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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #100 on: June 24, 2017, 10:28:47 PM »
I don't care if your marriage fails or not but imo you should just train at home.  You get training, she gets you at home.  That's a good compromise.  Everyone gets some of what they want.  And you still go out for 'hockey'  ::) so it's not like she's got you locked in the basement.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #101 on: June 25, 2017, 08:34:57 AM »
one arm pushups ,
barbell squats at home

why the sympathy thread

Amen!

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #102 on: June 25, 2017, 08:35:46 AM »
I don't care if your marriage fails or not but imo you should just train at home.  You get training, she gets you at home.  That's a good compromise.  Everyone gets some of what they want.  And you still go out for 'hockey'  ::) so it's not like she's got you locked in the basement.

lol, truth.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #103 on: June 25, 2017, 08:53:26 AM »
Not selfish, but stupid.

Your first mistake was getting married.

Your second mistake was having a kid.

That woman now owns you.

 

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #104 on: June 25, 2017, 08:53:51 AM »
Your first mistake was getting married.

Your second mistake was having a kid.

That woman now owns you.

 


Yawn

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #105 on: June 25, 2017, 08:54:57 AM »
Yawn

You will not be yawning after divorce court.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #106 on: June 25, 2017, 08:57:07 AM »
You will not be yawning after divorce court.

You poor thing, must of had a rough childhood. I feel your pain so did I, except I look at things on the positive side.

Carry on.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #107 on: June 25, 2017, 09:10:31 AM »
You poor thing, must of had a rough childhood. I feel your pain so did I, except I look at things on the positive side.
Carry on.

Ah yes... the idealistic white knight.  Probably early 20's.  You'll learn the hard way.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #108 on: June 25, 2017, 09:11:57 AM »
Ah yes... the idealistic white knight.  Probably early 20's.  You'll learn the hard way.

smh.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #109 on: June 25, 2017, 02:09:52 PM »
smh.
Seems like a some of the guys on here have a hard time finding good women and therefore believe that it is the same for all men.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #110 on: June 25, 2017, 06:07:03 PM »
To be honest, your priorities will shift. I am self employed and had to curtail my workouts. I have three kids and my youngest is two and life seems to finally be getting back to normal. I'd suggest getting up at 4:30 and going to the gym at five. It sucks and you may not get used to it, but it's the only shot you have.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #111 on: June 25, 2017, 06:25:53 PM »
To be honest, your priorities will shift. I am self employed and had to curtail my workouts. I have three kids and my youngest is two and life seems to finally be getting back to normal. I'd suggest getting up at 4:30 and going to the gym at five. It sucks and you may not get used to it, but it's the only shot you have.

Once things settle, home gym is ideal, but there's still time to go do your thing.

Most of the time, though, he'll want to be with his kids anyway.
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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #112 on: June 25, 2017, 10:18:03 PM »
So I just had a newborn (our first) and i work and run my own business from 10-9pm everyday!

I stopped training and eating good for the past few months due to work and other reasons, now I'm finding some motivation to get back at it.  Last night i got home at 930pm and had a blow up fight about me going to the gym, and i should be there for my 4 week old son.  Hes feeding and sleeping, i just wanted to slip out and get a workout in and try to undue some stress.

Your thoughts?


Our opinions on your personal life don't matter.

What are you gonna do? Print up these replies and show her?

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #113 on: June 26, 2017, 05:52:19 AM »
Our opinions on your personal life don't matter.

What are you gonna do? Print up these replies and show her?

JCL should show his wife a few of your posts. She would be thoroughly impressed by them. She would leave JCL for you, then his problems would be solved.
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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #114 on: June 26, 2017, 06:13:21 AM »
Our opinions on your personal life don't matter.

What are you gonna do? Print up these replies and show her?

Women are much worse. They (ab)use their social circles to bitch and complain, so basically you're fucked once they find out.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #115 on: June 26, 2017, 06:22:26 AM »
Had the same problem when my daughter was born....so now I go every Fri sat and Sunday night....yeah my wife became very spiteful and bitter about it but wtf your not hitting the bars drinking,your doing something for your health!!

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #116 on: June 26, 2017, 07:50:20 AM »
Up the tren.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #117 on: June 26, 2017, 08:22:20 AM »
Too late for this:



So get these:







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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #118 on: June 26, 2017, 08:23:02 AM »
Dang, those pics are huge. 

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #119 on: June 26, 2017, 09:10:13 AM »
lol @ print this thread and show her

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #120 on: June 26, 2017, 10:15:37 AM »
I could always gauge the mood of my girlfriend by how long it took her to reply to my text messages.  If everything is fine, she replies to my texts right away.   When she's ticked at me for whatever reason, she'll intentionally wait at least an hour to reply back.   And of course, picking up the phone to call her to find out what's going on, she'll let it go to voicemail.   Rather predictable.

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Re: Am I selfish
« Reply #121 on: June 26, 2017, 03:35:37 PM »
lol @ print this thread and show her

It should be a mandatory for women anyway to read Getbig.