hey, I know...let's make a chart. across the top the columns would be Married, Children, Divorced, Gay for Pay, Gay for Free, Domestic Partner.
then down the side, we can list every pro and top amateur bodybuilder, then put checkmarks in all the appropriate columns.
(I'm not being serious here)
Honestly, I don't understand why it seems that some straight guys find it more acceptable that someone is gay-for-pay than gay or even gay and in a committed relationship.
for most gays, prostitution is still looked down upon.