There's a guy I know, early 30s, out of shape, fat, looks like shit, lives at home with parents, hobby is playing games (video, board). Has a job but nothing great. No girlfriend.
He's a nice guy. Good family.
But how many women do you think want to marry him? Zero. Dude is a loser.
But he doesn't have to stay a loser.
What advices would I give him?
1) Lose weight, hit the gym hard.
2) Move out of Mommy and Daddy's house.
3) Give up the stupid games. Kid stuff. Spend time working out, hiking, take up bjj, etc.
4) Groom yourself. Get better clothes. Guy looks like shit.
5) Move up financially.
In other words GROW UP.
Even if no woman finds him he is now way better off.
When I met my wife I was mid 20s, a physical stud, good job, owned a house, had goals for success.
I was hustling to make it.
My wife married up with me.
Funny thing is she ended up more successful than me later on. Who knew?
I had the hots for her.