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Title: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Super Natural on March 30, 2011, 01:37:21 AM
Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.  

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!  ;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Fallsview on March 30, 2011, 01:38:41 AM
Who's better:  Cleanest Natural or Super Natural? GO!






STAY POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Super Natural on March 30, 2011, 01:52:02 AM
Naturally i'm the most naturally natural, natural!
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Xerxes on March 30, 2011, 01:57:01 AM
It's the subconscious in you telling you you're not good enough. Now go and tell your subconscious to fuck off and approach like a man.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: slaver on March 30, 2011, 05:09:27 AM
well its not anxiety but the price she asks

any women I am atracted too usually get pad for their look

then its about the gaem but im impatient

I might trying  paying

I have had 10s when lil yunger and jsut pain in ass really

big titty 6 is funner

anyone hitting a 10 is paying bigtime

nature of the beast

others are fantasizizing
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: JasonH on March 30, 2011, 05:17:10 AM
Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.  

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!  ;D

Lol!  ;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: smoothasf on March 30, 2011, 05:38:05 AM
The more you do it the easier it becomes. I usually insult a 10 first just to bring her off her high horse. Even a subtle as "move over your taking up all the room" will make her think she was just called fat. No in her head she's dropped to an 8 and you appear higher. Also sets up the compliment for her misunderstanding what you meant.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Tito24 on March 30, 2011, 05:41:31 AM
why the fuck mike mentzer? grow up
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: muscularny on March 30, 2011, 05:45:22 AM
The more you do it the easier it becomes. I usually insult a 10 first just to bring her off her high horse. Even a subtle as "move over your taking up all the room" will make her think she was just called fat. No in her head she's dropped to an 8 and you appear higher. Also sets up the compliment for her misunderstanding what you meant.

lol

Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: BIG ACH on March 30, 2011, 05:45:59 AM
Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.  

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!  ;D

When I was younger maybe... as I got older, never felt that way... as soon as I started worrying less about the outcome not only did I go up to more girls, but I also had better results....

If you give a fuck...esp to the point that you are having like anxiety attacks lol... the girls can read that shit and they get turned off I think!
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Thin Lizzy on March 30, 2011, 05:50:35 AM
A few shots and you're good to go. :D

Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: lovemonkey on March 30, 2011, 05:54:04 AM
I'm the worst at maintaining a decent conversation with hot chicks.. it's like, I don't know them and I really can't think of something at top of my head all the time. But once in a blue moon you luck out with a girl that has a sense of humor and therefore more relaxed and the whole thing feels more natural.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: CalvinH on March 30, 2011, 05:57:44 AM
GBr's have supermodels approach them,not the other way around.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Tito24 on March 30, 2011, 06:03:32 AM
wel. the hottest women are usually very low on self confidence
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Dr Dutch on March 30, 2011, 06:13:04 AM
Just scream what Mike Mentzers demented ghost whispers in your ear.....

"ARTUR JONES IS GOD !!!!!"

You'll have conquered her at the instant.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: wes mantooth on March 30, 2011, 06:21:42 AM
Who's better:  Cleanest Natural or Super Natural? GO!






STAY POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cleanest.....super natural has confidence issues....

+1 cleanest
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Tito24 on March 30, 2011, 06:24:41 AM
usually i begin with heavy eye contact, so they really know im into them, the talk then is easier that way
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Post by: el numero uno on March 30, 2011, 07:14:11 AM
usually i begin with heavy eye contact, so they really know im into them, the talk then is easier that way

Do you show them random pictures from the internet? ;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 30, 2011, 07:23:37 AM
It's the subconscious in you telling you you're not good enough. Now go and tell your subconscious to fuck off and approach a man.
fixed
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Super Natural on March 30, 2011, 07:38:48 AM
cleanest.....super natural has confidence issues....

+1 cleanest

So you're saying cleanest only has the confidence to hire prostitutes.
Fair enough, One point to him.

Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 30, 2011, 07:53:56 AM
You gotta love how a gimmick with 194 posts knows everything discussed from years back ... who were u before ?



PS: since hot women provoke anxiety attacks try sticking to men
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: freespirit on March 30, 2011, 07:56:35 AM
Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.  

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!  ;D


First, you need a higher post-count.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Super Natural on March 30, 2011, 08:08:27 AM
You gotta love how a gimmick with 194 posts knows everything discussed from years back ... who were u before ?



