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it seems like a lot of women find me reasonably attractive, does this mean they dont care about my receding hair?
i cut it to 1"-1.5" on top and shorter on side. so it looks "tidy" (just receding, not bird nest yet) but there is definitely noticable receding (sharp "M" shape on the front)
but my girl friend, she often mentions i have bad hair and how she likes men with nice gelled hair. she doesnt seem to understand why my hair is like this. like doesnt understand the balding process somehow. (a lot of men at my stage dont even understand what is happening to them, lol, just think they have strange angle of hair etc)
now she keeps saying how our son has nice hair and she hopes it will not be like me etc and she can put gel in it and women will go crazy for him etc
all this time i think "oh fuck she is not even remotely attracted to me because my hair"
shame, since some other women seem not to care about man's hair, or they just pretend because they need to snatch husband?
speak on these matters
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her senior brother has legendary hairline, really low and razor straight. she thinks he's really attractive and a stud
her junior brother has some receding hairline, and she gets freaked out how "old" he looks
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both of them hair real short buzzed
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women judge a man's appearance largely by his hairline ???
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I had a great set of flowing hair all the way up to 39 years, now the hairline is kaput and alot of grey hair has emerged both at the line, the temples and on the moustashe and beard.
In general, it is always better to have a great set o' hair and an epic hairline, but every now and then you find those who are fine without.
Some even prefer bald men.
As long as it complements your facial structure.
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I had a great set of flowing hair all the way up to 39 years, now the hairline is kaput and alot of grey hair has emerged both at the line, the temples and on the moustashe and beard.
In general, it is always better to have a great set o' hair and an epic hairline, but every now and then you find those who are fine without.
Some even prefer bald men.
As long as it complements your facial structure.
i think i found the wrong type, when my hairloss get worse inevitably (despite finasteride) i wonder what will happen
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i think i found the wrong type, when my hairloss get worse inevitably (despite finasteride) i wonder what will happen
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you will be just another bold head north of Greece ;D ;D ;D
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directly correlates to how full your wallet is with cash ::)
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please love me i have hair ::) oh brother
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it seems like a lot of women find me reasonably attractive, does this mean they dont care about my receding hair?
i cut it to 1"-1.5" on top and shorter on side. so it looks "tidy" (just receding, not bird nest yet) but there is definitely noticable receding (sharp "M" shape on the front)
but my girl friend, she often mentions i have bad hair and how she likes men with nice gelled hair. she doesnt seem to understand why my hair is like this. like doesnt understand the balding process somehow. (a lot of men at my stage dont even understand what is happening to them, lol, just think they have strange angle of hair etc)
Your baby mamma is mind fucking you every which way you need to assert yourself now or forever be a henpecked pussywhipped waste of a man.
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Use this as a rule of thumb.....
Bald, lean, attractive face = You are good to go
Bald, lean, unattractive face = You'll be banging 2's and 3's
Bald, fat, attractive face = You'll be lucky to pull a decent looking porker
Bald, fat, unattractive face = You better have a shit-ton of money
Bald, fat, unattractive face, broke = Kill yourself
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Use this as a rule of thumb.....
Bald, lean, attractive face = You are good to go
Bald, lean, unattractive face = You'll be banging 2's and 3's
Bald, fat, attractive face = You'll be lucky to pull a decent looking porker
Bald, fat, unattractive face = You better have a shit-ton of money
Bald, fat, unattractive face, broke = Kill yourself
This ^^.
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Use this as a rule of thumb.....
Bald, lean, attractive face = You are good to go
Bald, lean, unattractive face = You'll be banging 2's and 3's
Bald, fat, attractive face = You'll be lucky to pull a decent looking porker
Bald, fat, unattractive face = You better have a shit-ton of money
Bald, fat, unattractive face, broke = Kill yourself
2's and 3's?
oh shit<....
better enjoy the rest of my hair while it lasts and bang as many decent looking women as possible
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Shave it the fuck off already for fucks' sake!
