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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #125 on: April 06, 2022, 02:21:56 AM »
Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.

I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.

Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #126 on: April 06, 2022, 03:37:34 AM »
He has to raise his kids and after only less than year of having his last kid, he MUST meet another woman immediately, but can’t.

Poor dear.

The thirst and simping is becoming more brutal each passing year. Men are acting like if they don’t get a pat on the head from some surrogate mommy for a day they’re gonna die!

Then we wonder why we are living in a gynecocracy. “Yo bro! You suffering from X malady? You sad, suicidal, broke? Easy to solve bro: go find a woman!”

I thought you were going to mention serious issues like who is gonna care for the kids if he has work or financial worries, such as getting taken to the cleaners by courts!

His ex wife has the kids on his days off, so he doesn't have to worry about daycare thank god, but you better believe he's gonna be paying a pretty penny on Child Support, they just haven't gotten that far yet. 
He makes between 110-120k a year and would be off the hook on the older kid in only a few years, but he will be paying CS for the baby for damn near 20 more years!  I think that's why he's really devastated, as he was planning on retiring as soon as he hit 25 years, which would be in a little less than 10 years.  Because of the child support he's most likely going to pay, he won't be able to retire as soon as he possibly could, like he had originally planned.  Sadly, his life is a cautionary tale that has happened thousands of times in my line of work.  Every single guy who does more than 32 years in the department, is doing it because he fucked up with a woman at some point in his life, usually later on. 

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #127 on: April 06, 2022, 04:11:22 AM »
poor understanding of what statistics?  where are these statistics you speak of?

why are you under the impression that step fathers hurting their step daughters only happens in porn?  i think it happens a lot more than you want to think hence most kids hating their step fathers

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you are making a claim based off some stuff you heard on Howard Stern lol.  Forgive me for being skeptical.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #128 on: April 06, 2022, 07:14:15 PM »
you are making a claim based off some stuff you heard on Howard Stern lol.  Forgive me for being skeptical.

well the claims came out of the girls mouths, you are free to post your own more credible source

is it really that unimaginable for you to think that step fathers aren't always mike brady with their step daughters?

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #129 on: April 06, 2022, 08:14:19 PM »
His ex wife has the kids on his days off, so he doesn't have to worry about daycare thank god, but you better believe he's gonna be paying a pretty penny on Child Support, they just haven't gotten that far yet. 
He makes between 110-120k a year and would be off the hook on the older kid in only a few years, but he will be paying CS for the baby for damn near 20 more years!  I think that's why he's really devastated, as he was planning on retiring as soon as he hit 25 years, which would be in a little less than 10 years.  Because of the child support he's most likely going to pay, he won't be able to retire as soon as he possibly could, like he had originally planned.  Sadly, his life is a cautionary tale that has happened thousands of times in my line of work.  Every single guy who does more than 32 years in the department, is doing it because he fucked up with a woman at some point in his life, usually later on.

What do these guys retire to? Enjoy the freedom of their 60s?

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #130 on: April 07, 2022, 02:13:39 AM »
What do these guys retire to? Enjoy the freedom of their 60s?

It depends on the age they start, and the life decisions they make.  A lot of guys retire at right around 50.  Some stay in the area as they have lots of family nearby, some move to Florida to get away from the winter here. 

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #131 on: April 07, 2022, 04:53:50 AM »
My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.

Arrange a child marriage between them.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #132 on: April 07, 2022, 06:33:10 AM »
My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter with a cute littles arse and perky tits is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #133 on: April 07, 2022, 06:41:03 AM »
First single mom I jumped in bed with had a 3 yo kid and told me "Um, I still have a little bit of a mummy tummy."

Then she showed me the evidence. I gave her a Silver Star for extraordinary valor. I'd never met anyone who jumped on a grenade and lived to fuck another day.

Dude - flip 'em before you grill 'em!
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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #134 on: April 07, 2022, 06:41:55 AM »

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #135 on: April 07, 2022, 07:48:43 AM »
If she is hot af, who cares??

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #136 on: April 07, 2022, 08:01:52 AM »
If she is hot af, who cares??
Not cool.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #137 on: April 07, 2022, 08:06:12 AM »
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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #138 on: April 07, 2022, 08:57:33 AM »
Think McFly, think!

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #139 on: April 07, 2022, 10:50:10 AM »
If she is hot af, who cares??

Bro...

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #140 on: April 07, 2022, 12:03:41 PM »
Bro...

Pretty sure he meant the titular 'single mother' of the thread...

At least I frickin' hope so!
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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #141 on: April 07, 2022, 12:28:44 PM »
Pretty sure he mean the titular 'single mother' of the thread...

At least I frickin' hope so!

I can't stop laughing. I think Pamith did just accidentally make himself sound like the world's biggest pedo through unfortunate post timing.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #142 on: April 07, 2022, 12:39:20 PM »

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #143 on: April 08, 2022, 01:08:22 AM »
Now, Biff!

Make like a tree and get out of here

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Re: Dating single mothers
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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #145 on: April 08, 2022, 01:30:59 AM »
I can't stop laughing. I think Pamith did just accidentally make himself sound like the world's biggest pedo through unfortunate post timing.
Yeah lol, I meant single mothers, if they are hot af who cares? I didn't always think this way though

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #146 on: April 08, 2022, 01:44:14 AM »
First single mom I jumped in bed with had a 3 yo kid and told me "Um, I still have a little bit of a mummy tummy."

Then she showed me the evidence. I gave her a Silver Star for extraordinary valor. I'd never met anyone who jumped on a grenade and lived to fuck another day.

Hahaha!

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #147 on: April 08, 2022, 05:23:07 AM »
I personally think that the only people who should date single mothers are either:

1.  People with weak realities that need filling
2.  People with children and thus, their reality is already of that nature.

No fella who does whatever the fuck he wants, when he wants should ever get involved. 

I have a single mother friend - I like her very much, but her life is a fucking awful cavalcade of servitude.  The drama from the past and present that surrounds her is the strongest contraception I have ever experienced.

In honour of fortress's post, I will now going to go play some ratt on guitar.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #148 on: April 08, 2022, 05:24:08 AM »

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #149 on: April 10, 2022, 09:52:56 PM »
Fortress, I’m being serious here considering I think you’re one of the highly intelligent and talented people on here. Considering you have good instincts expressed by concern for your race and anti-feminism, I find it surprising you don’t want to pass on your good genes.

One of the issues in the West is dysgenic breeding, for which low-agency, r-strategy, low- parental-investment fuck nuts breed, in many cases at the expense of the rest of us

Well put.
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