I literally goto the NC coast every weekend
there is literally no one there , bunch of retirees and construction/redenck type dudes scattered around but that's it
tourism would be the only industry that would bring in someone in there 30s -
I am damn sure no one "messes" with him - he basically lives in a rural area, workouts out in a small gym , sure he has a nice house and the typical shit for a successful 50yr old man BUT you live in vacuum which makes it seem like you are a pedi stool and I am here to assure you that you are not
have you ever been around a 300lb monster bb; er in real life ?? you don't get around "real" bodybuilders , sure you're 'swole' on the outer banks but are fisherman and construction guys supposed to juice up or hop on TRT just to hang with you

I won NC teen states as well as runner up at States several times in my early 20s - go do NC States in April or better yet compete in Wilmington in May BUT for Christs sake stop comparing yourself to people on this board and old bb'ing pics - FIND SOME BIG DUDES IN REAL LIFE - GET OUT OF THE COUNTRY OUTER BANKS AROUND A BUNCH OF REDENCKS
go to a big gym and find a big dudes - you will instantly be humble and instead of being a badass in your head all the time - you find the areas you need to improve