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just lift, make money, live healthy and build your game.
as you age, you'll be more and more of a valuable asset. Bald built dude at 30 does okay. bald built dude at 50 with money is cleaning the fck up :)
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Fuck hair.
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guys that have nice hair but a shit physique talk about their hair, coz they got no physique to talk about lol
wonder if they'd have the nerve to make comments about being bald to nig-nogs as most of them fellas are?
probably not
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guys that have nice hair but a shit physique talk about their hair, coz they got no physique to talk about lol
wonder if they'd have the nerve to make comments about being bald to nig-nogs as most of them fellas are?
probably not
they are not bald, learn the difference
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damn that's an unaesthetic cranium right thurrrr
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(http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m7jjglO7Rf1qj9ijdo1_1280.jpg)
That is not Wiggs.
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^^^ LOL!
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Use this as a rule of thumb.....
Bald, lean, attractive face = You are good to go
Bald, lean, unattractive face = You'll be banging 2's and 3's
Bald, fat, attractive face = You'll be lucky to pull a decent looking porker
Bald, fat, unattractive face = You better have a shit-ton of money
Bald, fat, unattractive face, broke = Kill yourself
Bald,muscular,ok attractive=good to go ;)
fixed
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Doesn't matter to when as long as you look like this guy
(http://i164.photobucket.com/albums/u31/nickrod808/Untitled-1copy_zpseab597a9.jpg)
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absolutely hilarious and true.
some women say they dont mind receeding hairline blabla.thats al relative compromises for them.
and if they like a famous actor whos bald, its bc hes an actor.
george clooney lookalike will not do as good as the real george clooney.
women have very good and brutal sense for atractivity,they just pretend to not and do make compromises.
yes yes all true
but some make compromise without pretending
lol
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absolutely hilarious and true.
some women say they dont mind receeding hairline blabla.thats al relative compromises for them.
and if they like a famous actor whos bald, its bc hes an actor.
george clooney lookalike will not do as good as the real george clooney.
women have very good and brutal sense for atractivity,they just pretend to not and do make compromises.
Not always true.I shave my head {though I'm not truly bald but a receding hairline} and I've had more then a couple of women tell me that they are attracted to bald men.
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Most women love a man with a full head of hair. It can be very aesthetically pleasing to the eye and helps to properly frame the face and balance out the proportions produced by either a wide jaw or a long chin.
Unfortunately, if your genes are starting to express themselves in such a way that hair loss is becoming apparent, consider simply shaving it all off.
If you have a good personality, are intelligent, can spark up compelling conversations, are generally funny, keep neatly groomed facial hair, sharp sense of clothing style and keep a slim, muscular body, the women (from many different class circles) will flock to you regardless.
While some women are superficial and will only date a man with a full head of flowing hair, most women (particularly those that are more mature than your average 20-year old) will see past the hair loss and quantify you for the sum of your parts (extra credit: a rather large penis WILL ALWAYS be a crowd-pleaser amongst women).
Now, if you have all of the aforementioned qualities, albeit with a bald head, BUT have money in the bank, EVERY WOMAN (regardless of race or class) will suck your dick and try to marry you. Remember though, that is assuming you have the personality, intelligence, conversational skills, humor, slim/muscular body and neat grooming ALONG with a hefty bank account.
I have a large amount of female friends, most of which are extremely good looking and the resounding theme regarding their approach to picking a man (even though it's a shame to say) is determined by whether or not a man has (A) Money, which leads to (B) Power & Influence, which furthermore allows for (C) the woman to lead a life of leisure, while knowing that she doesn't have to work and her children will have a good life.
Cruel, but this is what I've noticed over the years, especially being a gay man and having women from all walks of life telling me what they would have done differently, if they could have gone back and chosen another man for themselves.
So in order of importance, women like:
Money
Money
Attractive characteristic traits (personality, humor, intelligence etc..)
Attractive physical traits (well-toned body, rather large cock full head of hair etc.)
