Marriage

[Chidoman]

In America, you are a fool for getting married.

It's legal bondage forced on us by religious nutjobs.

I will never get married.  If a women cannot accept the fact, fuck it.  

Bingo!!..Well Said!

[Mr Anabolic]

marriage... not in this day and age

social media made women the biggest whores ever

what's divorce statistics today, like 60+% right

There is absolutely no reason to get married today.  It's nothing more than a legally binding financial arrangement.  The divorce laws are geared to reward women and ass-rape men.

Social media is the worst thing to happen to women... and men.

The divorce rate just over 60%.

I earn a 6 figure salary.  I have complete liquidity and I am free to do whatever I want, when I want and how I want.  I do not have to check with someone on how to spend/save my money.  The feeling is indescribable... true freedom.  The only way for a man to attain this freedom is to remain unmarried and childless.  

[che]

There is absolutely no reason to get married today.  It's nothing more than a legally binding financial arrangement.  The divorce laws are geared to reward women and ass-rape men.

Social media is the worst thing to happen to women... and men.

The divorce rate just over 60%.

I earn a 6 figure salary.  I have complete liquidity and I am free to do whatever I want, when I want and how I want.  I do not have to check with someone on how to spend/save my money.  The feeling is indescribable... true freedom.  The only way for a man to attain this freedom is to remain unmarried and childless.  

[Parker]

che, you need to show us some of that fancy footwork (salsa) again.

[WalterWhite]

I have tons of stories like this.

In America, you are a fool for getting married.

It's legal bondage forced on us by religious nutjobs.

I will never get married.  If a women cannot accept the fact, fuck it.  By the time I'm 50, I will care less about pussy anyway.

Don't be so sure about that 50 thing!

I am also not totally against marriage if she is a professional and contributes equally to the estate. The worst thing about my divorce is my ex left as a wealthy women but never contributed a dime to the estate!  In every one of these marriage threads I warn about the divorce laws and they do not just apply to men. My ex sister in law was the major bread winner in her marriage and had to give up half her retirement.

I know people from all walks of life that are divorced and that includes devout christians and one minister. Also I have had no problem finding women because I am older (and god forbid shave my head) and never go to bars. I now hang with a women worth more than me so it's all good.

[polychronopolous]

The majority of my friends have told me that entering into marriage and having children was the best decision of their lives.

[240 is Back]

good stuff, radical pluto!  

[che]

che, you need to show us some of that fancy footwork (salsa) again.

Sorry Parker but  I haven't done the Salsa in years .

[che]

-Our children may have vastly different personalities to ourselves and no matter how much we try and love them, our real feeling will always emerge from the subconscious.  It's not just a matter of saying, I love this child because it is mine.

You are so clueless , no wonder you can't keep a guy around.

[NickEdge779]

I'm in my early 20's and honestly, I have no clue if I'm gonna get married. I just can't see myself being with someone for 50 or more years. I am an introvert and prefer being alone, sure I like a girl's company, but I'd rather just have a nice dog and live the single life without any pressure to sacrifice my time and energy for someone else. I like my alone time a lot. Retiring at 40 and living off investments sounds fuking awesome. Moving off to a beach house and kayaking everyday with my dog and going fishing and hiking sounds a lot more appealing than raising kids and slaving away to support a wife and family.

[Thong Maniac]

So say your married for years,, then divorce and now in your mid thirties or so...is it even possible to meet undamaged normal, sexy women your age without using tindr and facebook? Also all of your friends are married, and have kids, so social circle is basically nom existant...and the wife will likely remain friends with these people as your the asshole who didnt want kids, so your friend count is like 1-2 highschool buddies out of state lol. Sounds painful to think about

[che]

I'm in my early 20's and honestly, I have no clue if I'm gonna get married. I just can't see myself being with someone for 50 or more years. I am an introvert and prefer being alone, sure I like a girl's company, but I'd rather just have a nice dog and live the single life without any pressure to sacrifice my time and energy for someone else. I like my alone time a lot. Retiring at 40 and living off investments sounds fuking awesome. Moving off to a beach house and kayaking everyday with my dog and going fishing and hiking sounds a lot more appealing than raising kids and slaving away to support a wife and family.

Are you currently  in a serious relationship ?

[NickEdge779]

Are you currently  in a serious relationship ?

Ya, its semi serious.

[che]

Ya, its semi serious.

Do you love him ?

[NickEdge779]

Do you love him ?

Yes, I love him. I love how warm he feels inside of me and how he spasms and releases his seed inside my gaping butt hole.

[che]

Yes, I love him. I love how warm he feels inside of me and how he spasms and releases his seed inside my gaping butt hole.

That's beautiful , you should marry him and have kids.

[Radical Plato]

You are so clueless , no wonder you can't keep a guy around.

You are terribly naive if you actually believe what you are saying.  Human beings are programmed in such a way as to be repelled and attracted by personality traits, if our children have traits that trigger us to be repelled we love them less than our other children whose traits attract us.  Unconditional love is an idealistic hippy myth.  You have never seen family dynamics at work if you think parents love all their children equally, either that or you pretend to spend a lot of your time in deep denial of reality.  Probably even more damaging are parents who pretend to love their children equally all the while their actions betray them, so not only does the child learn from the parents actions they are less loveable than their siblings but their parents don't even respect/love them enough to be honest with them.

