Do you agree with this answer about Incels?

[el numero uno]

Why are incels becoming more and more common? You never saw many 10-20 years ago.


Answer by: Seb Moloch

Young men have no access to sex anymore





why?

Here is the key:



Sexual liberation and dating apps created a perfect storm. Women are flocking to the top 5% of men. These men get up to 90% of the available sex.

So it's not that there is less sex, there are fewer men getting most of it. We are back to polygamy and it's very dangerous.

This is the natural order of things. Studies show that in the past:

8,000 Years Ago, 17 Women Reproduced for Every One Man (https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success)

We are back to those days. It's sexual Darwinism.

Back then it was fine, smaller communities were easier to control. Today however we live in a massive interconnected society. What worked then doesn't work now. Young men, filled with testosterone, that do not have access to sex are a vector of social unrest.

Why polygamy breeds civil war (https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/03/19/why-polygamy-breeds-civil-war)

Socially enforced monogamy was not implemented out of the magnanimous hearts of the leaders of the time. They understood that without it they could not have peace. It gave young men something to lose, something to protect, something to work for and towards.

Unfortunately for us there is no way back. The cat is out of the bag, Pandoras box is already open. All we can do now is watch as marriage rates plummet, birth rates go down, the economy suffers and sooner or later western society dissolves or it is replaced by patriarchal Eastern ones. Or maybe we will find a solution. Who knows? We won't be here to see it.


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[el numero uno]

A good friend of mine has slept with probably 100+ women. Good looking fella, but broke.

He once opened up his FB messenger in front of me and there were tons of women hitting on him. One of them was the wife of another friend of mine.

Number of active sexual partners (for men) probably follows a Pareto distribution, where a very, very small percentage are in the dozens, most are close to 1, and a not so small percentage is at 0.

[Army of One]

This has all been accepted for a few years now.like you said since the smartphone women can choose from hundreds of thirsty men, so essentially all single women are sharing the top 20% of men in the 18-30 range or so.If hundreds of women were messaging you, would you choose the top 20% in looks or the bottom 80%?They never had that choice before 2010, tinder,Instagram etc changed the game.

[falco]

I believe many incels want to be celibates.
I Have returned to college, and the only guys hitting on 20yo chicks are 40yo fuckers like me; the men their age are too busy playing video games on the cell phone. Girls are constantly trying to grab their attention, but those incels just won't comply.

[LMV]

i'm just happy we can all hang around here together

[Kwon]

It's definitely a different time/era.

Back in my day (80s and 90s) as a young virile man we went to clubs, bars, private parties, nightclubs, festivals, even raves lol, cruises (a popular one is from Stockholm to either Åbo or Helsinki) every weekend to score chicks. Friend of mine even took pictures (polaroids) of EACH and EVERY chick he was with and it became quite the collections of photoalbums.

Still, babes was a big part of our interests when growing up back in the day. 16-19 it was the only interests or things we did, Study/College, Train, Pick up chicks/Chasing after dames.

Nowadays i think the younger generation of men do other things, maybe spend their weekends typing on forums or playing games or whatnot.

Today though in my older years, i'm just happy we can hang around together here on Getbig

[SuperTed]

Many younger men now live more solitary lives, playing video games in their rooms instead of going out.
Add that to a feeling of nihilism and easy access to all kinds of pornography and you've got a problem. 

[_bruce_]

A good friend of mine has slept with probably 100+ women. Good looking fella, but broke.

He once opened up his FB messenger in front of me and there were tons of women hitting on him. One of them was the wife of another friend of mine.

Number of active sexual partners (for men) probably follows a Pareto distribution, where a very, very small percentage are in the dozens, most are close to 1, and a not so small percentage is at 0.

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[anvil]

Many younger men now live more solitary lives, playing video games in their rooms instead of going out.
Add that to a feeling of nihilism and easy access to all kinds of pornography and you've got a problem. 

Exactly.  

As Andrew Dice Clay said years ago:  "A chick stays home on a Saturday night, it's the end of the world and she wants to slit her wrists.  A guy is home on a Saturday night, jerks off all over himself, it's a great night."

[Rambone]

Lack of male hormones, physical activity, sunlight, etc. When a male doesn’t grow up staying active whether it’s sports, exercise, farm work, or about to be shipped off to war, he’s going to have a much higher testosterone level compared to the modern day overweight, estrogen-soaked slug soaking up blue light.

[Army of One]

Many younger men now live more solitary lives, playing video games in their rooms instead of going out.
Add that to a feeling of nihilism and easy access to all kinds of pornography and you've got a problem. 

The only reason men spent 5-10 dollars/pounds on expensive drinks in bars/clubs/pubs was to have a chance to get a woman.Now that the women don't need bars/clubs/pubs, why bother?Either you are getting ass online, or you are the ultra Chad that can still turns woman's head in a club over the 200 men on her phone (top 5%).

