Men cry upon seeing their brides

[IroNat]

Good points there, Howard.

[Matt]

You don‘t need a woman by your side Matt. You already reproduced, focus on your goals, children, hobbies and keep spinning plates.

Thank you for saying that, kreator!

You're absolutely right.  If I do successfully have another child, so be it - but I'm no longer going to rush that [previously, I wanted any children I have to be born by the time I'm 42 - so four years from Saturday, but I'm putting no limit on it these days].

Women are expensive too!!  It's my fault for being so generous, but I simply don't think I can afford a woman.

Glad to know that other men also feel that a woman/relationship is not necessary.

[Bevo]

Coach and Howard are prime examples not to follow, two beta men who are married and divorced at least 4 times

[AbrahamG]

Agreed completely.  36% of the women I've slept with, and 50% of the women whose slits I ate had boyfriends or husbands at the time.  Female infidelity rates are likely hitting Guinness record rates now in 2019.

I'm glad I've put that debauchery behind me, and I follow a Wiggsian view on porn and number of female partners these days.  And no anal.  Is it good?

I basically assume all women are available.  I assume that most women won't be faithful to their man, even though academically, I know that can't be true.

Why don't you cut out the middle man and just start sucking cocks?

[JustPlaneJane]

Agreed completely.  36% of the women I've slept with, and 50% of the women whose slits I ate had boyfriends or husbands at the time.  Female infidelity rates are likely hitting Guinness record rates now in 2019.

I'm glad I've put that debauchery behind me, and I follow a Wiggsian view on porn and number of female partners these days.  And no anal.  Is it good?

I basically assume all women are available.  I assume that most women won't be faithful to their man, even though academically, I know that can't be true.

Silence homo...

[Earl1972]

the irony is that men love women in a way that women can never love men.Breakups hit men way harder, and men love far deeper.The only real love a woman has for anything is her children, nature designed it this way so the mans priority was to protect his woman and his womans priority was to protect the offspring.

very true

men will die for their women, when a mass shooting happens you never hear of a woman shielding her man's body

women will only die for their children

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[Earl1972]

I was talking with a woman and I told her I didn't have any kids.  She said why not and I said I thought the world had enough people.  She said but who's going to take care of you when you get old.  I was like OK so that's why you had kids, how totally fucking selfish.

my neighbor died of cancer last year, she had 3 adult sons and they all lived in the area and they hardly visited her throughout the year she was sick, her sisters took care of her

sometimes the kids stick around just to make sure they get the inheritance

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[Dokey111]

my neighbor died of cancer last year, she had 3 adult sons and they all lived in the area and they hardly visited her throughout the year she was sick, her sisters took care of her

sometimes the kids stick around just to make sure they get the inheritance

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I guess I was raised that no one not even your children should have to do shit for you.  Unless you pay them lol

[IroNat]

I guess I was raised that no one not even your children should have to do shit for you.  Unless you pay them lol

Best to plan for that.

[Kwon]

Agreed completely.  36% of the women I've slept with, and 50% of the women whose slits I ate had boyfriends or husbands at the time.  Female infidelity rates are likely hitting Guinness record rates now in 2019.

I'm glad I've put that debauchery behind me, and I follow a Wiggsian view on porn and number of female partners these days.  And no anal.  Is it good?

I basically assume all women are available.  I assume that most women won't be faithful to their man, even though academically, I know that can't be true.

Good points there.


Men love idealistically just like in Disney-cartoons.

[oldtimer1]

LOL,classic get big zinger!

The main problems with men and marriage stem from :
1. Having kids*    
2. Not picking a wife that's a real partner with a viable career.

1a. Some men really wants kids and love being dad. I never wanted kids, but I respect the men that had kids for the right reasons.
However,the reality is, to raise a child properly takes about $250,000 US dollars.
https://smartasset.com/retirement/the-average-cost-of-raising-a-child

With the financial output comes the change in lifestyle. This includes sleepless nights during the early yrs for BOTH husband and wife.
Most couples can say goodbye to a consistent, vigorous sex life, once the kids come along.
Her priorities chnage from being a wife to becoming a full time mom.

AGAIN, for some couples, having children is a real blessing and something the deeply cherish.
For them , it's a true labor of love.
BUT, ( in my opinion/observations) at least half of the dad's find parenting to be a stressful , thankless task.

