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« on: September 17, 2006, 07:10:13 AM »

Everyone knows that people in porn flicks never kiss because it’s too personal.  Allegedly, prostitutes never kiss their clients either for the same reason. It's also been said that people who’ve been together for a long time stop kissing each other as well.

I always thought kissing someone was the next step (after initial attraction, long eye contact, etc) to knowing whether you want to be with someone at all. Is it possible to be with someone longterm if you hate their kissing style? I don’t even think it’s something you can teach someone…am I wrong?

I also couldn’t imagine losing interest in kissing someone regularly, even when the relationship was “old”…that would feel like a small death.  Cry
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« Reply #1 on: September 17, 2006, 07:16:16 AM »

i dont dance or kiss anymore
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« Reply #2 on: September 17, 2006, 07:23:45 AM »

Does that make you feel liberated... Smiley

Or have you been married for 20 years...

...porn star  Huh
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« Reply #3 on: September 17, 2006, 07:28:23 AM »

I think for those who have been with each other for a long time stop the long kissing and only peck each other when first getting home or leaving one another for the day or whatever.  It is really sad, because once that happens you have lost a lot of passion in the relationship.   Embarrassed
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« Reply #4 on: September 17, 2006, 07:49:37 AM »

Does that make you feel liberated... Smiley

Or have you been married for 20 years...

...porn star  Huh

well dancing was easy to let go of...i sucked and its really quite a rediculous thing for any man to participate in.

as for kissing, i think it complicates things. Its quite a personal act, sharing fluids and the likes. i went thru a stage of kissing girls on the first date, kissing girls in clubs, kissing girls i had no intention of ever seeing again, the kiss for me has been tarnished...i abused the kiss.

the next girl i kiss will be someone special, in the meantime no kissing...i like the way it frustrates the hell out of girls and it makes the breakup less complicated...almost expected
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« Reply #5 on: September 17, 2006, 07:58:13 AM »

Then how will you know if you've met the special one, since you're driving them all away by refusing to be intimate, before you could possibly find out?
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« Reply #6 on: September 17, 2006, 08:03:18 AM »

i look for more than a 'good kisser' in a partner. im a difficult person to be around at the best of times because of my personal agenda...everything else in my life comes before my girlfriend.

i just dont rate the kiss anymore as an indicator and like you said...its more intimate than sex

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« Reply #7 on: September 17, 2006, 08:20:53 AM »

i look for more than a 'good kisser' in a partner. im a difficult person to be around at the best of times because of my personal agenda...everything else in my life comes before my girlfriend.

i just dont rate the kiss anymore as an indicator and like you said...its more intimate than sex



That just sounds so practical.  Undecided

Yes, I guess you would look for more than great kissing from a long-term love interest, (although I think it's a good indicator in the beginning of how sensual etc someone is going to be) I just don't know of too many women who would go past that step one, before heading on to step two.
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« Reply #8 on: September 17, 2006, 08:37:07 AM »

I just don't know of too many women who would go past that step one, before heading on to step two.

you'd be surprised...haha

youre right tho, a lot can be learnt from a kiss...but if you cant tell from the way a person carries themselves, the way they move...then a kiss isnt going to tell you much more
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« Reply #9 on: September 17, 2006, 09:36:30 AM »

i think that kissing is an intregal part of a good relationship.  It is a reaffirmation of passion.  Kissing is a way of showing love in many ways.  From the peck to more passionate kissing, from soft loving kisses to the more passionate harder intense kissing.  Holding a woman close with your hand on her back,  the other holding her head/face and kissing her is a great feeling.
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« Reply #10 on: September 17, 2006, 12:22:37 PM »

i think that kissing is an intregal part of a good relationship.  It is a reaffirmation of passion.  Kissing is a way of showing love in many ways.  From the peck to more passionate kissing, from soft loving kisses to the more passionate harder intense kissing.  Holding a woman close with your hand on her back,  the other holding her head/face and kissing her is a great feeling.

I so agree!!  Kissing is a test of true intimacy.  The flutters in your stomach, the euphoria in your head...you know thats a real kiss.  I would say I prefer it to sex, but it leads to it anyway.  I'm very affectionate so I give hugs and kisses any chance I get.

I would assume after being with the same person for many, many years...you tend to do alot of things less than when you first got together.  Its just up to the couple to keep the fire burning.  It takes effort and a constant need to make the other person happy.  Like Dr. Phil says...you should wake up every morning and ask yourself, what can I do today to make my spouse happy.

