How many of you are activly cheating on your partner

[calfzilla]

hes an advisor to joon on the gh15 account

 

[el numero uno]

Another theory is that Getbiggers barely get laid, so the "cheating" question is irrelevant. Some are lucky enough to have tricked a 5 or a 6 to marry them and that's their only way out to getting some. A man is as faithful as his options, and Getbiggers options are non existent.

lmao

[thatrandomguy#7]

^This

And if you live in a big city and your wife has a full time job, make that 3 out of 4. And the longer you've been together the more likely she has...and the best part is that you'll never suspect in a million years.

and if she travels for work at all, that much more likely as well.   

[residue]

^This

And if you live in a big city and your wife has a full time job, make that 3 out of 4. And the longer you've been together the more likely she has...and the best part is that you'll never suspect in a million years.

polyamory is all the rage now in brooklyn, don't have to cheat. if i'm sleeping with another girl my primary is there sitting on her face

[SF1900]

In real life I'm very strong and very brave.

VP, you are the obvious exception. Goodrum too.

[Board_SHERIF]

Why cheat?

I messed around for many years when I was married, and vowed to change my ways after getting divorce. I was good for 3 different GF's over 4 years.
Been seeing someone new for a few months, but said fuk it and and had fun.

[Man of Steel]

I messed around for many years when I was married, and vowed to change my ways after getting divorce. I was good for 3 different GF's over 4 years.
Been seeing someone new for a few months, but said fuk it and and had fun.

So basically you prefer to cheat because it's fun?  Is that right?

[Tapeworm]

The world needs more cheating.  People only cheat with someone who is more desirable than their partner.  This will improve the gene pool instead of what we have now which is two ugly idiots breeding hideous dropkick kids.

[ilalin]

paying for an escort to provide you with 30 min of safe relaxation is not cheating. your dues are paid. the only thing is you want to save your resources for the kids so this option has to be carefully weighed.
you come home relaxed bringing all the love and more relaxation to your partner. judging from the comments here a lot of people are lying or did not really have a chance to fuck another woman. i got hit many times, even with the promises of 'i love anal' but did not do it. you guys must either look like shit, are very very shy or western man in general has evolved to have empathy more than the balkan boys. my friends regularly hit shit with paying while on bussines or conference travel.

[gym**rat]

The world needs more cheating.  People only cheat with someone who is more desirable than their partner.  This will improve the gene pool instead of what we have now which is two ugly idiots breeding hideous dropkick kids.

Sorry Tape but I disagree with that. Most people who cheat end up cheating with someone less desirable than their partner. It is usually the thrill of doing a taboo act of cheating and that the person you bang is acting horny as hell unlike the partner of many years. Or the person you cheat with will do things your partner will not do. Like anal, 3-ways, golden showers, kinky dress, S&M or hang by the Mirage ice machine.

[Tapeworm]

golden showers

Gf asked me to pee on her awhile ago and I still haven't.  I bet there's like 5 guys over there right now pissing all over her. 

[loco]

I messed around for many years when I was married, and vowed to change my ways after getting divorce. I was good for 3 different GF's over 4 years.
Been seeing someone new for a few months, but said fuk it and and had fun.

Just out of curiosity, why didn't you just break up with her instead of cheating on her?  Didn't wanna hurt her feelings?  Do you consider breaking up immoral or sinful?

[Board_SHERIF]

So basically you prefer to cheat because it's fun?  Is that right?

 horny, and yes it is/was exciting.

[Board_SHERIF]

Just out of curiosity, why didn't you just break up with her instead of cheating on her?  Didn't wanna hurt her feelings?  Do you consider breaking up immoral or sinful?

still with her and not breaking up. my choice was to jerk off or have fun, I chose fun.

[polychronopolous]

i just couldn't imagine to see the hurt in her eyes

[Board_SHERIF]

paying for an escort to provide you with 30 min of safe relaxation is not cheating. your dues are paid. the only thing is you want to save your resources for the kids so this option has to be carefully weighed.
you come home relaxed bringing all the love and more relaxation to your partner. judging from the comments here a lot of people are lying or did not really have a chance to fuck another woman. i got hit many times, even with the promises of 'i love anal' but did not do it. you guys must either look like shit, are very very shy or western man in general has evolved to have empathy more than the balkan boys. my friends regularly hit shit with paying while on bussines or conference travel.