At least half ( 50%) of all marriages end in divorce. Trust me, I have a little experienc with this.
Since I never had kids or millions in assets, we simply made an equitable, fair split and got divorced.
BUT, regardless of assets, when kids are involved , divorce is rarely cheap or that easy.

Most divorced men ( w/kids) end up paying child support and thre wife gets majority custody.
You can see thse poor bastards on weekends, swtiching the kids out for his sat/sun montly visit.
 She resents  him and acts like a bitch from hell. Meanwhile the kids scream for a happy meal as  mom drives off.

Lastly, if you KNOW you really want kids, go for it. If you already have kids and love being a dad , you now think I'm a crazy fool.
Perhaps, you haven't had kids BUT aren't as against having them as I was. What do you do then? Read on.

2a. Pick a woman that's a REAL partner. Anything is possible when you're married to a real life partner...even having kids .
The key is to pick a wife :
* You're genuinly  attracted to her *( you can't fix ugly or pretend she's a 10 , if she's a 2).

* Both you and her have a legit career/job.*
 Doesn't really matter what or who makes more, etc.
   Basic life needs are much easier when 2 paychecks are comming in.

* Agree on having/not having kids.
 Do NOT get married to a woman that wants kids IF you don't and vice-versa.
 Women make the mistake of thinking a man will eventually CHANGE on this. Most really don't.
 What usually happens is she gets pregnant the guy learns to live with it.
  The relationship changes once the kids come and resentment seeps in. Next step is divorce or trapped in a loveless marriage.

* Don't sweat most other issues*
  Let your spouse have her friends, religion, political beliefs, etc.

 For example, sometimes my wife attends church with her female friend. I never go to church. It's never a problem between us.
  I have a mancave to watch sports, she has the bedroom TV for her female shows ( Say Yes to the Dress). We often watch shows together , laying in the bed just relaxing.
In summary ya gotta respect each others differences while you totally support each other on key issues.

Ok,that's my 2 cents.  Blast away, I can take it with or without lube  
 
 

You're giving marriage advice?

[Purge_WTF]

Yup! Kinda ironic 'eh?
But seriously, I get sick and tired of hearing the old sage advice to suck it up and stay in a dysfunctional marriage.

 I have a lifelong friend , who married his HS sweetheart and has stayed married for over 40 years now.
 He opnely admits they haven't had sex in over 10 years and any romantic spark is long gone.
 Like most men, he openly lusts for other women, and thinks of his wife as a "room-mate" .
 Now in their 60's , what's the point of staying in that kind of a marriage?

 Slightly related - I had a co-worker whose wife "cut him off" romantically speaking. He was a big guy, but always had a defeated mannerism to himself. He sent a dick-pic to a female co-worker and came back from his vacation to find out he was losing his job of 30+ years because of sexual harassment.

 Marriage - not even once.

[oldtimer1]

Yup! Kinda ironic 'eh?
But seriously, I get sick and tired of hearing the old sage advice to suck it up and stay in a dysfunctional marriage.

 I have a lifelong friend , who married his HS sweetheart and has stayed married for over 40 years now.
 He opnely admits they haven't had sex in over 10 years and any romantic spark is long gone.
 Like most men, he openly lusts for other women, and thinks of his wife as a "room-mate" .
 Now in their 60's , what's the point of staying in that kind of a marriage?

I hear what you are saying. One thing for sure after 40 years with the same woman the sparks will be a whole lot less. Even if the woman is an 11 on the scale. The nature of man will be he will always lust for other women. It's the nature of being a man. A marriage isn't only about sex. If it is then you're doing it wrong.

[oldtimer1]

Matt, c'mon now, dating or even getting married to a woman need not be overly expensive.
The kids thing is a separate issue and I suspect we don't agree on that, so I'm not going to push my feelings on you here.

I simply hope to remind you, to pick a decent lady with a real career.
Mutual respect and combining resources = a much better relationship overall.

Having a wife with a great career works for some. If you have a big family like I did I kept my wife home but financially I was able to do it. Many people do not want to institutionalize their kids in day care instead of having a mother at home. What ever works for your family.