There are also women out there who are genuinely interested in true love and could care less about a man's bank account or even his physical attributes, so as long as he has a good heart and a willingness to be faithful and love her in return. That said, those are the best types of women and, in this superficial world we live in, they are extremely hard to come by. If you do find someone like that, keep her, because it's the same as winning the lottery.
Good Luck!
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P.S. In the hierarchy of things women like, feel free to cross out the last two (characteristic and physical traits) and replace them with Money and it will still make sense.
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I think the worst is older dudes that wear clown hair styles instead of just clipping it down tight.
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Shallow women who care about hair on a man after 30 yo are not worth any time or effort and wont react well once they are judged for getting a little heavy or old after 40
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a lot of butthurt bald dudes in here denying the truth
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Most women love a man with a full head of hair. It can be very aesthetically pleasing to the eye and helps to properly frame the face and balance out the proportions produced by either a wide jaw or a long chin.
Unfortunately, if your genes are starting to express themselves in such a way that hair loss is becoming apparent, consider simply shaving it all off.
If you have a good personality, are intelligent, can spark up compelling conversations, are generally funny, keep neatly groomed facial hair, sharp sense of clothing style and keep a slim, muscular body, the women (from many different class circles) will flock to you regardless.
While some women are superficial and will only date a man with a full head of flowing hair, most women (particularly those that are more mature than your average 20-year old) will see past the hair loss and quantify you for the sum of your parts (extra credit: a rather large penis WILL ALWAYS be a crowd-pleaser amongst women).
Now, if you have all of the aforementioned qualities, albeit with a bald head, BUT have money in the bank, EVERY WOMAN (regardless of race or class) will suck your dick and try to marry you. Remember though, that is assuming you have the personality, intelligence, conversational skills, humor, slim/muscular body and neat grooming ALONG with a hefty bank account.
I have a large amount of female friends, most of which are extremely good looking and the resounding theme regarding their approach to picking a man (even though it's a shame to say) is determined by whether or not a man has (A) Money, which leads to (B) Power & Influence, which furthermore allows for (C) the woman to lead a life of leisure, while knowing that she doesn't have to work and her children will have a good life.
Cruel, but this is what I've noticed over the years, especially being a gay man and having women from all walks of life telling me what they would have done differently, if they could have gone back and chosen another man for themselves.
So in order of importance, women like:
Money
Money
Attractive characteristic traits (personality, humor, intelligence etc..)
Attractive physical traits (well-toned body, rather large cock full head of hair etc.)
There are also women out there who are genuinely interested in true love and could care less about a man's bank account or even his physical attributes, so as long as he has a good heart and a willingness to be faithful and love her in return. That said, those are the best types of women and, in this superficial world we live in, they are extremely hard to come by. If you do find someone like that, keep her, because it's the same as winning the lottery.
Good Luck!
"1"
P.S. In the hierarchy of things women like, feel free to cross out the last two (characteristic and physical traits) and replace them with Money and it will still make sense.
Very insightful. Queer eye for the straight guy speak is always solid wisdom.
So let me ask you this:
For the straight guy, assuming he has money and power covered, how would you rank the basic physical characteristics in terms of importance to women?
Facial looks
Physical development (let's assume we use a Brad Pitt/Daniel Craig physique as the penultimate for women, since that's what they want anyways)
Youth vs Maturity
Height
Grooming/Hair
Other (LOL...I know you know what I mean)
Thanks 1MR...keep preaching the wisdom. Some of us are listening.
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Very insightful. Queer eye for the straight guy speak is always solid wisdom.
So let me ask you this:
For the straight guy, assuming he has money and power covered, how would you rank the basic physical characteristics in terms of importance to women?
Facial looks
Physical development (let's assume we use a Brad Pitt/Daniel Craig physique as the penultimate for women, since that's what they want anyways)
Youth vs Maturity
Height
Grooming/Hair
Other (LOL...I know you know what I mean)
Thanks 1MR...keep preaching the wisdom. Some of us are listening.
If the man has both money and power covered, *most* women (I say so loosely, as I am not a woman) will rank it as such:
(1) Height: most women do not like short men ( < 5'8 ), unless they are particularly short themselves. Short stature typically means (in their minds at least) that their children will be short as well and while standing next to a shorter man women become overly self-conscious.