Dominican dudes are married and have a GF, this is fully accepted there.

[Man of Steel]

horny, and yes it is/was exciting.

Well if that's your choice then cool, but I don't honestly know if I've never met a truly happy cheater....especially as the years roll on.

You ever experience any regret after the cheating is done?  Or does the happiness of the moment outweigh the consequences?

Obviously consequences occur when the cheating is discovered and that leads to anger and discussions about accountability.

Or the personal turmoil in your conscience...the inner conflict.  Any of that?  Trying not to sound too "Star Warsy" here 

[Board_SHERIF]

i just couldn't imagine to see the hurt in her eyes

Sounds like you are married to an amazing women. I am NOT, If I was I woundnt play around.

[Board_SHERIF]

Well if that's your choice then cool, but I don't honestly know if I've never met a truly happy cheater....especially as the years roll on.

You ever experience any regret after the cheating is done?  Or does the happiness of the moment outweigh the consequences?

Obviously consequences occur when the cheating is discovered and that leads to anger and discussions about accountability.

Or the personal turmoil in your conscience...the inner conflict.  Any of that?  Trying not to sound too "Star Warsy" here 

Of course I regret to this day. Like I said I changed my ways for 4 years and had it done to me (karma) - its sucks. I relapsed yesterday after going to  a club Saturday night and getting all worked up.

[Man of Steel]

Sounds like you are married to an amazing women. I am NOT, If I was I woundnt play around.

I have a close friend that was married to a beautiful, smart woman and she cheated on him because she found him to be "unremarkable" (I believe that was the term used...something like that).   He is/was a contractor...worked with his hands.....blue collar.  Made a decent income, but she wanted a "Wall Street" type and went out and got one.   It was ironic because they didn't rush into the relationship or marriage....a number of years they dated and then were married for a few so it wasn't as though she didn't know what she was in for.   She just decided he wasn't an amazing man I suppose.

[polychronopolous]

Sounds like you are married to an amazing women. I am NOT, If I was I woundnt play around.

I have friends and acquaintances who say "I hate my wife" with little emotion or humor involved.

Just a resigned statement as they come up with another excuse or order one more beer to buy them another half hour to avoid going to that hell hole they call "home"

[Man of Steel]

Of course I regret to this day. Like I said I changed my ways for 4 years and had it done to me (karma) - its sucks. I relapsed yesterday after going to  a club Saturday night and getting all worked up.

I get it.  We all mess up from time to time....to our shame.  I've messed up plenty in my life in other things.

Sounds like you're looking for the door on your current relationship.  Fair assessment?

[Man of Steel]

I have friends and acquaintances who say "I hate my wife" with little emotion or humor involved.

Just a resigned statement as they come up with another excuse or order one more beer to buy them another half hour to avoid going to that hell hole they call "home"

Yeah I can't fathom that type of lifestyle where you hate your spouse.   Is my wife the most beautiful woman in the world with all the best talents and traits?  Not according to the world's standards, but she's pretty awesome in my eyes.  I love her to death.  And I get not everyone experiences relationships like that.

Mine was a union under God and that makes all the difference when it's genuine like that.

I have no fear of my wife cheating on me and she has no fear of me cheating on her.   I'm blessed and thankful.  Nothing better to me than being home with my girls....that's the essence of life to me.

[Dr.J]

Define "cheating"

[polychronopolous]

Yeah I can't fathom that type of lifestyle where you hate your spouse.   Is my wife the most beautiful woman in the world with all the best talents and traits?  Not according to the world's standards, but she's pretty awesome in my eyes.  I love her to death.  And I get not everyone experiences relationships like that.

Mine was a union under God and that makes all the difference when it's genuine like that.

I have no fear of my wife cheating on me and she has no fear of me cheating on her.   I'm blessed and thankful.  Nothing better to me than being home with my girls....that's the essence of life to me.

And of course the first scriptural verse that comes to mind is Proverbs 18:22

The Bible is just an amazing masterpiece of work. How we can spend years discussing and deconstructing individual verses and yet The Lord blesses us with these little gems of wisdom that even a child can understand.

And not only are you blessed with her but you also receive favor from The Lord in addition.

Such a powerful and basic message.