⭐ Major traits you described and what they usually align with
1. ~40 arrests + talking shit to cops + banned everywhere
This is classic antisocial-type behavior:
• impulsivity
• disregard for consequences
• disrespect for authority
• chronic rule-breaking
• poor behavioral inhibition
• long pattern of not learning from punishment
Autistic people almost never behave like this.
This alone heavily tilts toward antisocial traits.
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2. Constant lying / grandiose lies / “accomplishments” that aren’t true
This leans strongly toward:
• narcissistic traits
• antisocial traits (compulsive lying, conning, exaggerating)
Autism is generally associated with being too honest, not chronically deceptive.
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3. Constant shirtless pics, bragging, showing off physique, obsession with status
This matches:
• narcissistic traits
• insecurity masked as superiority
• steroid-induced emotional volatility (roid rage, impulsivity, grandiosity)
• identity built on appearance, dominance, or status
Nothing about this is autistic.
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4. Heavy internet usage + banned from almost every forum
This usually means:
• chronically provocative
• unable to control impulses
• seeking attention through conflict
• unstable relationships with groups
• thrives on drama
Again, antisocial/narcissistic traits, not autism.
Autistic people get banned for being socially awkward or overly blunt — NOT for being arrested dozens of times or relentlessly provoking conflict.
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5. Childhood complaints + unstable upbringing
This matters a LOT.
A huge percentage of people with antisocial traits have:
• childhood trauma
• chaotic homes
• inconsistent discipline
• abuse or neglect
• attachment problems
This is a core pathway into adult antisocial behavior.
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6. “Reminds me of myself at 20”
People often see in him the unfiltered, immature, impulsive, angry version of themselves before they matured.
But he never developed past that point.
That’s very typical of:
• antisocial disorder
• chronic immaturity
• untreated trauma
• personality disorders
• developmental arrest emotionally
Not autism.
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⭐ So what’s the likely pattern? (Non-diagnostic, just behavioral clusters)
Based solely on behaviors — NOT a clinical diagnosis — it sounds like a mix of:
1. Antisocial traits (very strong)
• arrests
• disrespect for authority
• chronic lying
• impulsive aggression
• rule-breaking
• banned everywhere
2. Narcissistic traits (very strong)
• bragging
• inflated self-image
• constant shirtless photos
• craving validation
• grandiose lies
• extremely reactive to criticism
3. Emotional immaturity
• behaves like a 20-year-old despite being 47
• impulsive, reactive, unstable
• can’t regulate emotions
4. Trauma history
• childhood complaints
• likely shaped his adult behaviors
5. Possible sprinkle of autistic-like rigidity (very minor and overshadowed)
• black-and-white reactions
• maybe literal thinking
But autism is clearly not the dominant force in his behavior.
⭐ Bottom line
The behavior pattern you described is far more antisocial + narcissistic than autistic.