PS: since hot women provoke anxiety attacks try sticking to men

Your reputation precedes you.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: no one on March 30, 2011, 08:19:28 AM
your anxious partly because you've already in your own mind placed an expectation of failure on the outcome.

first of all, don't approach any woman who hasn't looked at you or given the slightest inkiing she's interested in you. if a girl hasnt had the opportunity to notice you, give her that opportunity by walking by her. if she likes you she'll check you out initially and then a little later on- if she likes you she'll know exactly where you in that club at all times. you dont have to keep trying to be noticed once she first sees you. if a girl is in your vicinity, and she can see you, you'll know if shes into you. she'll look over at you. enough times to let you know shes interested, but not enough to look desperate.

now, you have to let her know that your interested too without looking creepy. dont stare at her or smile like 'hey is see you! wow your hot!' that screams desperate,  just let her see you looking back and thats it. and technically you dont even have to let her know you see her checking you out. then go to the bar and get a drink. one of two things will happen now when you go to the bar for your drinks, she either go to the bar herself and stand beside you, or put yourself near enough to her to say hi. if she puts herself near you to say hi, dont just barge up to her and say hi- gotta be tactful and see who shes with- if shes with a group and conversing leave her be until she separates herself from the group for a bit and stand off to the side, which she will do eventually.

then just say 'hi' thats it. this isnt rocket science bro. if she digs you she will help you carry the conversation cause she wants you to be there. if shes not digging you you'll feel like conversation is a struggle. the key is to leave the conversation before you both get awkward, and when you leave dont close the conversation just leave it hanging on a good note cause you want her to want you to come back and not have it awkward to resume the conversation. you dont have to stay attached to her the rest of the night.

thats all there is to it dude. if you need directions after this point theres nothing i can do for you as getting to this point is tough part for most- the rest from this point on should sell itself. dude, just be yourself, dont try to be a certain way- relax and let shit play out. if its meant to be it'll be. if not nothing lost.... thats it.

i should be charging you for this shit.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: CT_Muscle on March 30, 2011, 08:27:02 AM
You gotta love how a gimmick with 194 posts knows everything discussed from years back ... who were u before ?



PS: since hot women provoke anxiety attacks try sticking to men

 ;D

Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: HTexan on March 30, 2011, 08:32:27 AM
not at all.
but second dates are brutal.
because if she is a hoe you fucked on the first date. If she is not you most likely will fuck on the 3rd date. it is a weird post or pre fuck date. ;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Tito24 on March 30, 2011, 08:42:43 AM
there arent a lot of girls who start a conversation with you out of their own even if they desperately love to do it. its all up to the man unfortunately.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Super Natural on March 30, 2011, 08:44:30 AM
You gotta love how a gimmick with 194 posts knows everything discussed from years back ... who were u before ?



PS: since hot women provoke anxiety attacks try sticking to men

What ever blows your hair back  ;)
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: _bruce_ on March 30, 2011, 02:52:09 PM
If your anxiety is a persistent one - readjust your life for the better and reap the benefits.
"Hot" women are often testing your inner luck... in reality you are testing yourself by listening to your demons when potential tail is on the menu.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: FREAKgeek on March 30, 2011, 02:59:28 PM
GBr's have supermodels approach them,not the other way around.
X2
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 30, 2011, 03:29:59 PM
SuperNatural .... as they say ... a pic is worth a thousand words ... you reek cock lol




(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=104032.0;attach=117177;image)
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: ManBearPig... on March 30, 2011, 03:46:57 PM
i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 75th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 25th percentile.

so, i'm a better human than 75 percent of the assholes out there just by default. 

as for women, their worth goes down about 5% with each year past 20, so you do the math on how much attention you really should pay to them.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: HTexan on March 30, 2011, 04:51:34 PM
there arent a lot of girls who start a conversation with you out of their own even if they desperately love to do it. its all up to the man unfortunately.
i have had a lot of hot, and semi-hot chicks approach me and buy me drinks. so maybe it is you?
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Captain Equipoise on March 30, 2011, 05:02:29 PM
Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.  

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!  ;D

No, this only happens to losers or super geek's, doesn't happen when you're an Alpha male, because inside you know you're better then any bitch out there
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on March 30, 2011, 05:07:20 PM
I'd walk over to her and say excuse me, do you see that alcoholic guy over there with the gay cop/porn star mustache? Well he just got his ass kicked by Arnold Schwarzenegger and now is pulling guns on beautiful women and any man with muscle. He reeks of really cheap booze and I believe both of our lives may be in jeopardy. He keeps talking very loud about H.I.T. or hitting something/someone. Quick grab my hand and lets move to the front of the bar and ask a bouncer to help us out.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Boost on March 30, 2011, 05:13:11 PM
Just don't be too aggressive with the approach....

