Did Hankster screw up another marriage? 
I bet Em started looking into his online life and said "holy fuckballs, this guy is tapped".
Maybe Em is brilliant. Gets out before any damage/violence, takes 1/2 his shite.
Its like her being married to a 13 year old (mentally). 
No job, pants hanging off, selfies all day, online all day, posing for men, etc.
Real odd...