Dating single mothers

[bhank]

couldn't care less about other people's children

My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.

[kreator]

My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.

Your son could be friends with any other kid out there

[bhank]

Your son could be friends with any other kid out there

They are like brother and sister anyway just saying women with kids are still good women. You guys don't know what you are missing. Lots of women without kids are batshit crazy sure some kids are horrible if they have batshit crazy moms. But if you find a cool woman she is going to have cool kids. Also I am a single dad should women reject me for that everyone has kids it's normal.

[Taffin]

I once advised a furious woman to try a little stoicism. Not only was my counsel discounted, she was disposed to manifest its very opposite. Peculiar creatures.

/insert ironic LOL

Just finished MA's 'Meditations' (took me a while - a bit stodgy) so I'm hearing you, my fellow Vulcan

Something funny happened to me over the years - I've never been a big fan of any kind of 'talking therapy' but that part of CBT that says we can learn to choose/control our responses has always chimed with me, and I've found it really powerful - especially when people are actively trying to provoke a response.  And ironically, whenever I've reminded the people who told me about this stuff in the first place that they can use it, they seem to prefer to pretend that somehow they are special and it doesn't apply to them or is too difficult to deploy...

Then again, I recently scored 36/40 in an Adult Autism test, so maybe there's a clue there...

[Tapeworm]

Confess I never read it at all, not even after Hannibal Lecter told Clarissse to, but I'm suspecting you did it in Latin and are just too modest to say so. I seem to remember you saying something about Caesar's. Either way, well done, bro. Wish I could give you a better discussion.

I wouldn't put much stock in those tools of the trick cyclist trade. Unless you're prone to bouts of rapid rocking and making gork noises like Matt, I wouldnt waste another minute on it. Besides, as the ill-fated Dr. Chilton observed: "Lecter is far too sophisticated for the usual tests."

[BBSSchlemiel]

They are like brother and sister anyway just saying women with kids are still good women. You guys don't know what you are missing. Lots of women without kids are batshit crazy sure some kids are horrible if they have batshit crazy moms. But if you find a cool woman she is going to have cool kids. Also I am a single dad should women reject me for that everyone has kids it's normal.

Do you have any close guy friends and family members?

[Tapeworm]

First single mom I jumped in bed with had a 3 yo kid and told me "Um, I still have a little bit of a mummy tummy."

Then she showed me the evidence. I gave her a Silver Star for extraordinary valor. I'd never met anyone who jumped on a grenade and lived to fuck another day.

[bhank]

Do you have any close guy friends and family members?

Are you 12?

[Tapeworm]

I managed a decent performance but, I gotta confess, my heart wasn't in it. I knew how Steven Tyler felt. Tour long enough and all the young hotties get replaced by fuckpigs.

[joswift]

[IroNat]

My girlfriend has 3 daughters. I have a son. We all get along great. Her youngest daughter and my son are inseparable. Her kids are really nice to me and my son. We are all going to see Batman together this week. You guys are missing out on a lot of good women. Children enhance your life they are not the end.

What?  Since when?

 

[IroNat]

My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with beat on. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.

 

[Dave D]

Bhanks what do you think makes a successful relationship?

What happened with you and your sons mother, you were obviously older when he was born, why didnt your wisdom apply to that relationship?

Was this ever answered?

[Thin Lizzy]

Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.

I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.

Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.

A solid rule of thumb👍

[BBSSchlemiel]

Are you 12?

Early 40s here.

[Thin Lizzy]

BHank’s situation is understandable. If both parties have kids it levels the Playing Field..

[Fortress]

Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.

Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.

Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.

“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”

Like fuck “we” are.

Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.

Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.

 

[BBSSchlemiel]

Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.

Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.

Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.

“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”

Like fuck “we” are.

Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.

Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.

Fortress, I’m being serious here considering I think you’re one of the highly intelligent and talented people on here. Considering you have good instincts expressed by concern for your race and anti-feminism, I find it surprising you don’t want to pass on your good genes.

One of the issues in the West is dysgenic breeding, for which low-agency, r-strategy, low- parental-investment fuck nuts breed, in many cases at the expense of the rest of us

[SF1900]

Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.

Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.

Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.

“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”

Like fuck “we” are.

Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.

Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.

For some reason, and I don’t think I’m mistaken, I have a good feeling that you’ll never have to worry about being the father to someone else’s kids.

[Fortress]

Fortress, I’m being serious here considering I think you’re one of the highly intelligent and talented people on here. Considering you have good instincts expressed by concern for your race and anti-feminism, I find it surprising you don’t want to pass on your good genes.

One of the issues in the West is dysgenic breeding, for which low-agency, r-strategy, low- parental-investment fuck nuts breed, in many cases at the expense of the rest of us

Thank you for the compliment.

I’ve never not wanted children, but not having found a suitable mate to mother my child/ren, it’s not a consideration.

As time has passed, I’ve come to think perhaps it is in my kids’ best interests to not have had them, anyway.

This has now officially become clown world.

As far as continuing “my name”/bloodline, I’m not of the thought either is of any particular importance, really.

[Grape Ape]

Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.

Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.

[Thin Lizzy]

Thank you for the compliment.

I’ve never not wanted children, but not having found a suitable mate to mother my child/ren, it’s not a consideration.

As time has passed, I’ve come to think perhaps it is in my kids’ best interests to not have had them, anyway.

This has now officially become clown world.

As far as continuing “my name”/bloodline, I’m not of the thought either is of any particular importance, really.

I’ve never understood the whole worrying about your legacy shit. As if anybody gives a fuck.

[King Shizzo]

Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.

Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.

Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.

“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”

Like fuck “we” are.

Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.

Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.

Almost like Aristotle....

[bhank]

Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.

Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.

Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.

“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”

Like fuck “we” are.

Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.

Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.

I would eat a home cooked meal with Satan himself you know her mom is making a lot of something good if she invited you. If her mom is a bitch just make an ass of yourself and insult her cooking so you wont get invited back if she can cook a casserole be nice

[michael arvilla]

Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.

Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.

Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.

“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”

Like fuck “we” are.

Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.

Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.

  ^^Heaven ^^