(2) Maturity: a man's maturity level determines how he treats a woman and others, women find this sexy, as it is also a sign of overall wisdom and experience throughout life.
(3) Facial Looks: You're either born with a good looking face or you're not. An attractive face is easy on the eyes, is telling of what your children might look like and is your calling card before you even open your mouth. Women like this, but also accept the fact that over time, a good looking face will become average due to seeing it every day.
(4) Physical development: how well developed you are is usually a result of genes + hard work and tells a woman how disciplined you are in attaining overall goals. You have a great build and she will assume that you have the necessary discipline to succeed in most aspects of life and that, in turn, your discipline can prove beneficial towards your ability to keep working towards the relationship. NOW, if you're too physically developed, think IFBB pro or even an NPC competitor, this will be a turnoff for most women. They will assume that you are too conceited and overly consumed with the gym, when they would much rather have a man lift their legs up in the air as opposed to a barbell. Moral here is that there must be a balance..
(5) Grooming: women like a man that is clean, well dressed and properly groomed. Luckily, this is something that she can work on with the man if she finds other aspects of him to be appealing enough.
(6) Youth:this can be both good and bad. A young man smells of virility, strength, energy, stamina and sexual prowess. The problem with a young man is that he is more likely to cheat than an older man, simply because he gets more choices/options with women. Also, a younger man is typically not as mature and women find this to be a turn off. After having sex with a younger man for a few times, they lose interest and seek a mature man that can stimulate both their mind and body.
(7) Penis size: This is a great way to catch a woman's attention. Unfortunately, you don't walk around with your penis exposed or with a sign that says how big your member is. While it would be a GREAT way to break the ice and make a woman want to sleep with you, women actually find that an average sized penis (around 6-7 inches with moderate girth) will do the trick so as long as a man knows how to use it in bed. Remember this quote by some random porn star, "A big cock is like an amusement park, you might enjoy visiting for the day, but you wouldn't want to live there".
Remember, this is just my opinion based on what countless amount of female friends (within the ages of 30-50) have told me over time regarding preferences in men.
Good Luck!
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If the man has both money and power covered, *most* women (I say so loosely, as I am not a woman) will rank it as such:
(1) Height: most women do not like short men (< 5'8 ), unless they are particularly short themselves. Short stature typically means (in their minds at least) that their children will be short as well and while standing next to a shorter man women become overly self-conscious.
(2) Maturity: a man's maturity level determines how he treats a woman and others, women find this sexy, as it is also a sign of overall wisdom and experience throughout life.
(3) Facial Looks: You're either born with a good looking face or you're not. An attractive face is easy on the eyes, is telling of what your children might look like and is your calling card before you even open your mouth. Women like this, but also accept the fact that over time, a good looking face will become average due to seeing it every day.
(4) Physical development: how well developed you are is usually a result of genes + hard work and tells a woman how disciplined you are in attaining overall goals. You have a great build and she will assume that you have the necessary discipline to succeed in most aspects of life and that, in turn, your discipline can prove beneficial towards your ability to keep working towards the relationship. NOW, if you're too physically developed, think IFBB pro or even an NPC competitor, this will be a turnoff for most women. They will assume that you are too conceited and overly consumed with the gym, when they would much rather have a man lift their legs up in the air as opposed to a barbell. Moral here is that there must be a balance..
(5) Grooming: women like a man that is clean, well dressed and properly groomed. Luckily, this is something that she can work on with the man if she finds other aspects of him to be appealing enough.
(6) Youth:this can be both good and bad. A young man smells of virility, strength, energy, stamina and sexual prowess. The problem with a young man is that he is more likely to cheat than an older man, simply because he gets more choices/options with women. Also, a younger man is typically not as mature and women find this to be a turn off. After having sex with a younger man for a few times, they lose interest and seek a mature man that can stimulate both their mind and body.
