I am listening and you are making a HUGE assumption. Do you really think Bush could've had UBL dead without any lives lost and chose instead to wage a war, lose lives, and put his political rep on the line and be in the mess he's in now? THAT'S what doesn't make sense and THAT'S unreasonable. C'mon man pull your head out of your ass.
I don't think you understand what happened in the days after 9/11 - read slowly.
The US called the Taliban in the afternoon of Sept 11, 2001. Went like this:
US: "Give us Osama!"
Taliban: "Okay - just show us proof that someone in our country was involved with that terrible attack, and we'll send you him and anyone else. Here is our email address..."
US: "No. Give him to us now oe die."
Taliban: "Look guys, we wouldn't call you and ask for John Smith of Houston, TX to be killed and delivered for no reason. Give us one piece of evidence that OBL is connected and we'll waste his for you!"
US: "Prepare to be invaded"
The Taliban spent the following 3 weeks telling the world that 1) They had nothing to do with 911, and 2) "Please show us proof and Osama is all yours".
I guess you just like war. Condi could have faxed them anything showing his involvement, and we get to avoid an entire war.