Never know who you're dealing with
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: kiwiol on March 30, 2011, 05:25:58 PM
I'm smooth, like Ron Burgundy

Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: tbombz on March 30, 2011, 05:44:22 PM
learn how to act! play the role. cool, calm, smart, witty, positive, masculine, domineering with class..     or if its a low class low intelligence girl ("dumb bitch") just be an asshole and then when no ones around pull out your cock and tell her to suck it....(this approach may work with dime pieces as well but proceed with caution)
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: muscularny on March 30, 2011, 07:06:15 PM
i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 75th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 25th percentile.

so, i'm a better human than 75 percent of the assholes out there just by default. 

as for women, their worth goes down about 5% with each year past 20, so you do the math on how much attention you really should pay to them.
'
great post and very true but when that super hot chic is in front of most guys this speech wont help
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Captain Equipoise on March 30, 2011, 07:10:02 PM
i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 75th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 25th percentile.

so, i'm a better human than 75 percent of the assholes out there just by default. 

as for women, their worth goes down about 5% with each year past 20, so you do the math on how much attention you really should pay to them.

I meet all those points listed above and disagree with you, here's a more accurate picture..

i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 95th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 60th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Hulkotron on March 30, 2011, 07:11:25 PM
It's the subconscious in you telling you you're not good enough. Now go and tell your subconscious to fuck off and approach that man.

 ;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: johnnynoname on March 30, 2011, 07:11:44 PM
being a black guy who is also a coke dealer puts you in the 100% percentile



btw, that isn't me being facetious or trying to make a "joke"..........that shit is just the straight truth
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Wiggs on March 30, 2011, 07:19:23 PM
(I'm going to be black Wiggs for this post so all you frightened whities don't thing Wiggs turned black) ;D

Man, fuck these bitches man, how the fuck you gon' let a bitch thinks she's betta than you.  With that kind of mindset putting a bitch on a pedestal of course you gon be weak in da knees and shit...Fucks dat that shit, I used a be a little bitch like that around broads like that and NEVVVVVER got any play.  If you are confident and truly believe you are better than the other person that puts you in control and you treat these funky lil white broads like the wanna be treated with chocolate dick and a bigh fat nut sack....can't wait!....end
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: johnnynoname on March 30, 2011, 07:28:03 PM
highlight of this thread is the appearance of the "Niggs" character
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: monstercalves on March 30, 2011, 07:29:31 PM
I usually scream mike mentzer sucks cock first thing when I'm at the bar.

LOOOL  ;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: che on March 30, 2011, 07:33:36 PM
I usually scream mike mentzer sucks cock first thing when I'm at the bar.
;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: kh300 on March 30, 2011, 07:41:16 PM
If you have the balls to walk up to a girl and say something shell give you her respect. That is if it isn't some stupid pick up line or some silly routine you read in the book 'the game'. Those are for dorks who need to resort to tricks and hit on as many girls as possible in hopes 1 out of 200 of them will throw out a fuck.

Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: monstercalves on March 30, 2011, 07:45:35 PM
If you have the balls to walk up to a girl and say something shell give you her respect. That is if it isn't some stupid pick up line or some silly routine you read in the book 'the game'. Those are for dorks who need to resort to tricks and hit on as many girls as possible in hopes 1 out of 200 of them will throw out a fuck.




ahhahahha throw out a fuck!!!!!

luv it!
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Brixtonbulldog on March 30, 2011, 07:50:02 PM
your anxious partly because you've already in your own mind placed an expectation of failure on the outcome.

first of all, don't approach any woman who hasn't looked at you or given the slightest inkiing she's interested in you. if a girl hasnt had the opportunity to notice you, give her that opportunity by walking by her. if she likes you she'll check you out initially and then a little later on- if she likes you she'll know exactly where you in that club at all times. you dont have to keep trying to be noticed once she first sees you. if a girl is in your vicinity, and she can see you, you'll know if shes into you. she'll look over at you. enough times to let you know shes interested, but not enough to look desperate.

now, you have to let her know that your interested too without looking creepy. dont stare at her or smile like 'hey is see you! wow your hot!' that screams desperate,  just let her see you looking back and thats it. and technically you dont even have to let her know you see her checking you out. then go to the bar and get a drink. one of two things will happen now when you go to the bar for your drinks, she either go to the bar herself and stand beside you, or put yourself near enough to her to say hi. if she puts herself near you to say hi, dont just barge up to her and say hi- gotta be tactful and see who shes with- if shes with a group and conversing leave her be until she separates herself from the group for a bit and stand off to the side, which she will do eventually.