(7) Penis size: This is a great way to catch a woman's attention. Unfortunately, you don't walk around with your penis exposed or with a sign that says how big your member is. While it would be a GREAT way to break the ice and make a woman want to sleep with you, women actually find that an average sized penis (around 6-7 inches with moderate girth) will do the trick so as long as a man knows how to use it in bed. Remember this quote by some random porn star, "A big cock is like an amusement park, you might enjoy visiting for the day, but you wouldn't want to live there".
Remember, this is just my opinion based on what countless amount of female friends (within the ages of 30-50) have told me over time regarding preferences in men.
Good Luck!
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Great post
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Great post
Thank you brother!
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Thank you brother!
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You're welcome
OMR = Experience
Great poster.
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If the man has both money and power covered, *most* women (I say so loosely, as I am not a woman) will rank it as such:
(1) Height: most women do not like short men ( < 5'8 ), unless they are particularly short themselves. Short stature typically means (in their minds at least) that their children will be short as well and while standing next to a shorter man women become overly self-conscious.
(2) Maturity: a man's maturity level determines how he treats a woman and others, women find this sexy, as it is also a sign of overall wisdom and experience throughout life.
(3) Facial Looks: You're either born with a good looking face or you're not. An attractive face is easy on the eyes, is telling of what your children might look like and is your calling card before you even open your mouth. Women like this, but also accept the fact that over time, a good looking face will become average due to seeing it every day.
(4) Physical development: how well developed you are is usually a result of genes + hard work and tells a woman how disciplined you are in attaining overall goals. You have a great build and she will assume that you have the necessary discipline to succeed in most aspects of life and that, in turn, your discipline can prove beneficial towards your ability to keep working towards the relationship. NOW, if you're too physically developed, think IFBB pro or even an NPC competitor, this will be a turnoff for most women. They will assume that you are too conceited and overly consumed with the gym, when they would much rather have a man lift their legs up in the air as opposed to a barbell. Moral here is that there must be a balance..
(5) Grooming: women like a man that is clean, well dressed and properly groomed. Luckily, this is something that she can work on with the man if she finds other aspects of him to be appealing enough.
(6) Youth:this can be both good and bad. A young man smells of virility, strength, energy, stamina and sexual prowess. The problem with a young man is that he is more likely to cheat than an older man, simply because he gets more choices/options with women. Also, a younger man is typically not as mature and women find this to be a turn off. After having sex with a younger man for a few times, they lose interest and seek a mature man that can stimulate both their mind and body.
(7) Penis size: This is a great way to catch a woman's attention. Unfortunately, you don't walk around with your penis exposed or with a sign that says how big your member is. While it would be a GREAT way to break the ice and make a woman want to sleep with you, women actually find that an average sized penis (around 6-7 inches with moderate girth) will do the trick so as long as a man knows how to use it in bed. Remember this quote by some random porn star, "A big cock is like an amusement park, you might enjoy visiting for the day, but you wouldn't want to live there".
Remember, this is just my opinion based on what countless amount of female friends (within the ages of 30-50) have told me over time regarding preferences in men.
Good Luck!
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Solid post.
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Thanks for the well-thought-out reply.
I have so many questions, but I don't want to hog your time. I appreciate the time you've given, and I'll put that advice to good use.
Thanks.
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All I know for sure is that all of the unambiguously most attractive women I've ever met in my life were married to somewhat older men with lots of money. My experiences include overseas data as well.
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cut it short, get on some actual non-bunk aas and go for statham mode
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Most women love a man with a full head of hair. It can be very aesthetically pleasing to the eye and helps to properly frame the face and balance out the proportions produced by either a wide jaw or a long chin.
Unfortunately, if your genes are starting to express themselves in such a way that hair loss is becoming apparent, consider simply shaving it all off.
If you have a good personality, are intelligent, can spark up compelling conversations, are generally funny, keep neatly groomed facial hair, sharp sense of clothing style and keep a slim, muscular body, the women (from many different class circles) will flock to you regardless.