[Griffith]

Having a wife with a great career works for some. If you have a big family like I did I kept my wife home but financially I was able to do it. Many people do not want to institutionalize their kids in day care instead of having a mother at home. What ever works for your family.

Agreed. Ideally the mother should be at home to look after the children.

[JuicedKangaroo]

the irony is that men love women in a way that women can never love men.Breakups hit men way harder, and men love far deeper.The only real love a woman has for anything is her children, nature designed it this way so the mans priority was to protect his woman and his womans priority was to protect the offspring.

To build on this, the issue is twofold; the manner in which men crave to be loved, but also the manner in which woman is capable of loving. Men are optimistic egalitarians, but the epitome of a woman's love for a man is infatuation (lust for a man's power and craving for how it makes her feel, secondary to his power). Opportunism and self-appeasement intertwined with lust.

[D.O.A.]

Man Drowns Himself After Seeing Ugly Wife for the First Time

Hahahaha this is really fucked up. I can't stop laughing.
Imagine the wife's feelings at this great moment of her life! Would have been way less dramatic if he succeeded. He couldn't have apologized for his doing and why....

[D.O.A.]

Thank you for saying that, kreator!

You're absolutely right.  If I do successfully have another child, so be it - but I'm no longer going to rush that [previously, I wanted any children I have to be born by the time I'm 42 - so four years from Saturday, but I'm putting no limit on it these days].

Women are expensive too!!  It's my fault for being so generous, but I simply don't think I can afford a woman.

Glad to know that other men also feel that a woman/relationship is not necessary.

you seem to be a bright and likable guy. Just find a cutie you truly like and make sure she has money.
You should be able to manage this,easy.
I do agree a relationship is not necessary because of kids. Nothing worse (for the kids) then raising children in a dysfunctional family.

[Bevo]

So, in your view , an alpha man  sucks it up and endures staying in a loveless, dysfunctional marriage?

No, what I am saying is you shouldn’t marry

You of all people shouldn’t be married if you had so many failed marriages

[Theoak*]

As a male, you're evolved to be able to do things like defend yourself from bears so you don't die, among whatever other things you need to do to survive.  Women, on the other hand, in every way from their appearance and behavior, are designed to try and manipulate or trick you into doing these things and dying for them.

It's the men are disposable and women belong up on a pedestal way above you paradigm.  You make believe being tough and mighty and somehow doing the right thing is 'virtuous', and that the woman actually appreciates your sacrifice, but in reality it's simply not the case and you're the biggest cuck sucker of them all.  

Whether you want to believe it or not, there are several party stopper, terminal traits of women that make a long term investment in them completely pointless:  hypergamy, monkey branching, selective sociopathy against men, and 100% denial of accountability.  Nature always trumps nurture.  Even if you're a self-proclaimed 10/10, the hypergamous nature of a woman is designed to attempt to replace you with another 10/10 with 1% more income and 1% more social status, or non-existent 11/10.  Hypergamy makes it not even possible for a woman to be happy, they're simply temporarily "settling" at all times until they can find something better.

This is why the overwhelming majority of divorces are filed by women.  It is your job to waste your life supplying them with infinite entertainment and resources, their job to simply show up, and the second they get bored or see a better option, they're gone.  The only thing that stops their hypergamy from going full retard is their looks start to fall off a cliff at age 25-30, so they're forced into attempting the long con of marriage to secure something while it lasts.

This doesn't mean you can't enjoy having sex with women or whatever, it just means that while many white knight cucks do have the best interests of women in mind, the interests of women are almost always to the detriment or at the expense of a man in the form of their time, resources, freedom, and everything else.  Why enter into a legal agreement for indentured servitude and get married if you don't have to?

[FitnessFrenzy]

men cry upon seeing their brides!

[kreator]

As a male, you're evolved to be able to do things like defend yourself from bears so you don't die, among whatever other things you need to do to survive.  Women, on the other hand, in every way from their appearance and behavior, are designed to try and manipulate or trick you into doing these things and dying for them.

It's the men are disposable and women belong up on a pedestal way above you paradigm.  You make believe being tough and mighty and somehow doing the right thing is 'virtuous', and that the woman actually appreciates your sacrifice, but in reality it's simply not the case and you're the biggest cuck sucker of them all.  