then just say 'hi' thats it. this isnt rocket science bro. if she digs you she will help you carry the conversation cause she wants you to be there. if shes not digging you you'll feel like conversation is a struggle. the key is to leave the conversation before you both get awkward, and when you leave dont close the conversation just leave it hanging on a good note cause you want her to want you to come back and not have it awkward to resume the conversation. you dont have to stay attached to her the rest of the night.

thats all there is to it dude. if you need directions after this point theres nothing i can do for you as getting to this point is tough part for most- the rest from this point on should sell itself. dude, just be yourself, dont try to be a certain way- relax and let shit play out. if its meant to be it'll be. if not nothing lost.... thats it.

i should be charging you for this shit.


not many good posts here but i'd go with this one.  the best thing you can say to a chick you dont know is 'hi.'
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Firemuscle on March 30, 2011, 07:55:52 PM
Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.  

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!  ;D

 Me and my buddies used to force each other to approach women. We would take turns and when it's your turn you must approach a woman with 20 minutes. After a while it got a LOT easier.

 It doesn't matter what you say. Just how you say it, and how you look while you say it. The ice breaker is always awkward, but if you're clever you can make the conversation take off within about 30 seconds.

 Don't fear rejection at all. When you get rejected, don't think twice about it and move along.
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Post by: monstercalves on March 30, 2011, 08:12:35 PM



i use this line everytime!!

its like a hot knife through butter!!


------"d'you workout?"
-- " occasionally ?? "
------" im big on protein!.....proteins greaaat!"



thats all you have to say gents!


Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: monstercalves on March 30, 2011, 08:13:51 PM
btw sorry about the shoddy quality ......only one i could find!
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: FREAKgeek on March 31, 2011, 04:49:30 AM
Tell the girl you're a getbigger. It's instant, irresistible charm.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Spike on March 31, 2011, 04:52:48 AM
Tell the girl you're a getbigger. It's instant, irresistible charm.

I bang all kinds of fast ass with this line  ;D
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 31, 2011, 08:09:23 AM
haha .. tbombs, man bear pig, jnn, priceless how to be with women advice from dudes who take it on the pooper
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: johnnynoname on March 31, 2011, 08:23:46 AM
being a black guy who is also a coke dealer puts you in the 100% percentile



btw, that isn't me being facetious or trying to make a "joke"..........that shit is just the straight truth

I never gave advice- just mentioned that being a black coke dealer puts you in the 100 percentile of getting women





who the fuck takes advice about getting women from Tbombz?!

I mean, he seems like a nice enough guy but that dude is a total twink lover
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Devon97 on March 31, 2011, 08:27:37 AM
I'm the worst at maintaining a decent conversation with hot chicks.. it's like, I don't know them and I really can't think of something at top of my head all the time. But once in a blue moon you luck out with a girl that has a sense of humor and therefore more relaxed and the whole thing feels more natural.

lol why am I now surprised.

You should pray about it, oh wait... nevermind.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Devon97 on March 31, 2011, 08:30:20 AM
Remember approaching someone is based simply off first impressions ( what you look like + attitude)

If both of these are in check then you will do well initially.

Obviously looking good + friendly help, A LOT.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: lovemonkey on March 31, 2011, 08:31:25 AM
lol why am I now surprised.

You should pray about it, oh wait... nevermind.

Looks like I've got myself a stalker  ;D

How much do I owe ya for renting your head?
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: johnnynoname on March 31, 2011, 08:33:18 AM
I'm, honestly, clueless when it comes to women.......I have to google "the clitoris"
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Tito24 on March 31, 2011, 08:45:47 AM
girls usually are a little intimidated with me when i speak to them at first. they think im a total jerk because im a little bigger then most guys what is quite easy since most are little tits.
they find it attractive but on the same time they dont know how to keep themselves.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Meso_z on March 31, 2011, 09:33:35 AM
girls usually are a little intimidated with me when i speak to them at first. they think im a total jerk because im a little bigger then most guys what is quite easy since most are little tits.
they find it attractive but on the same time they dont know how to keep themselves.
Title: Re: Approach anxiety with really hot women...
Post by: Boost on March 31, 2011, 09:48:59 AM
The more you want something, the further away it seems to be.

Let them come to you. Concentrate on your image. Lean Face, visible vascularity, non offensive outfit.

It's 90% image....like it or not. Don't be delusional. It can be brutally sobering to look in the mirror and admit you're a bloated mess.

Once you've mastered your image, you're on the home straight when they approach. Any goofball can pull off the whole "cocky/confident, put the girl down with silly insults, show higher value etc......