Did you guys talk about that before and she just changed her mind.
I was upfront with wanting kiddies and if he didn't want a family, then he just wasn't right for me. Not a bad person we just wanted different things.
I think it's more brave to say you don't want kids and mean it, than people just doing it because they thibk that's what they are supposed to do. Lots of people have no business having children.
We kind of knew this time would come. We talked about it and she was always not sure and now she is sure. Big part of the reason is she is an only child, lacking a normal relationship with her mom n dad, so she wants to begin her own family. I feel bad for her i really do, and see where she is coming from. I really want to give her the kid thing, i just dont really want that life style. Like all males i know, they all give in and have kids. I dont want to be another statistic though. Maybe at 35, 40, 45, etc I will...but now i dont. i love her, and id be pretty fucked up if we ended it. When she leaves for work or is gone for a few days, im definitely not my normal self...we do everything together. I dont think id do well alone and to be honest i do worry about being lonely. No real friends around me, solo work stuff, not much social life if any outside of marriage. She is sexy, and will bounce back quick. I dont think id do well as a single dude...i dont know, just kind of ranting now.
Do you know people who regretted not having kids?
I always hear "guys never want kids until they have them". Is that true for anyone?