Last week was my 25th anniversary in SoCA. I lived in Long Beach, Newport Beach, and now the Inland Empire. Even 10 years ago I could drive to Hollywood from the IE in 90-120 minutes; now it’s 2.5 hours at least. Driving back is 3-4 hours, and I’m driving 95 miles each way. CalTrans adds lanes, but traffic only gets worse.
The state has so much natural beauty, but you pay a price in terms of commuting and taxes (including gas). If politics matter, be aware the state and LA are as progressive as progressives get.
I'm in my Birkenstocks and shorts everyday thanks to this amazing weather.
There are bad drivers everywhere, but there are more drivers here than anywhere in the US, so there are more bad drivers, period. Tailgating, lane changes with no signal, driving in the no.1 lane slower than traffic, etc.
If you have a minimal commute and decent digs, it could work for you. There are 88 cities in all of LA County, so perhaps you could find a place that allows you to use the rail to commute.