Sometimes it may only take a long lingering kiss to do that! Kiss
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« Reply #11 on: September 17, 2006, 01:52:18 PM »

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« Reply #12 on: September 17, 2006, 02:00:54 PM »

too personal. 


prostitutes never kiss their clients either for the same reason.



 
I don’t even think it’s something you can teach someone…am I wrong?
…that would feel like a small death.  Cry



prostitutes don't kiss because they're not getting paid enough and that's not what the bloke really wants either.

You can definitely teach how to kiss.  You just say (or show) how you like it.  And hug.

And ask if it's good...  Ask what he wants.  But he probably wants you to kiss him elsewhere.


I've had 3 long term relationships and we snogged.  Otherwise I'da fucked off.

Maybe it's about nice teeth.   Or if they smoke.  Or if we've both eaten garlic?
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« Reply #13 on: September 17, 2006, 02:09:10 PM »

Kissing compatability has always been a big thing for me. All of my fond memories of girlfriends past are of wonderful kisses. It heightens the bond and strengthens the meaning.

With that said, my wife and I were not compatable kissers from the start. We were very compatable sexually, but did not engage in passionate, lengthy kisses.

We're still working on it. We are both aware that it's a weak point and both want to improve for each other. In the meantime, it's funny because we tease each other for our blunders.

For the record, I'm the good kisser in the family! Hehehe.
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« Reply #14 on: September 17, 2006, 02:10:18 PM »

moi moi darling (air kisses on either cheek
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« Reply #15 on: September 17, 2006, 02:42:26 PM »

Kissing compatability has always been a big thing for me. All of my fond memories of girlfriends past are of wonderful kisses. It heightens the bond and strengthens the meaning.

With that said, my wife and I were not compatable kissers from the start. We were very compatable sexually, but did not engage in passionate, lengthy kisses.

We're still working on it. We are both aware that it's a weak point and both want to improve for each other. In the meantime, it's funny because we tease each other for our blunders.

For the record, I'm the good kisser in the family! Hehehe.

Atleast you know a weak point in the relationship and are working to fix it.  Props to you and your wife for the good communication skills and ability to joke about it!!!! 
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« Reply #16 on: September 17, 2006, 02:46:55 PM »

If you aren't laughing, you are usually fighting. I hate to fight with girls, because I'm big and mean and make them cry, LOL. Then I feel like a dog who wounded his playmate, all sad and stupid!
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« Reply #17 on: September 17, 2006, 04:06:23 PM »

Kissing is extreamly important, its the first step to be intimate with another. It tells you what type of person you are letting into your safety zone. You are allowing the first move in the game of chess that a relationship is. After time goes by you should always keep a desire to kiss your partner. There is something renewing and recharging when you touch tongues and passionatly kiss your partner you have been with for awile. There is something exciting and magical about the first kiss but the same can be said for a suprise deep toe curling kiss from someone you love when you least expect it.Kissing is sometimes as good as a hug when your team loses...Smiley
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« Reply #18 on: September 18, 2006, 05:05:09 AM »

I think for those who have been with each other for a long time stop the long kissing and only peck each other when first getting home or leaving one another for the day or whatever.  It is really sad, because once that happens you have lost a lot of passion in the relationship.   Embarrassed
100% agreed. Nothing is more romantic then a nice long passionate kiss.
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« Reply #19 on: September 18, 2006, 07:07:37 AM »


  Oh hell yea!  

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« Reply #20 on: September 18, 2006, 07:18:19 AM »

I have another point...

You have to be able to point (and curl) your tongue.  Apparantly only 50% of us are able to do that, I'm told it's one of those genetically advanced things.


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« Reply #21 on: September 18, 2006, 07:20:34 AM »

the great thing about kissing is the fact that you can kiss a woman from head to toe and everywhere inbetween and the excitement level is always high
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« Reply #22 on: September 18, 2006, 07:21:52 AM »

pheronomes help too
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« Reply #23 on: September 18, 2006, 07:27:51 AM »

the great thing about kissing is the fact that you can kiss a woman from head to toe and everywhere inbetween and the excitement level is always high


kiss me back?

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« Reply #24 on: September 18, 2006, 07:36:01 AM »

There is an art in kissing? That's like saying "the art of sex." Sure, there's a karmasutra, but some people can do missionary their whole lives and still get a kick out of it. The art is inside every person and it's a different art to each of us. Kissing is a beautiful thing when it's truly welcomed and given out.
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