfeel it in your first relationship before you are wise enough to know better.
The only true 'love' I feel is for my kids,nothing else could come close