Let me translate that:
Is it wrong to perpetrate a catastrophic event on your wife, fucking her up for years and ruining the integrity of your marriage ...just because you wanted a bit of a change?
See the real truth is that a lot of people are extremely selfish and this is what happens when a selfish person wants what a selfish person wants. The selfish person wants it all.
I was on the other end of a selfish person doing what a selfish person wants (not cheating, just someone doing the wrong thing) and it took me four years to properly compartmentalise the situation and truly 100% shrug my shoulders and say "bad beat".
So let me rephrase that again.
Is it wrong to do something that costs the person you apparently "love", four years of dreaming about it, thinking about it every day and generally putting a shadow on most of their moments?
Who the fuckkk would trade sex with a person for fucking someone up for that long? Lots of people, it seems.
Leave the marriage and do whatever you please - but that's rarely how it goes - it's always got to be "I want all the cake and I don't give a fuck about how it affects others".
there are 2 sides to every story, i doubt isabel was the perfect wife, her airing this dirty laundry to countless strangers says a lot
you can love somebody the same and still want sex with others, it's not natural to only be with one person, at least it isn't for a man
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