Getbiggers that date or marry women 10-20-30 years younger than them

[Schadenfreude]

How did you pull it off? My wife's more elegant, beautiful and younger looking sister married a fat bald guy 20 years older than her. It blows my mind completely and makes me wonder how these guys do it? 

[Raymondo]

Confidence. The resource that comes from within and is largely independent of external factors.

Current gf is 12 years younger, we live together. Long hair, legs, great ass. Head turner.

[Humble Narcissist]

Usually for the money.

[G_Thang]

Thailand Men Keep Winning!

[Rusty Trombone]

Confidence. The resource that comes from within and is largely independent of external factors.

Current bf is 12 years younger, we live together. Long hair, legs, great ass. Head turner.

[beakdoctor]

I'm going through a divorce.

Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.

I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!

It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married.  My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.

[IroNat]

Usually for the money.

Right.

Money = security

Meanwhile she'll be fracking the pool guy.

[Mothballs]

I’m yet to see a Getbigger brave enough to post pics of his wife/GF other than our old Canadian Chad Getbig millionaire (forgot his name).

[GymnJuice]

Money

[SOMEPARTS]

Money Lazy Americano whores don't want to work.

[The Scott]

I'm going through a divorce.

Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.

I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!

It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married.  My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.

I am sorry to read of your impending divorce, brother.   I say this without knowing the circumstances but regardless it is still hard on you.

I have pretty much always dated older women.  I have more in common with them, even when I was younger because their tastes matched mine.  A younger woman was constantly in need of "approval" for her looks.  A mature woman, not today's whoring MILF/GILF, is more likely to enjoy your company and appreciate  your attention.  And then again, they may not.  One of my brothers  started dating awhile ago after divorcing and he pretty much said all he was interested in was a nice evening dinner date and then sex.

And to a woman his dates, all of whom were in their 50s, wanted to know if he was interested in getting married again.  At this age women and even men, are often interested in finding someone that is potentially capable of "taking care of them".   It can be a turn off, especially if it all they seem to care about.  My advices (!) is to not make more of a potential relationship until it has proven worthy of your doing so.

[TheGrinch]

woooooooooshhhhhhhhhhhhh

[deadz]

Money. Guaranteed that at 53 I could pull a 20 yr old if I wasn’t married. Married life is good though, 17 yrs and still happy.

[Henda]

I'm going through a divorce.

Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.

I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!

It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married.  My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.

Haha I hear you mate feel exactly the same can’t be fucking bothered in the slightest to start over.

[IroNat]

Been married 36 years.

Wife is great but if it ended I'd never get married again.

No way.

I'd get a vasectomy too.

[Coach is Back!]

My wife and I met on Getbig 19 years ago, we’ll be married 17 years Dec. 7. She’s 10 years younger. But in general seems younger women (way younger) like older men because most older men are stable and established. Most women that are fit are attracted to older men that keep themselves in good shape, well groomed and along with the other attributes I’ve mentioned….so I was told

[IroNat]

My wife and I met on Getbig 19 years ago, we’ll be married 17 years Dec. 7. She’s 10 years younger. But in general seems younger women (way younger) like older men because most older men are stable and established. Most women that are fit are attracted to older men that keep themselves in good shape, well groomed and along with the other attributes I’ve mentioned….so I was told

Coach,
Would you recommend Getbig as an effective way to meet women?

[Coach is Back!]

Coach,
Would you recommend Getbig as an effective way to meet women?

Hahahahaha…no. I got lucky. Probably not even social media. I feel like we’re one of the originators of online dating lol

[oldtimer1]

I know so many divorced guys that are broke. The wife and the kids get the house. He has to pay alimony and child support through college. Even pay for college. Their ex lives a worry filled life style dating guys that now sit in his favorite chair watching his big screen tv. He might even drink his top shelf liquor if the guy leaves it. Meanwhile the divorced guy lives in a shit hole apartment complex with little spending cash. No woman wants him because he's broke.

Women want financial security for them self and their children.  A hot girl will find an older gargoyle attractive if he has a house, cars and money. Girls in their 20's will go out with younger guys till they realize they aren't getting any younger then it's time to find a guy that has a decent job.  Of course they're exceptions of party skanks that are impressed with a steroid body and no real career guy.  If a girl is making a decent pay checks it's seldom they date financially under them unless you are coach who lucked out.

Married 37 years. If she goes I will never marry again.  I want my acquired assets to go to my kids and not to some woman I just married. 

[ESFitness]

Bout 50% of the girls I've dated in the past 3-4yrs have been about 20yrs younger.

You bite the bullet and accept the fact that she's going to be showing you fucking tick tock videos when you're laying in bed before and after busting a nut.

Also accept a fact she's going to be looking on her phone and you're out to eat.

Correct them if you want, but never more than once.

Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough, but usually it's just sex. They grew up differently from how I grew up and for a lot of them sex is a lot more casual, as in all you got to do is ask, unfortunately.

[unreasonablereasons]

Bout 50% of the girls I've dated in the past 3-4yrs have been about 20yrs younger.

You bite the bullet and accept the fact that she's going to be showing you fucking tick tock videos when you're laying in bed before and after busting a nut.

Also accept a fact she's going to be looking on her phone and you're out to eat.

Correct them if you want, but never more than once.

Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough, but usually it's just sex. They grew up differently from how I grew up and for a lot of them sex is a lot more casual, as in all you got to do is ask, unfortunately.

well shitty, youre alive
hows the whole sending the commando unit across the border for me going there skinless one?

[Kwon]

Usually for the money.

I was not rich at all but had a gf that was 20 years younger than me in 2021

[MajorDomo]

I'm going through a divorce.

Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.

I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!

It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married.  My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.

This^

The younger ones are not worth it. I'm 48 and anybody younger than about 40 (if that) is not worth the time. Then there are the women with kids - that's like walking into a mine field.

[oldtimer1]

My retirement job is in an office of really hot young women.  As much as I like looking at them I would never date them if my wife died.  I think 50 is the minimum I would date and maybe even in their their 60's.

[joswift]

My retirement job is in an office of really hot young women.  As much as I like looking at them I would never date them if my wife died.  I think 50 is the minimum I would date and maybe even in their their 60's.

But you have considered it and rejected the idea