Are you still one? Why or why not?
No I am not. I don't agree with certain things like
1. Shunning disfellowshipped people for a mistake...especially if they are family.
2. Birthdays.
I can see why they don't celebrate several holidays based on my PERSONAL research but, nothing backs up the birthday one. I can't rejoice on the day my child entered the world? But I can celebrate the day I got married every year...wtf?
3. I no longer believe in the "No premarital sex".
I (and most JW kids) got married when I was 18 just to get out of my parents house and start life. They teach that you can not have any unsupervised contact with the other sex..period. Even if your 35 you have to date in a group setting or with a chaperone to prevent "immoral sexual tendencies". Guess a grown man can't make moral decisions that his faith encourages from him so they gotta give him a wingman to ensure compliance.
SOOOOO many got married young, so many got divorced years later when they realized they can now make their own decisions and that the one they choose was for personal and sexual freedom vs. life partner.
4. They "encourage" not going to college and concentrating on going into "full time ministry" or "Bethel" (Society HQ)
So what if God's Kingdom doesn't come in the next 10 yrs? How are you going to provide for yourself or a family? The end is near...it's been "very close" since the Early 1900's. I was pressured into that mindset and just ended up going to college in my 20's...putting me 5yrs behind in education for the average person of my age & financial ability.
5. I also don't believe that only they (and a select few) will be resurrected and / or will survive Armageddon. It is not our place to judge a man past or present off his deeds...only God can read the where ones heart is.
I do however based on MY research, believe them to be fairly accurate in some things. Like -
1.Jesus not dying on a cross.
When modern day scientist tried to hang a 160lb cadaver from a cross with nails that where created according to common Roman nails of that period, that the corpse fell from the cross being that the hand flesh couldn't sustain the weight.
If you research Roman Law, they would routinely "bound the hands together atop the prisoners head upon the stake" back in that time, to carry out judgement for crimes...the most common punishment being the "maiming" (breaking) of both legs. Even the bible says Christ was executed along with a thief and a murderer..why would they change it for him? Guess it's possible...but unlikely.
In fact the cross as a worship symbol has been traced back to when some of the early Christians married into neighboring tribes one being a tribe that used to tattoo a lower case "t" to their forehead (like they do with ashes at Mass?) in honor of their "Deity" Tammuz. Who is said to curse wicked ones by fire (sound familiar) ie..burning their crops.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/TammuzNot saying this is fact on where Catholicism has originated it's just too coincidental for me...not to mention proved physically impossible.
2. I don't believe in hell anyways. So that doctrine was easy to accept. I refuse that a God that is so "Loving" as our "Father" would ever let such a place exist.
Sure, maybe he'd punish us as we do our kids, but to subject them to everylasting torment
? No parent would do that so in turn, that is NOT the God I believe in.