Funny pics in here. On a serious note, im at the part in the first pic "i want kids" stage...ive not caving but its so hard to say no eventhough i dont want them. Shes done alot for me, so sometimes im like "maybe i should i owe her that". If we dont have kids she is going to regret it and hate me for it, so its a really hard decision. And to those who think is all aout money and how i need to save myself...she makes double what i make
I don't know what you two have been through, but just because she has helped you out, like a partner should help his/her partner out it doesn't mean that you owe her children. Children aren't objects to bargain with and definitely not something that should make you feel that way.
You have to be honest to her. "but then she might leave me"... listen bro, if you have children with her just because you feel you owe it to her, then that will be the course of your life when the kid is finally born. At least it's a huge risk.
Rather be honest and bite your lips. Too fucking bad if you two break up, you'll survive.