No, size is not relative. Clearly, we can differentiate differences in mass and size.
You just don't have the body to be big like Be There/Simple Simon/UK JEFF! It just won't happen for you.
Stick to what you've been doing. Anything else, you will be wasting your time and destroying your body for nothing.
Kinda like this...because I have the genetics for putting on just plain ass size...so lets say hypothetically, I start taking the kitchen sink in gear, with gh, insulin, roids, everything, plus I devote myself 100% to making sure my eating and training is on point for me...then hypocthetically still of course, I will get to 220-230lbs cut lets say with the about the same bodyfat percentage BrThere showed in that pic at 230 several pages back.
Now after all that is said and done, and hypothetically still I am now 230lbs and as cut as bethere in his pic....but guess what?

He still looks twice as good as me because I JUST DON'T HAVE HIS GENETICS FOR SHAPELY FULL MUSCLE BELLIES ETC, and just look like a bigger, lean version of me. I look better for me, but I dont look better than any competitive bodybuilder or physique competitior for that matter, even if I am bigger and more cut FFS.
This is why DJ is so lost
DJ does look like he has made some gains in that photo, however standing beside other people with the same height, weight measurements, he may not like what the opinion may end up being. I have had strangers many times over my life give of the opinion that I am large in size(I have heard, huge, massive etc) and take it with a grain of salt because I know my place and am comfortable there. DJ thinks when someone says "looking good bro" that they are in fact saying "you could beat heath if you got a tan, shaved and got on stage" This is not narcissism, it is pure delusion.
He just does not get it and never will.