This subject reminds me of when I was 15 and I started working a warehouse job at a medical supply company, I'd pick and pack orders, my cousin was a manager there he got me the job and would drive me to work everyday, this was right around the time I started getting into lifting, I knew nothing about steroids, anyway the operations manager was this guy Mike, he was a thicker guy, balding hair, really nice guy..as I worked there he got to know me, he got to know I was into lifting/training, one day I'm working and he comes over and shows me this picture, it was him, he was super jacked, I could recognize it was his face, but he had a full head of hair and like I said he was just huge, the first thing I said to him was "what happened??" I'll never forget the look on his face, it was like the look of sadness and just defeat, he just said he got married and working more and life kind of took him out of the gym. Being a kid I didn't realize by saying "what happened" was being a little rude I guess, but the change was absolutely staggering, the guy was literally a shell of his former self. Anyway, I hope Arvilla is ok, and wish him a speedy recovery.