While some women are superficial and will only date a man with a full head of flowing hair, most women (particularly those that are more mature than your average 20-year old) will see past the hair loss and quantify you for the sum of your parts (extra credit: a rather large penis WILL ALWAYS be a crowd-pleaser amongst women).
Now, if you have all of the aforementioned qualities, albeit with a bald head, BUT have money in the bank, EVERY WOMAN (regardless of race or class) will suck your dick and try to marry you. Remember though, that is assuming you have the personality, intelligence, conversational skills, humor, slim/muscular body and neat grooming ALONG with a hefty bank account.
I have a large amount of female friends, most of which are extremely good looking and the resounding theme regarding their approach to picking a man (even though it's a shame to say) is determined by whether or not a man has (A) Money, which leads to (B) Power & Influence, which furthermore allows for (C) the woman to lead a life of leisure, while knowing that she doesn't have to work and her children will have a good life.
Cruel, but this is what I've noticed over the years, especially being a gay man and having women from all walks of life telling me what they would have done differently, if they could have gone back and chosen another man for themselves.
So in order of importance, women like:
Money
Money
Attractive characteristic traits (personality, humor, intelligence etc..)
Attractive physical traits (well-toned body, rather large cock full head of hair etc.)
There are also women out there who are genuinely interested in true love and could care less about a man's bank account or even his physical attributes, so as long as he has a good heart and a willingness to be faithful and love her in return. That said, those are the best types of women and, in this superficial world we live in, they are extremely hard to come by. If you do find someone like that, keep her, because it's the same as winning the lottery.
Good Luck!
"1"
P.S. In the hierarchy of things women like, feel free to cross out the last two (characteristic and physical traits) and replace them with Money and it will still make sense.
I have tried to fake interest in women with money but I'm unable to do so. What is it that allows women to get with a man they feel no physical attraction for?
Is it in their genes?
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All I know for sure is that all of the unambiguously most attractive women I've ever met in my life were married to somewhat older men with lots of money. My experiences include overseas data as well.
My issue is that I have enough wealth - made lots early on, and just kept at it. Wealth is the pleasant side-effect of applying intelligence in the pursuit of ambition, power and prestige. But I hide it. I don't like flaunting my wealth. If I'm being honest, I hoard my wealth for fear of losing it; and I abhor wasteful spending of my money...I worked hard for it and I'm not going to blow it on stupid emotional material possessions for the sake of peacocking.
So I have to let everything else do the talking. And since I never feel confident enough in the body I've developed (I'm a bodybuilder after all...we always hate the way we look), I never have the confidence to use how I look to attract women. Instead, I come off as aloof, stand-off-ish, cold, and distant. Meanwhile, I'm just hoping the hot chick comes over and talks to me, because I don't have the nuts to go talk to her. I have a million things to talk to her about...just have to figure out a way to meet her.
Worst of all, I can't stand rejection in any form. So I usually just say "ah...she probably wouldn't like a guy like me anyways...I work too much and she probably wants a guy who's less than 5% bodyfat and I'm only 12%". And then I convince myself I'm right. And then laugh at myself for being delusional...I'm the guy who can close a M&A in a boardroom with tempers flaring, but I can't talk to a lonely girl at a bar.
LOL...such high school drama. I laugh at my own ineptitudes with women. We all have our challenges.
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Shave it smooth, bitches love rubbing a smooth head. 8)
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Shave it smooth, bitches love rubbing a smooth head. 8)
even if it is cone-shaped ?
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My issue is that I have enough wealth - made lots early on, and just kept at it. Wealth is the pleasant side-effect of applying intelligence in the pursuit of ambition, power and prestige. But I hide it. I don't like flaunting my wealth. If I'm being honest, I hoard my wealth for fear of losing it; and I abhor wasteful spending of my money...I worked hard for it and I'm not going to blow it on stupid emotional material possessions for the sake of peacocking.
So I have to let everything else do the talking. And since I never feel confident enough in the body I've developed (I'm a bodybuilder after all...we always hate the way we look), I never have the confidence to use how I look to attract women. Instead, I come off as aloof, stand-off-ish, cold, and distant. Meanwhile, I'm just hoping the hot chick comes over and talks to me, because I don't have the nuts to go talk to her. I have a million things to talk to her about...just have to figure out a way to meet her.
