Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?

[Howard]

After living my last 3 years with my wife it would be very hard to go back to being single. We are workout partners and good friends. I get a lot of joy and relaxation hanging out with her and the dogs. She has my coffee and breakfast ready in the morning and dinner ready and night. Old fashioned Christian family. 

Sounds like a loving marriage with a good wife.

My wife and I spend a lot of time together engaged in simple, wholesome activity.
I know it sounds beta, by getbig standards, but we're happy , so wtf.

[loco]

Ok, well I have never had any proper long term relationship and believe it is quite possible I may be solitary for the rest of my life - and it doesn't overly bother me - so I'll weigh in here.  First of all, to be clear, I find myself to be quite unattractive and as a result, I can barely stand to be around others.  Everybody has their strengths and that is my weakness and really, it has made me quite the interesting person to know - far more than I reveal here. 

And no, I'm not depressed - I'm wayyy too busy doing shit to worry about that stuff.  You adjust or you die and I am fully adjusted to that adversity.

You can be legitimately happy, but it mostly comes down to what type of person you are and you might require adversity to FULLY come to that point.   I know I did.  I mean, I was always the solitary type (and not someone who easily trusts), but a fucking gigantic owning at the hands of my former best friend really pushed me to eventually let go of all pangs of wanting to be with someone.  That stuff happened I think four years ago and around a year ago, the pangs were completely gone and whilst I met a bunch, no women ever excited me during that time and I've done absolutely nothing to meet any girl in over a year because I'm tired of meeting people who don't come close to me in terms of personality.

But women have never been first priority in my life - I've always been more interested in doing stuff - ie, art, sport etc.   I absolutely fucking despise going anywhere and having to think about my dick.  I'd rather do almost anything than go to a bar to meet women.  It's just not fun, to me.  I'd rather get behind a mic and sing something (not particularly well), paint something (not particularly well) etc.

Whenever I think about what I want to do in life, I am never ever thinking about being with a good woman.  I don't really spend a lot of time just "enjoying life" and when you're with a woman, that's a lot of what you do with them which is hardly bad, but you don't move forwards anything like what you do when you're on your own.

Women, for me - are a quick, post gym jerkoff in the shower and then forgotten for the night.   I'm spending tonight doing exactly what I want to do and if there was a woman, here right now, it'd just be the couch, watching TV and then bang and then bed.

So the TLDR of that is, if you're the type of person who is "ugly hobbies guy".  Absolutely you can get along without women. 

Is this why the rate of teen pregnancy in the USA is at its lowest levels ever?

[Method101]

Maybe it's too late for our civilization, seems like our last hope died with the fall of National Socialism.

Now it's the century of the hedonists, sluts, feminists etc. you name it. How can any American/British veterans of the second world war still be proud of what they did when they see the result which is the handing over of the world over to these people and their puppet masters. The concept that the war was for "freedom" is so laughable and people on this forum still buy it and oppose National Socialism, even the ones who acknowledge all the things mentioned above as severe problems! All these problems are enough alone without even mentioning the total destruction of the white race.

[Henda]

If I ever split up with wor lass I'd never live with a woman again, house is mine so she would be out so wouldn't have to sort a place to live, would walk along to pub every Saturday and try and fuck every dirty old slag in there failing that prostitute off Craigslist every now and again, befriend a fat ugly but nice woman that I can drop my washing off at her place and maybe she come round and tidy the house and if she's lucky give her the pleasure of blowing me. Life could be so perfect

[Parker]

Wrong, it's mainly because our governments and the powers that be fought and succeeded to kill off the one ideology that would have created a more ideal natural world.

Aren't you a ginger?

[JackScribber]

jonny no name goes to hotel rooms to let old men suck him off

hardly the actions of a man happy in his own skin

ROFL!

[johnnynoname]

Maybe it's too late for our civilization, seems like our last hope died with the fall of National Socialism.

Now it's the century of the hedonists, sluts, feminists etc. you name it. How can any American/British veterans of the second world war still be proud of what they did when they see the result which is the handing over of the world over to these people and their puppet masters. The concept that the war was for "freedom" is so laughable and people on this forum still buy it and oppose National Socialism, even the ones who acknowledge all the things mentioned above as severe problems! All these problems are enough alone without even mentioning the total destruction of the white race.

I guarantee OP is a young snot nosed kid after reading that because this REEKS of "Look- I just learned some new stuff at my college and now I'm gonna show it off to everyone because I am so SMRT"

[JackScribber]

I've spent many years single and many years in relationships. My most fond memories are always from my single years. But as you get older, sometimes having a co-pilot ain't the worse thing in the world. Been with my current girlfriend now just over a year. Been nice to have her around after my surgery in April and again this week being home with a back injury. Without me asking, she got up extra early this week to ensure I have everything I need before she leaves for work. Brings me coffee in bed, ensure my work laptop and phone is within reaching distance, lunch is sitting in the top shelf in the fridge so I don't have to reach down. Rings me every few hours to see how I'm getting on and tidy up when she gets home from work.

Hell, throw in a naked cam session now and again, posting selfies on AttentionWhore-StaGram and I'm living a pro bodybuilder lifestyle!

[C-BuZz]

Where will you find a woman that passionately believe the planet sits on four pillars, the moon is made of cheese, Blacks should be reclassified as Jews and sent back to Israel to live in poverty there instead of living in poverty everywhere else?

What happened to that fat chick you were seeing? The one that enjoyed dancing and posting selfies?

More importantly, where will you find a chick that 100% beleives ronnie was natural just before he turned pro  

[Mr Anabolic]

Wrong, it's mainly because our governments and the powers that be fought and succeeded to kill off the one ideology that would have created a more ideal natural world.




