Relationship question, honest opinions

[OLKE_TEXAS]

You sound like you are open to sensible advice. The problem here is that you are not in love with this woman any more. The rule re relationships goes like this: you will get more of the same. Why? Because people can't change.

No woman who loves you would isolate you from your friends and family.  Ending a relationship like yours is never easy. However, you really aren't obligated to look after her children. Of course they will miss you. Not sure if it is good to try to keep seeing them.

She doesn't sound like a reasonable woman. If she were you wouldn't have this decision to make. Eventually you will have no choice but to leave so the question is should it be sooner or later?

This is a very contributing post! This post alone is blue star worthy.

OP: how long have you been with this woman?

[tacobender]

This is a very contributing post! This post alone is blue star worthy.

OP: how long have you been with this woman?

we have been together for four years the majority of the youngest life. She didn’t really get a chance to know her real dad obviously she’s five so now she’s asking if I’m her daddy which is heartbreaking that is why I feel the guilt

[tacobender]

It’s funny we talk about this I think about three weeks back there was a thread about borderline personality he in women and what it does to us that hit home when I read it LOL

[Board_SHERIF]

thanks guys I was brought up with family values she’s anti social with her own family, my family is important to me and anytime I leave to go visit them it causes an argument she gets irritated so I would sometimes just avoid the fight because I didn’t want the kids to be in the middle of it as she would drag them into it or say stuff she shouldn’t in front of them. Again it was more about the kids sake instead of my own

Maybe your family is the issue? what heritage are they, and what heritage is your wife ?

[Marty Champions]

Is it wrong that I feel bad leaving my relationship with the mother of 2 kids.  Inside I want out I’ve been there for them when their father wasn’t there for them he left them  because he had his own problems.  I work hard to support them and give them the better things in life that I could never have as a kid as I’m leaving the kids are sad and don’t want me to go but I can no longer take this relationship this woman is antisocial with my family only wants it to be just me her and the two kids is you’re wrong  feel like shit for leaving .  Honest opinions only no dick head comments .  Anybody ever been in the situation like myself ?

does she put out enough?

[Vince B]

It’s funny we talk about this I think about three weeks back there was a thread about borderline personality he in women and what it does to us that hit home when I read it LOL

You have signs that you could be co-dependent. These people are attracted to needy people because they want to help. The children come with that package and you become the dad to them. If the woman suffers from borderline personality disorder then you will be living a nightmare. They hate to be abandoned but their crazy behavior will drive you away. When you try to go they block your path. You make up plenty of times. You are a saint one day and the devil the next. You can't save them because of their disorder. Eventually you have to get away for your own sanity.

[dj181]

borderline pers disorder is very bad, much worse than narcissism

[tacobender]

Maybe your family is the issue? what heritage are they, and what heritage is your wife ?

im a mix half mex and Irish she’s Caucasian.

[tacobender]

You have signs that you could be co-dependent. These people are attracted to needy people because they want to help. The children come with that package and you become the dad to them. If the woman suffers from borderline personality disorder then you will be living a nightmare. They hate to be abandoned but their crazy behavior will drive you away. When you try to go they block your path. You make up plenty of times. You are a saint one day and the devil the next. You can't save them because of their disorder. Eventually you have to get away for your own sanity.

fuckin well said bro exactly how it is Everybody in the house is the problem except for her

[doggler]

It's tome to tell the kids you are going out for a pack of cigarettes.

[Board_SHERIF]

im a mix half mex and Irish she’s Caucasian.

Caucasian ? oh yes the Caucasians those people..

[NotMrAverage]

Interesting post that i can relate to. I was with my exwife for 7 years and took care if her 3 younger sisters for 3 years. They came from an incest family and i could not let them stay in that enviroment... Later on they moved on to a new foster family. Me and my exwife got divorced in 2012 because i was quite heavy into recs then. I think you need to follow your heart. Get the hell out if its a dead relatioship bro!

[Mr Anabolic]

She is using you.  Why in the world would you want be financially responsible for someone else's children?  This white knight bullshit is all beta.  It empowers women and neuters men.

Leaving her is the right thing to do.  A few years from now, you'll be glad you did it and you'll be much better off. 

[Fortress]

Being a father to kids who aren't yours is a colossally bad idea.

