Exactly and the passage in Proverbs 31 about the virtuous wife/woman is also very telling.
Even Paul wrote that he wishes we could all be single in order to worship and submit to God more fully, but it's better that we marry so that we don't burn with lust and that each spouse fulfill the needs of the other.
For me, it's like, the blueprint for success in relationships is in biblical scripture....it's all there! 
Do this and be happy. Do this and be sad. Instead it's "nah, doin it MY way".
Ahight.
This concept is nothing new. In terms of Biblical scripture, Moses laid this out circa 14th century BC.
From the very beginning to Deuteronomy ‘It is only eleven days journey from Horeb by the way of Mount Seir to Kadesh-barnea’ (on Canaan’s border)
(Deuteronomy 1:2).
One of the more ironic verses in all of scripture.
In Chapters 3 and 4 of Deuteronomy, Moses urges The Israelites to break away from their stubbornness and obey The Laws of God.
And then this entire concept and teaching is reinforced in the The Acts of The Apostles with Saul of Tarsus and the life he led prior to his conversion.
The beautiful thing is that we are taught Redemption in both cases written about 1500 years apart.