Worst of all, I can't stand rejection in any form. So I usually just say "ah...she probably wouldn't like a guy like me anyways...I work too much and she probably wants a guy who's less than 5% bodyfat and I'm only 12%". And then I convince myself I'm right. And then laugh at myself for being delusional...I'm the guy who can close a M&A in a boardroom with tempers flaring, but I can't talk to a lonely girl at a bar.
LOL...such high school drama. I laugh at my own ineptitudes with women. We all have our challenges.
Can you see yourself with a girl who works as a cashier at walmart or do you limit yourself to someone within your income bracket/education level/social class?
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cut it short, get on some actual non-bunk aas and go for statham mode
I think that it is funny that chicks are into him. Suppose he is decent enough looking and all, but that hairline is brutal. I like the guy, made some damn fine movies.
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Can you see yourself with a girl who works as a cashier at walmart or do you limit yourself to someone within your income bracket/education level/social class?
The income bracket isn't that important. There are plenty of hyper-intelligent people who've come upon hard times financially. Likewise, many a cashier is doing so to pay for higher education that will eventually pay off. I started out quite poor myself, but through hard work and ambition and an intelligent planful approach, I made money. So yes...I would date poor woman if she were in the process of improving or recovering from a failed business that went south on her.
But I couldn't date an un-intelligent woman; someone who isn't worldly, intelligent, insightful and driven would be a drag.
Of course, it's hard to spot those traits at a moment's glance in a club. So it's a bit of a crap shoot there. Which is why most of my workmates end up dating women that they've worked with. Not in the same office mind you...that's career suicide. But there's nothing really wrong with dating the VP of finance for a large firm that you just helped close an acquisition with, a few months after the deal goes thru. I never have though...I often feel it's risky to mix business and pleasure and never have the guts to put my professional reputation at risk for matters of the heart.
Perhaps I am a cold unfeeling bastard after all! LOL!
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OMR showing again why he is the true leader and front man of GB
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Most women love a man with a full head of hair. It can be very aesthetically pleasing to the eye and helps to properly frame the face and balance out the proportions produced by either a wide jaw or a long chin.
Unfortunately, if your genes are starting to express themselves in such a way that hair loss is becoming apparent, consider simply shaving it all off.
If you have a good personality, are intelligent, can spark up compelling conversations, are generally funny, keep neatly groomed facial hair, sharp sense of clothing style and keep a slim, muscular body, the women (from many different class circles) will flock to you regardless.
While some women are superficial and will only date a man with a full head of flowing hair, most women (particularly those that are more mature than your average 20-year old) will see past the hair loss and quantify you for the sum of your parts (extra credit: a rather large penis WILL ALWAYS be a crowd-pleaser amongst women).
Now, if you have all of the aforementioned qualities, albeit with a bald head, BUT have money in the bank, EVERY WOMAN (regardless of race or class) will suck your dick and try to marry you. Remember though, that is assuming you have the personality, intelligence, conversational skills, humor, slim/muscular body and neat grooming ALONG with a hefty bank account.
I have a large amount of female friends, most of which are extremely good looking and the resounding theme regarding their approach to picking a man (even though it's a shame to say) is determined by whether or not a man has (A) Money, which leads to (B) Power & Influence, which furthermore allows for (C) the woman to lead a life of leisure, while knowing that she doesn't have to work and her children will have a good life.
Cruel, but this is what I've noticed over the years, especially being a gay man and having women from all walks of life telling me what they would have done differently, if they could have gone back and chosen another man for themselves.
So in order of importance, women like:
Money
Money
Attractive characteristic traits (personality, humor, intelligence etc..)
Attractive physical traits (well-toned body, rather large cock full head of hair etc.)