Whether you want to believe it or not, there are several party stopper, terminal traits of women that make a long term investment in them completely pointless:  hypergamy, monkey branching, selective sociopathy against men, and 100% denial of accountability.  Nature always trumps nurture.  Even if you're a self-proclaimed 10/10, the hypergamous nature of a woman is designed to attempt to replace you with another 10/10 with 1% more income and 1% more social status, or non-existent 11/10.  Hypergamy makes it not even possible for a woman to be happy, they're simply temporarily "settling" at all times until they can find something better.

This is why the overwhelming majority of divorces are filed by women.  It is your job to waste your life supplying them with infinite entertainment and resources, their job to simply show up, and the second they get bored or see a better option, they're gone.  The only thing that stops their hypergamy from going full retard is their looks start to fall off a cliff at age 25-30, so they're forced into attempting the long con of marriage to secure something while it lasts.

This doesn't mean you can't enjoy having sex with women or whatever, it just means that while many white knight cucks do have the best interests of women in mind, the interests of women are almost always to the detriment or at the expense of a man in the form of their time, resources, freedom, and everything else.  Why enter into a legal agreement for indentured servitude and get married if you don't have to?

This + religions have been red pilled regarding female nature for centuries. It‘s the media, holywood, social media, music etc., that carry on with blue pill bullshit. 

[Theoak*]

This + religions have been red pilled regarding female nature for centuries. It‘s the media, holywood, social media, music etc., that carry on with blue pill bullshit. 

White women - very stupid, very entitled, very bad judgement concerning anything, make believe they're not only equal, but superior to men, doesn't know their place, completely pointless to have any type of relationship with one because they'll randomly turn on you faster than a rattlesnake due to imaginary voices in their head.

Black people - incapable of functioning in any type of civilization, communicates through violence, similar to women will pretend to be normal while really being mentally insane and start crying and screaming at random but replace the word crying with murdering whatever people they can find in the vicinity, also known as a level 5 chimpout among ape researchers.

[Humble Narcissist]

As a male, you're evolved to be able to do things like defend yourself from bears so you don't die, among whatever other things you need to do to survive.  Women, on the other hand, in every way from their appearance and behavior, are designed to try and manipulate or trick you into doing these things and dying for them.

It's the men are disposable and women belong up on a pedestal way above you paradigm.  You make believe being tough and mighty and somehow doing the right thing is 'virtuous', and that the woman actually appreciates your sacrifice, but in reality it's simply not the case and you're the biggest cuck sucker of them all.  

Whether you want to believe it or not, there are several party stopper, terminal traits of women that make a long term investment in them completely pointless:  hypergamy, monkey branching, selective sociopathy against men, and 100% denial of accountability.  Nature always trumps nurture.  Even if you're a self-proclaimed 10/10, the hypergamous nature of a woman is designed to attempt to replace you with another 10/10 with 1% more income and 1% more social status, or non-existent 11/10.  Hypergamy makes it not even possible for a woman to be happy, they're simply temporarily "settling" at all times until they can find something better.

This is why the overwhelming majority of divorces are filed by women.  It is your job to waste your life supplying them with infinite entertainment and resources, their job to simply show up, and the second they get bored or see a better option, they're gone.  The only thing that stops their hypergamy from going full retard is their looks start to fall off a cliff at age 25-30, so they're forced into attempting the long con of marriage to secure something while it lasts.

This doesn't mean you can't enjoy having sex with women or whatever, it just means that while many white knight cucks do have the best interests of women in mind, the interests of women are almost always to the detriment or at the expense of a man in the form of their time, resources, freedom, and everything else.  Why enter into a legal agreement for indentured servitude and get married if you don't have to?

This X2.

[Griffith]

White women - very stupid, very entitled, very bad judgement concerning anything, make believe they're not only equal, but superior to men, doesn't know their place, completely pointless to have any type of relationship with one because they'll randomly turn on you faster than a rattlesnake due to imaginary voices in their head.

Black people - incapable of functioning in any type of civilization, communicates through violence, similar to women will pretend to be normal while really being mentally insane and start crying and screaming at random but replace the word crying with murdering whatever people they can find in the vicinity, also known as a level 5 chimpout among ape researchers.

That's why voting should not be a right but a privilege, as it was in the Greek states and the Roman Republic.

Socrates warned against the dangers of allowing people to vote due to birthright.