That may be the average but I know a few couples weddings that were over 30 G's and they did not have a ton of money. What was the craziest was like 2 months after one girls wedding I was speaking with her mother. Now the wedding was beautiful and the room looked amazing and the mother says "We should have had more flowers on the tables" WTF??? I would think that you would be saying "man, we spent too much on flowers, or decorations...blah blah blah" Most people don't remember those things, they remember the dancing and people and overall atmosphere. Who really cares if there were 10 more roses on each table? Granted decorations add to the overall ambiance but people are crazy.