I hear what you’re saying but this not simply a matter of me projecting my desires onto others. For one thing it is not necessarily my desire.
And for another, we’re not just talking about some random person, who sees a bodybuilder approves of the physique and moves on. We’re talking about the population of people who devote their time, resources, and recreation (sometimes for years) to muscle life: going to shows, subscribing to magazines, buying overpriced DVDs, posing at expos with one bodybuilder after another. If you have one or two pix of your ideal physique for inspiration, I’ll buy that. But that’s not the population I’m talking about.
Perhaps you are in that .0001%?