[lightweight83]

This has all been accepted for a few years now.like you said since the smartphone women can choose from hundreds of thirsty men, so essentially all single women are sharing the top 20% of men in the 18-30 range or so.If hundreds of women were messaging you, would you choose the top 20% in looks or the bottom 80%?They never had that choice before 2010, tinder,Instagram etc changed the game.

Spot on!  

I have a good friend who I occasionally hook up with cause she brings me food and booze.  She is a 6/10 on a good day mind you.  One day she shows me her FB messenger, and it was fucking insane!  She gets either waved at or get's the classic "Hey" by over 20 different guys every single fucking day!  Mind you, I'm much better looking than she is, and I get no where near the attention from girls that she does from guys.  
Facebook and dating apps have convinced every 5/10 that she should be dating a prime Brad Pitt look a like.  

[cart@@n]

I think a good % of those Incels are actually Volcels.

[Roast Beef Pecs]

Yes it is true. To get laid today a man must be Men's Health Magazine cover ready at all times. Lean face, six pack, pecs and biceps are the price of admission. From there facial aesthetics, boatloads of cash and a truly Alpha attitude are the new standards. I've got it. Wahlberg's got it. Most ain't got it.

[Humble Narcissist]

It's definitely a different time/era.

Back in my day (80s and 90s) as a young virile man we went to clubs, bars, private parties, nightclubs, festivals, even raves lol, cruises (a popular one is from Stockholm to either Åbo or Helsinki) every weekend to score chicks. Friend of mine even took pictures (polaroids) of EACH and EVERY chick he was with and it became quite the collections of photoalbums.

Still, babes was a big part of our interests when growing up back in the day. 16-19 it was the only interests or things we did, Study/College, Train, Pick up chicks/Chasing after dames.

Nowadays i think the younger generation of men do other things, maybe spend their weekends typing on forums or playing games or whatnot.

Today though in my older years, i'm just happy we can hang around together here on Getbig

I am so glad I grew up during that time period.  It was very fun and if you had any game at all you could get laid by multiple women in college or work.  If I grew up today with all the social conditioning I fear I might be some soy boy beta cuck voting democrat and marching in the women's march to show solidarity with my sisters.

[Humble Narcissist]

I believe many incels want to be celibates.
I Have returned to college, and the only guys hitting on 20yo chicks are 40yo fuckers like me; the men their age are too busy playing video games on the cell phone. Girls are constantly trying to grab their attention, but those incels just won't comply.

What are you studying in college falco?

[ilalin]

want to pick up, gotta put in hard work...harder for some men, easier for a minority. Everybody excepts pussy on a silver platter now.

[BBSSchlemiel]

Read the book Sexual Utopia in Power by Roger Devlin and you’ll have your answers. Also listen to all his podcasts on YT and Bitchute. That book should be required men’s reading.

[BBSSchlemiel]

Further explanation here:
https://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html

[Grape Ape]

Very happy I don't even know what incel means.

Or MGTOW or any other shit like that.

[m8]

Hypergamy





https://imgur.com/r/Braincels/4Et8uAe

[joswift]

A good friend of mine has slept with probably 100+ women. Good looking fella, but broke.

He once opened up his FB messenger in front of me and there were tons of women hitting on him. One of them was the wife of another friend of mine.

Number of active sexual partners (for men) probably follows a Pareto distribution, where a very, very small percentage are in the dozens, most are close to 1, and a not so small percentage is at 0.

top 10% of men fuck 90% of the women...

[kreator]

Not a single man should ever give a woman free attention unless he‘s getting something in return. The problem is that guys that aren‘t getting laid still pursue and follow women on social media etc. These guys represent the 95% of the guys on SM. Pathetic. Never give a woman free attention unless you intend to approach her. Females are nothing without male attention and they know that deep down.
The SM era, especially Instagram has set new rules regarding dating and there‘s no turning back. It‘s only gonna get worse. Things are going to „normalize“ in the future sooner or later as everything balances out eventually bur we‘ll be too old or dead already.

That‘s why I‘ve decided not to play the LTR game and do what I want. Not going MGTOW but not getting myself in anything serious either. In the meanwhile I‘ll just watch the society as we know it collapse ...

[che]

Not a single man should ever give a woman free attention unless he‘s getting something in return. The problem is that guys that aren‘t getting laid still pursue and follow women on social media etc. These guys represent the 95% of the guys on SM. Pathetic. Never give a woman free attention unless you intend to approach her. Females are nothing without male attention and they know that deep down.
The SM era, especially Instagram has set new rules regarding dating and there‘s no turning back. It‘s only gonna get worse. Things are going to „normalize“ in the future sooner or later as everything balances out eventually bur we‘ll be too old or dead already.

That‘s why I‘ve decided not to play the LTR game and do what I want. Not going MGTOW but not getting myself in anything serious either. In the meanwhile I‘ll just watch the society as we know it collapse ...

When was the last time you got laid ,Kreator ?

[Roast Beef Pecs]

I am a king on Tinder because of my physique and facial aesthetics. Then when we meet my PUA game is flawless.