just in case anyone wants to know about Brians sexual preference
What is a bottom?
Conversely, a bottom is somebody who typically wants to give away control during sex. Bottoms are usually on the receiving end of sex, as opposed to the giving end. This is a pretty general description, and there’s been a longstanding online debate about whether something like giving head, for example, would be considered topping or bottoming.
“When thinking about a bottom, what comes to me is more someone that wants to be directed and/or submissive,” Jimanekia Eborn, a trauma specialist and sexuality educator, told Them.
However, Carly S. explains that some bottoms can still be assertive and in control during sex.
As with topping, bottoming exists on a spectrum. Power bottoms are generally bottoms who tell their partner or partners what to do during sex. Bratty bottoms usually like to belittle and demean their tops during sex by teasing them. Other subcategories of bottoming include stone bottoms, or pillow princesses, who usually only want to be on the receiving end during sex.