[Radical Plato]

So say your married for years,, then divorce and now in your mid thirties or so...is it even possible to meet undamaged normal, sexy women your age

NO !

[240 is Back]

Yes, I love him. I love how warm he feels inside of me and how he spasms and releases his seed inside my gaping butt hole.

LMFAO

getbig is awesome

[tom joad]

There is absolutely no reason to get married today.  It's nothing more than a legally binding financial arrangement.  The divorce laws are geared to reward women and ass-rape men.

I earn a 6 figure salary.  I have complete liquidity and I am free to do whatever I want, when I want and how I want.  I do not have to check with someone on how to spend/save my money.  The feeling is indescribable... true freedom.  The only way for a man to attain this freedom is to remain unmarried and childless.  

you can't find any financially independent desirable women who can match your "6 figure salary?"

I do alright as a lawyer and my wife outearns me.

[da_vinci]

There are 1000's of god and everyone who follows their god believes theirs is the right choice. Educate me on what god you suggest we follow? The one that just allowed a bunch of Christians to be beheaded for believing in him and putting their trust in him? Maybe the god that allowed over 100 people in saudi arabia last week to get killed while standing in a mosque? Or maybe the god that allowed millions of his followers to be thrown into gas chambers?

Please suggest a god

PS I have been waiting a while now for you to reply, your god will get very mad soon as you are not sticking up for his / her powerful being, I hope he dont send a flood to your home :-(

The fact dude is deeply religious SCREAMS he's on a brink of a desperation and insanity. This is the case with EVERY deeply religious person I've ever encountered. Usualy feel weak and scared. Religion is the last protection from a suicind for them. That is a factual reality and it doesn't matter what such a person would like you to believe.

[da_vinci]

In before DaVinci responds.

Have no idea why would I. No issues in this field that I could speak off.. Actually the more I live - the less worries I have regarding all that noise. Life is absurd, plain and simple and whatever you do - it will end up in a mess/death. So just try to survive for as long as possible with as less obstacles as possible. MOney would be the first priority. When you're rich - everyone, regardless of your age or whatever, want to see you, to greet you, to spend time with you. Humans are cheap animals, easily buy'able. Marriage... it's as stupid as most other stuff in life, if you're lucky (key word LUCKY) - it may be allright, if not - you'll just suffer more in this existence. Marriage before age 30 for a male usualy ends up in a disaster tho' (well unless a said male is butt ugly, short and bald. Having at least one pussy to fuck is better than nothing).

[da_vinci]

No I am arguing because you have some idealistic romantic concept of love, like you just read a knight in shining armour fairy tale book.  Like God, love doesn't exist. Like I said it is nothing more than a chemical soup in our brains designed to trick us into reproducing.  Once reproduction is over with the chemicals dissipate. Hence the reason you said "Want to love", because wanting to love someone means you don't actually love them but wish you did.  If you stay in marriage despite not loving someone but 'wanting to love them' then that is incredibly unhealthy and damaging to one's psyche and self esteem.  hence the reason so many marriages are miserable, they stay for all the wrong reasons.

Love does exist................... ...................it is a contract haha... You give me something and I give you something, if we are both satisfied - we "love"each other. How cool would it be if that fairly tale state would last "forever". Oh well...

[da_vinci]

I have 'enough' money to do as I please, I still have a full head of hair and not as many conquests as you predict.  Maybe because I entered long term de facto relationships, so I may as well have been married, but I never could commit, and after a while women realise this and move on.  Oh well.  As for being in shape, I am probably in the best shape of my life right now, I just started my first cycle, just some test e and some dbol to kick start it, and I am in the third week and it is just starting to kick in, crazy libido, strength noticeably going up, recovery ability amazing all the stuff that goes along with it.  I get a lot of interest from the older women but not so much the younger ones. And all the women my age are out of shape, miserable, completely damaged with at least 2-3 kids dragging behind them.  It is depressing.  Fortunately for me I enjoy my own company, have a large porn collection and always find something productive to keep me occupied.

I have a feeling you have it a lot better than most guys over 40. A healthy outlook too, that is very important.

[da_vinci]

I have loved someone before, she didn't love me.  Nothing more painful than this my friend.  Unfortunately that type of 'true love' feeling rarely comes along if ever.  Had she felt the same way I believe that may have been a good starting point but still the risk is high and I am not some heady idealist who believes that guarantees marital bliss.  And this is what I alluded to earlier, rarely do two people love each other equally, normally one is less in love than the other, and this is where the problem starts, as they want to feel that deep love for someone so they go searching for it.

And I am not a 'Banging chicks, moving bed to bed and living out of bars, clubs' kind of guy.  I will go out occasionally, but much prefer the idea of dating women.

Fukkin good analysis. I wonder too - whether it is possible to repeat that deep love feeling after the first one fails. I guess not really... Just like you won't get AS high from any drug you try for a first time, the second time.