Get out and don't look back.

Give the kids a voucher for a Happy Meal and tell 'em good luck.

[NotMrAverage]

Some awesome replies in this topic haha

[tacobender]

Some awesome replies in this topic haha

yea there are , I don’t think she’s using me she’s just not right mentally

[SOMEPARTS]

yea there are , I don’t think she’s using me she’s just not right mentally

Stockholm Syndrome.

[TTfit]

If a woman has minor kids and you decide to get into a relationship with her outside of just sex, you're only hurting the kids. Of course they're going to become attached in some form. She's best off alone with them.

Nobody thinks of the children anymore. Just their own selfish desires.

[tacobender]

If a woman has minor kids and you decide to get into a relationship with her outside of just sex, you're only hurting the kids. Of course they're going to become attached in some form. She's best off alone with them.

Nobody thinks of the children anymore. Just their own selfish desires.

well I went into it knowing I was gonna man up and support them as well as be a positive impact in there life, the problem is, I didn’t realize she was gonna be impossible to get along with. The fucked up part is I don’t want to blame the kids for this it’s not their fault the good thing I got out of this is that I became a lot more responsible and a better person I believe

[Rascal full]

well I went into it knowing I was gonna man up and support them as well as be a positive impact in there life, the problem is, I didn’t realize she was gonna be impossible to get along with. The fucked up part is I don’t want to blame the kids for this it’s not their fault the good thing I got out of this is that I became a lot more responsible and a better person I believe

Hey buddy, I wish you well and hope this whole situation turns out for the best. Be gentle with those kids though man, your leaving will probably affect them more than you realise.

[calfzilla]

Hell no! You shouldn't feel bad. You never should have put yourself in that position by dating a single mother, but you did and now it's obviously time to go! They are not even your kids, if they were then I would commend you for staying for the sake of YOUR kids but that is not the case. You should bounce like yesterday.

[gh15]

sex will never hold a relationship,, and today girls dont suck peepee and do favours to even have sex.. they are all neo feminists..

it will ened no matter what you do.. you dont love her and you see no sex from her that is stimulating to you.. and even if you did see it it woudnt hold she is old and females that are old are old news.. after few fucks its over and you just come for the sex when horny and even then you go to porn on computer since its better,, we both know this corecto?

females today must be like females in the 20th century,, in the 1950s,, in order to hve any chance at keeping their males.. and the chance of that to happen it zero

this is where unisex come into the picture.. if you look closely enough you will notice the human specie slowly and safely becomes UNISEX


females today dont give the man what the man needs.. they cant cook.. they are not submissive.. they are too opinionated.. they fell too entitled.. they like getto culture because they grew on it.. the mothers are mostly whores of generation x.. or they themselves are lost case generation x abused whores with few kids from few different men,,

it is the best best best! thing now days to remain single,, the best absolite best! option

now.. if you can get eastern europian girl.. it may be diferent story since vladi is very good at raising girls there the way girls should be.. same goes for Asian girls who will most likely do what you want even though Asian girls are more faking it while eastern europian girls at times have this true innocence you look for in a girl


a female is not a male..
a female can not be a male.. naturally
a female must love her male unconditionally
a female must cook and must learn from her mama how to cook
a female must open legs when male wants her to open legs  

a male shoud be loyal to the female but in return get sex whenever he wants how ever! he wants and be able to do whatever he want in bed with his female

if this doesn't happen the sex doll industry is now turning into advance sex dolls as you all know and seen on gh15 i made a posting about it that is very important in the big scheme of thing,, those sex dolls.. which are becoming female humanoids will! take the place of the traditional female and then women can truly find themselves shit out of luck as my Americano friends like to say,,


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[TTfit]

You can't fuck with kids like that. You can't love them, nurture them and then take off because you and mom aren't mature enough to get along. Kids are a lifetime commitment whether they're your seed or not. Especially young kids.

If you don't want the responsibility of kids don't have them or don't date women that have them.

You pretty much owe it to the kids to stay now. Fuck you and mom for putting yourselves first. You went in knowing what could happen. Man up and deal.

[dj181]

15 is right as usual 

[gh15]

ths was seriously one of my best posting in the subject ever on gtbig,, im impressed,, i just read it again,, not bad

gh15 approved