DivorceCorp if this doesn't scare you from getting married nothing will.

[Ronnie Rep]

So why did u have kids? It sounds like life sucks for you now by your post.
How did u know u wanted kids?

Doesn't suck at all. Just changes.It's no longer all about you and your wife first. It's something you really have to experience to truly understand. You just can't be selfish and expect to be a good parent. My wife and I agreed we both wanted 2 kids, we discussed it before it happened. Didn't really plan it either, it pretty much just happened when we were as ready as you can be.

[Thong Maniac]

Humans, just like other animals, doesnt "want" shit, it is an automatic preprogrammed behaviour. The sooner you realise that your brain is a computer with a software to achieve certain tasks, the sooner you will be liberated.

As i mentioned, im void of this computer chip you speak of. My wife has it though, which is creating the tension/problem. Im fine living in a shed in the woods and fishing every day. She needs the nice house, w kids, nice car thing. Ive never been like that

[twitchfibres]

As i mentioned, im void of this computer chip you speak of. My wife has it though, which is creating the tension/problem. Im fine living in a shed in the woods and fishing every day. She needs the nice house, wo kids, nice car thing. Ive never been like that

She watches too much reality TV.

[da_vinci]

we shouldbtake into account that not everyone is good looking, social and generaly has many chances with opposite sex. When such a person finds something its most probably to take the risk andbseal the deal, it may be one of the rare chances to have regular sex.. Everything is relative in life. Different ppl may live in very different realities.

[Thong Maniac]

She watches too much reality TV.

Nah, her mom/dad were very materialistic suburbanite yuppies...its semi-ingrained in her

[Thong Maniac]

Is it possible to just up and move to thailand? If i end up divorced over this, i probably will do that.

[da_vinci]

As i mentioned, im void of this computer chip you speak of. My wife has it though, which is creating the tension/problem. Im fine living in a shed in the woods and fishing every day. She needs the nice house, w kids, nice car thing. Ive never been like that

Men generaly just want sex/pussy, thats why most agree to have kids, to keep plowing that pussy.

[da_vinci]

Is it possible to just up and move to thailand? If i end up divorced over this, i probably will do that.

Hit up Tim Sharky on FB, he will answer your questions regarding that. But no need for Thailand, you are way too young, can fuck limitless amount of chicks years to come..

[Ronnie Rep]

As i mentioned, im void of this computer chip you speak of. My wife has it though, which is creating the tension/problem. Im fine living in a shed in the woods and fishing every day. She needs the nice house, w kids, nice car thing. Ive never been like that

Sounds like you have a problem then. You think she is going to be happy and you are all she needs. Gotta make some compromises or it won't end well.

[Thong Maniac]

Hit up Tim Sharky on FB, he will answer your questions regarding that. But no need for Thailand, you are way too young, can fuck limitless amount of chicks years to come..

Im likely not as good looking as you. Never had the aggression or comfortableness with myself to chase tail. Im awkward around women i find attractive. Women i think are ugly, i have no issues lol

[Thong Maniac]

Sounds like you have a problem then. You think she is going to be happy and you are all she needs. Gotta make some compromises or it won't end well.

Those comprimises are all kids though. There is no other compromise. Its a yes or no decision

[Thin Lizzy]

I say this all the time, but any man dumb enough to get married in America deserves to be raked over the coals.  By getting married you are forcing yourself into legal bondage.

10 years ago in my 20's, all of my friends were telling me how awesome marriage was and how happy they were.  They got so pushy about it, they started trying to convince me it was a good idea.

Fast forward 10 years to today and about 75% of them are divorced, separated or living in hell.

All of them come over to my place on Sunday to watch football and to bitch about marriage.

Looks like I dodged that bullet!

The irony is that the older you get, the more the ball moves to the man's court. When a woman is young and pretty, guys are always approaching her, but, once she gets to middle age, this stops.

Guys, get to make the first move. So, if you're a middle age guy who can handle some rejection, you can hit on as many women as you want. Even with a low batting average, you'll have success.

[da_vinci]

Im likely not as good looking as you. Never had the aggression or comfortableness with myself to chase tail. Im awkward around women i find attractive. Women i think are ugly, i have no issues lol

Well then it MAY be an issue... or a challenge to accomplish, depends how u look at it. Good money would make you feel a lot more at ease too. Anyway, u may be one of these cases when it is worth considering various options if there are not many chances to get new tail..

[Purge_WTF]

This is pretty good.

I wonder what the successful 45% are doing to keep it together?