Easy to say if you've never experienced the joy of companionship to the level some of us have, I would say there's nothing wrong with trying to attain that because trust me you would be happier than you are now. If you are ugly there are plenty of ugly women in the world too lol.

Not wrong.

Women whoring on social media creates more whores.

Divorce laws/courts also play a big role.

Marriage is a raw deal for a man in today's society, period.

[JackScribber]

Not wrong.

Women whoring on social media creates more whores.

Divorce laws/courts also play a big role.

Marriage is a raw deal for a man in today's society.

They whore because there's a market for attention whores. Stop 'liking' or 'following' or whatever the fuck it's called these days and they'll go away.

[anabolichalo]

i'm pretty happy

it takes a while to get used to being lonely

but once you are used to it, it's pretty neato

in fact i now often think that i simply wouldnt find the time for a girlfriend, life is way too busy

[TuHolmes]

They whore because there's a market for attention whores. Stop 'liking' or 'following' or whatever the fuck it's called these days and they'll go away.

^^^

[Mr Anabolic]

They whore because there's a market for attention whores. Stop 'liking' or 'following' or whatever the fuck it's called these days and they'll go away.

Good luck with that.  In case you didn't notice, there are multi-page Getbig thread dedicated to these selfie whores.  

[JackScribber]

Good luck with that.  In case you didn't notice, there are multi-page Getbig thread dedicated to these selfie whores.  

Yep.

Well there you go. Even the 'tough' guys on here seem to be obsessed with this sickness.

[Howard]

i'm pretty happy

it takes a while to get used to being lonely

but once you are used to it, it's pretty neato

in fact i now often think that i simply wouldnt find the time for a girlfriend, life is way too busy

Sounds like you're happy, as is. Stay that way and enjoy life.

[anabolichalo]

Sounds like you're happy, as is. Stay that way and enjoy life.

yeah man, i often see dudes in public with their gf's giving them a hard time
this is when i feel blessed and take a deep breath of fresh air thinking about what a wonderful day it is to be single

[Howard]

yeah man, i often see dudes in public with their gf's giving them a hard time
this is when i feel blessed and take a deep breath of fresh air thinking about what a wonderful day it is to be single

Saw the new apt and read about your asshole coworker getting squashed by the container, so you're on a roll.
Enjoy it.

I spent a few single years after my last divorce and enjoyed it.
I worked out, dated and went to bunch of minor league baseball and hockey games.
Believe it or not I "dated" my ex-wife on a regular basis during this time.
I swear to GOD, it was mostly hooking up with a few nice trips added in.
Lived in separate places and kept it casual. It was fun, but felt empty after awhile
Didn't have any desire to get remarried for awhile.

My (current) wife came along and I really enjoyed hanging out with her.
In all modesty I thought she was very pretty, and we had that spark.
BUT, just hanging out with her became the biggest plus.

Now we're loving partners in life. We allow each other enough space to keep things relaxed.
I see too many guys with gf's /wives that are on their ass night and day.
I'd never live like that.

My first wife started nagging me about having kids.
I kept telling her no and she knew how I felt.
She refused to quit , so I divorced her with no regrets.

Nothing more pathetic then some beta pussy who let's his wife talk him into everything .
OR, some dude who bitches about being married but won't move on and get divorced.
I say man up and stick up for yourself.

[TuHolmes]

yeah man, i often see dudes in public with their gf's giving them a hard time
this is when i feel blessed and take a deep breath of fresh air thinking about what a wonderful day it is to be single

Never leave that mindset halo.

Even if you are with a woman always keep your happy single mindset.

It will make your life so much better. Even if you have a woman you like and care about, if it doesn't workout, you will not be torn up about it.

[Howard]

Never leave that mindset halo.

Even if you are with a woman always keep your happy single mindset.

It will make your life so much better. Even if you have a woman you like and care about, if it doesn't workout, you will not be torn up about it.

True in theory, but, you can't help how you feel.
Even the most alpha dude can fall deeply in love with some sweet thing.
Deep rooted emotional attachment is  one the main reasons dudes won't break up easily.

As most here know, I've been divorced a few times for real.
It's no fun , but, it's like some surgical procedure.
It sucks, you feel like shit and it can down right painful for a bit.
BUT, once the healing is over,  you feel better then ever.

[TuHolmes]

True in theory, but, you can't help how you feel.
Even the most alpha dude can fall deeply in love with some sweet thing.
Deep rooted emotional attachment is  one the main reasons dudes won't break up easily.

As most here know, I've been divorced a few times for real.
It's no fun , but, it's like some surgical procedure.
It sucks, you feel like shit and it can down right painful for a bit.
BUT, once the healing is over,  you feel better then ever.

I've only been married once. Never again. My girl now is great, but I won't change my single mindset.

We've been together over 3 years and I like how it is.
If she walks, I won't bat an eye, but I'm glad she's around.

[anabolichalo]

Never leave that mindset halo.

Even if you are with a woman always keep your happy single mindset.

It will make your life so much better. Even if you have a woman you like and care about, if it doesn't workout, you will not be torn up about it.

yeah mane

sometimes when i feel lonely i stop and think about how much fun i'm having with throwing these weights around like a mini version of my heroes and getting HUGE, HUUUUUUUUUUUUGE!, then i crack myself up thinking about it and realize i am truly indeed blessed

[drkaje]

There's no shortage of women. Someone who can't hook up probably sucks.

Being alone is fine. I enjoy my own company and rarely get bored.

[Tapeworm]

No.  You have to marry the next woman who lets you make use of her vag.

[anabolichalo]

when i look at a beautiful woman i think (usually) two things:

1st thing is she is so confident, the thinks she owns the world, she thinks can get anything she wants, treats most men like nobodies

2nd thing is she is probably broke as a joke and just a few years away from hitting the wall

so yeah i dont really have a point here, just some random ideas