Author Topic: Depression/suicide (Read 6334 times)

blinky · « **on:** June 16, 2016, 09:44:56 PM »

Ive said it before ill say it a million times more. Depression isnt a joke. Its not something "they'll get over". They arent just having a bad day. If you know someone who is or might be suffering...please reach out and talk to them before its too late.

RIP Rob. Im sorry you didnt know how much we all loved you

Taffin · « **Reply #1 on:** June 16, 2016, 09:48:01 PM »

Rob who..? From this board..?

blinky · « **Reply #2 on:** June 16, 2016, 09:48:49 PM »

Quote from: Taffin on June 16, 2016, 09:48:01 PM

Rob who..? From this board..?

a friend. not from here

calfzilla · « **Reply #3 on:** June 16, 2016, 09:50:26 PM »

Good post, I struggle with depression and anxiety at times and so do several other getbiggers.

My friends father killed himself a couple years ago due to depression. Very sad. Sometimes people just need someone to talk to.

Coach is Back! · « **Reply #4 on:** June 16, 2016, 09:55:52 PM »

Quote from: blinky on June 16, 2016, 09:44:56 PM

Ive said it before ill say it a million times more. Depression isnt a joke. Its not something "they'll get over". They arent just having a bad day. If you know someone who is ot might be suffering...please reach out and talk to them before its too late.

RIP Rob. Im sorry you didnt know how much we all loved you

I agree. Sorry for your friend. I know a few people that suffer from depression.

blinky · « **Reply #5 on:** June 16, 2016, 09:56:54 PM »

Quote from: calfzilla on June 16, 2016, 09:50:26 PM

Good post, I struggle with depression and anxiety at times and so do several other getbiggers.

My friends father killed himself a couple years ago due to depression. Very sad. Sometimes people just need someone to talk to.

Ive had issues with both for years. Sadly we become VERY GOOD at hiding it and keeping it your ourself thinking people dont wanna hera our shit.

calfzilla · « **Reply #6 on:** June 16, 2016, 10:01:12 PM »

Quote from: blinky on June 16, 2016, 09:56:54 PM

Ive had issues with both for years. Sadly we become VERY GOOD at hiding it and keeping it your ourself thinking people dont wanna hera our shit.

For sure. Less than a handful of people know I have these problems. I would never take medicine for it tho, just my personal choice. It's messed up that side effects for some of these meds are suicide.

Taffin · « **Reply #7 on:** June 16, 2016, 10:09:25 PM »

Quote from: blinky on June 16, 2016, 09:48:49 PM

a friend. not from here

Sorry for your loss man...

Kim Jong Bob · « **Reply #8 on:** June 16, 2016, 11:02:31 PM »

Sorry for your lost blinky

blinky · « **Reply #9 on:** June 16, 2016, 11:25:00 PM »

Julio Ceasar · « **Reply #10 on:** June 16, 2016, 11:28:30 PM »

Depession = no love, being alone

Depression = feeling alone all the time although there are people around u

Depression = unique thoughts u cant share

Depression = not blindfooled by the system and markets bullshit

Depression = creative thoughts abov and beyond the average joe

Depression = not being able to handle the situation, thoughts and feelings

Depression = And so much more...

Depression = Taking stupid pills for a quick fix and then ignore the real reasons who cause it. It will hunt you back no matter how many pills u take! U gotta deal with the thuoughts, situation, enironment, comunication inside outside your body. Kack up your as whereever u are. u gotta learn to deal with that cack up your ass!

Seek for help, youtube, artist, writers, books, filosophers and u will not feel that alone anymore. Suffer togheter!

blinky · « **Reply #11 on:** June 16, 2016, 11:29:33 PM »

Quote from: Julio Ceasar on June 16, 2016, 11:28:30 PM

Depession = no love, being alone

Depression = feeling alone all the time although there are people around u

Depression = unique thoughts u cant share

Depression = not blindfooled by the system and markets bullshit

Depression = creative thoughts abov and beyond the average joe

Depression = not being able to handle the situation, thoughts and feelings

Depression = And so much more...

Depression = Taking stupid pills for a quick fix and then ignore the real reasons who cause it. It will hunt you back no matter how many pills u take! U gotta deal with the thuoughts, situation, enironment, comunication inside outside your body. Kack up your as whereever u are. u gotta learn to deal with that cack up your ass!

Seek for help, youtube, artist, writers, books, filosophers and u will not feel that alone anymore. Suffer togheter!

Thank you!!

Rudee · « **Reply #12 on:** June 17, 2016, 12:40:46 AM »

Reaching out and talking to depressed people isn't as easy as it sounds, because in most cases you don't even know they are depressed to begin with, as they mask their depression when they are in public. One thing I have seen that is rather common is withdrawal. Had a couple friends go through bouts of depression not too long ago. Both had deleted their Facebook accounts, which should have been a clue, but at the time I didn't think much about it. was only later that I learned they did that because they were depressed and that was part of the withdrawal process.

dr.chimps · « **Reply #13 on:** June 17, 2016, 01:50:59 AM »

People with depression don't talk about it.