 They're probably not "successful" so much as they are being kept on Life Support by men who instinctively know that they'll be decimated by the Feminized family court system if they decided to end it. "Cheaper To Keep Her."

 Of all the cases I've read about, this one really got to me:

 http://henrymakow.com/2014/04/Ex-Wife-Removes-Husbands-Suicide-Note-from-Internet.html

[Thin Lizzy]

Men generaly just want sex/pussy, thats why most agree to have kids, to keep plowing that pussy.

After about 6 months, sex with the same person gets tiresome.

[da_vinci]

After about 6 months, sex with the same person gets tiresome.

Currently having it for over two years with a current gf, still very good. Id say maybe because Im on test, but had another which whom we were very compatible in sex, did not use hormones at that time, at over 4years sex was like from a good porn flick. The hardest part splitting for me was actually loosing these crazy fucking sessions lol..

[Thin Lizzy]

Currently having it for over two years with a current gf, still very good. Id say maybe because Im on test, but had another which whom we were very compatible in sex, did not use hormones at that time, at over 4years sex was like from a good porn flick. The hardest part splitting for me was actually loosing these crazy fucking sessions lol..

Then, you're an exception.

The rule is that the longer a couple is together, the less sex they have.

[Ronnie Rep]

Those comprimises are all kids though. There is no other compromise. Its a yes or no decision

Was there ever a discussion about this before you got married?

[da_vinci]

Then, you're an exception.

The rule is that the longer a couple is together, the less sex they have.

I've definintely had an experience when sex got boring after a year. Compatibility of sex drives/preferences is very important in this case, critically important. Many divorces probably happen because one of the persons doesn't want sex anymore or not as often, while another still wants it, etc..

[phreak]

are you 100% sure you will never get divorced? curious because everyone that went thru a divorce at one point sounded just like ya

I do wish ya well, just asking

Of course not. It's just funny to see the naysayers posit that they are the only rational ones, without realizing that other people make a different rational choice based on the same data but different desired outcomes. Granted, I seem to be unusual in that. B ut yes, I did consider divorce and the ramifications years before I married her, and came to the conclusion that the benefit outweighed the risk. I'm simply not that materialistic, so even if she took half I would not really care. Especially because, as most men forget to calculate, they by default take half (or more) during the marriage as well. So what would one truly lose?

[Overload]

What benefit does marriage have?

Other than ownership and religious mumbojumbo?

There really is no point to it.

[Azure]

After about 6 months, sex with the same person gets tiresome.

Then you're not doing it right or you're not working on your intimacy.  Men who have had lots of sex with random chicks will tell you THAT gets old after a while. Having one woman who actually cares about you does not compare to women who just want to screw you bc they think they will get something out of it

I feel like men who have never experienced that think it's much better than it really is.

[da_vinci]

Then you're not doing it right or you're not working on your intimacy.  Men who have had lots of sex with random chicks will tell you THAT gets old after a while. Having one woman who actually cares about you does not compare to women who just want to screw you bc they think they will get something out of it

I feel like men who have never experienced that think it's much better than it really is.

If you have one - you want other, if you have other - you want first one.... and so it goes. Human nature.

[Azure]

If you have one - you want other, if you have other - you want first one.... and so it goes. Human nature.

Grass is greener scenario.

It's crazy because these men who were able to get anyone they wanted will tell you it was fun for a while and then got old.  They say it's much better to be with that one woman who loves you in spite of and you can be yourself with and enjoy sex without wondering what the motive is.

And guys if you want your lady to want it as much as you do, then you need to do your part. Make her feel beautiful and adored. you will get anytime and however you want it if you do that

[da_vinci]

Grass is greener scenario.

It's crazy because these men who were able to get anyone they wanted will tell you it was fun for a while and then got old.  They say it's much better to be with that one woman who loves you in spite of and you can be yourself with and enjoy sex without wondering what the motive is.

And guys if you want your lady to want it as much as you do, then you need to do your part. Make her feel beautiful and adored. you will get anytime and however you want it if you do that

Regarding grass is greener. I've had a great girl some years ago... personality, sex, everything was close to a very good match. Yet I thought that grass is greener on the other side, that and other stuff mad the relathionship run it's course. Guess what...... some years went by and I found out that.... grass may actually be a lot greener! lol   If I stayed with her I'd have missed on so much even more mind blowing sex, different personalities, different experiences. Tho' it messes you up in some way... you become addicted to that change, whether it is every few months or every few years. Very hard to resists, esp. when you can and when you know the game well.
 Good advice regarding making them "want it", but a natural sex drive must be present too.