Kwon · « **Reply #14 on:** June 17, 2016, 03:26:01 AM »

Sorry for your loss Blinky!

How are you feeling?

DanielPaul · « **Reply #15 on:** June 17, 2016, 04:24:56 AM »

My dad, my aunt, my grandma and two of her brother committed suicide. I believe they may have all suffered from a fork of bipolar disorder. I was lucky not to inherit any of this and I thank the lord everyday I did not.

Thong Maniac · « **Reply #16 on:** June 17, 2016, 04:57:49 AM »

Quote from: Rudee on June 17, 2016, 12:40:46 AM

Reaching out and talking to depressed people isn't as easy as it sounds, because in most cases you don't even know they are depressed to begin with, as they mask their depression when they are in public. One thing I have seen that is rather common is withdrawal. Had a couple friends go through bouts of depression not too long ago. Both had deleted their Facebook accounts, which should have been a clue, but at the time I didn't think much about it. was only later that I learned they did that because they were depressed and that was part of the withdrawal process.

interesting opinion about facebook. i would argue that deleting social media bullshit is a step to rid oneself of depression. when you are no longer controlled by the compulsive "must show people what im doing for social value/validation", its actually quite liberating. a well rounded adult should not be wasting time with facebook, wasting countless hours watching what other people are supposedly doing. honestly not posting on GB either lol, but i havnt mastered that yet. I actually know of people who were showing signs of depression and their daily mood being affected by how many likes or whatever they would get on FB for something they would post. they deletd it, but have since came back to it, and the cycle continues.

nzmusclemonster · « **Reply #17 on:** June 17, 2016, 05:00:32 AM »

You are correct, it should be talked about more. There shouldn't be a stigma around people suffering like that.

PIP

Nails · « **Reply #18 on:** June 17, 2016, 06:38:44 AM »

this story is so sad, i am depressed now

kreator · « **Reply #19 on:** June 17, 2016, 06:56:57 AM »

anytime i see a man in tears or suffering from some non-life threatening stuff(peolpe close dying excluded) it reminds me to never become that person, a man must know how to cope with problems and be a safety net for others not the other way around. This is your job guys, don't fuck it up! Be strong, read books, watch videos ... Julio Caesar put it nicely

Tha Grim Lifter · « **Reply #20 on:** June 17, 2016, 07:31:34 AM »

I think a significant part of depression is the use of alcohol and rec drugs and people not handling coming off them or the body not recovering properly from them.

dr.chimps · « **Reply #21 on:** June 17, 2016, 07:48:40 AM »

Quote from: Tha Grim Lifter on June 17, 2016, 07:31:34 AM

I think a significant part of depression is not talking about it.

mphgrove · « **Reply #22 on:** June 17, 2016, 08:48:54 AM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on June 17, 2016, 04:57:49 AM

interesting opinion about facebook. i would argue that deleting social media bullshit is a step to rid oneself of depression. when you are no longer controlled by the compulsive "must show people what im doing for social value/validation", its actually quite liberating. a well rounded adult should not be wasting time with facebook, wasting countless hours watching what other people are supposedly doing. honestly not posting on GB either lol, but i havnt mastered that yet. I actually know of people who were showing signs of depression and their daily mood being affected by how many likes or whatever they would get on FB for something they would post. they deletd it, but have since came back to it, and the cycle continues.

If FB is about interacting with people you already know, then fine. Also, I guess once in a rare while, you make a new real-life friend or even hookup physically via that channel, and that's all well and good. But honestly when I got caught up in it after avoiding it for years, mostly what I did is follow people half way around the world that I'm never going to truly interact with and also focus on the most outstanding physiques on the planet accompanied by constantly comparing myself. That became a useless and non-satisfying rat race after a while, so I'm off FB altogether again and, as stated above, find it "liberating." Back 100% to real friends/real interactions.

Mrdibbs · « **Reply #23 on:** June 17, 2016, 08:51:17 AM »

For some people life just isn't it. Even if ''all the standard components'' which supposedly should make someone's life ''complete'' are there.

They will step out. Nobody will see it coming. Not a pill or therapy will help them. Probably overloading them with cash, hookers or even drugs won't change their constant feeling of emptyness.

Respect their choice and courage to leap into the unknown.

Ronnie Rep · « **Reply #24 on:** June 17, 2016, 08:51:31 AM »

Sorry for your loss Blinky. I have seen it in my own family, it is no joke. Anti Depressants can be dangerous if not watched and given correctly. I have seen and heard of quite a few cases, where it has worsened the depression, and led to suicide.