There are also women out there who are genuinely interested in true love and could care less about a man's bank account or even his physical attributes, so as long as he has a good heart and a willingness to be faithful and love her in return. That said, those are the best types of women and, in this superficial world we live in, they are extremely hard to come by. If you do find someone like that, keep her, because it's the same as winning the lottery.
Good Luck!
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P.S. In the hierarchy of things women like, feel free to cross out the last two (characteristic and physical traits) and replace them with Money and it will still make sense.
WHORES! >:(
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I think that it is funny that chicks are into him. Suppose he is decent enough looking and all, but that hairline is brutal. I like the guy, made some damn fine movies.
they like that he's confident and manly and rugged-looking, as opposed to your typical prettyboy actor like orlando bloom or brad pitt. strong jawline helps too, probably. honestly i think it's just a different type of attraction for women, one isn't necessarily worse than the other.
for example you can be attracted to two different girls equally but one in like the savagely fuck her slutty brains out in a bathroom stall kind of way, and another in like a nice girl hang out with her and do stuff kind of way.
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If the man has both money and power covered, *most* women (I say so loosely, as I am not a woman) will rank it as such:
(1) Height: most women do not like short men ( < 5'8 ), unless they are particularly short themselves. Short stature typically means (in their minds at least) that their children will be short as well and while standing next to a shorter man women become overly self-conscious.
(2) Maturity: a man's maturity level determines how he treats a woman and others, women find this sexy, as it is also a sign of overall wisdom and experience throughout life.
(3) Facial Looks: You're either born with a good looking face or you're not. An attractive face is easy on the eyes, is telling of what your children might look like and is your calling card before you even open your mouth. Women like this, but also accept the fact that over time, a good looking face will become average due to seeing it every day.
(4) Physical development: how well developed you are is usually a result of genes + hard work and tells a woman how disciplined you are in attaining overall goals. You have a great build and she will assume that you have the necessary discipline to succeed in most aspects of life and that, in turn, your discipline can prove beneficial towards your ability to keep working towards the relationship. NOW, if you're too physically developed, think IFBB pro or even an NPC competitor, this will be a turnoff for most women. They will assume that you are too conceited and overly consumed with the gym, when they would much rather have a man lift their legs up in the air as opposed to a barbell. Moral here is that there must be a balance..
(5) Grooming: women like a man that is clean, well dressed and properly groomed. Luckily, this is something that she can work on with the man if she finds other aspects of him to be appealing enough.
(6) Youth:this can be both good and bad. A young man smells of virility, strength, energy, stamina and sexual prowess. The problem with a young man is that he is more likely to cheat than an older man, simply because he gets more choices/options with women. Also, a younger man is typically not as mature and women find this to be a turn off. After having sex with a younger man for a few times, they lose interest and seek a mature man that can stimulate both their mind and body.
(7) Penis size: This is a great way to catch a woman's attention. Unfortunately, you don't walk around with your penis exposed or with a sign that says how big your member is. While it would be a GREAT way to break the ice and make a woman want to sleep with you, women actually find that an average sized penis (around 6-7 inches with moderate girth) will do the trick so as long as a man knows how to use it in bed. Remember this quote by some random porn star, "A big cock is like an amusement park, you might enjoy visiting for the day, but you wouldn't want to live there".
Remember, this is just my opinion based on what countless amount of female friends (within the ages of 30-50) have told me over time regarding preferences in men.
Good Luck!
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I could have used this guide during my single slumming days- good info kiddies
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The income bracket isn't that important. There are plenty of hyper-intelligent people who've come upon hard times financially. Likewise, many a cashier is doing so to pay for higher education that will eventually pay off. I started out quite poor myself, but through hard work and ambition and an intelligent planful approach, I made money. So yes...I would date poor woman if she were in the process of improving or recovering from a failed business that went south on her.
But I couldn't date an un-intelligent woman; someone who isn't worldly, intelligent, insightful and driven would be a drag.
Of course, it's hard to spot those traits at a moment's glance in a club. So it's a bit of a crap shoot there. Which is why most of my workmates end up dating women that they've worked with. Not in the same office mind you...that's career suicide. But there's nothing really wrong with dating the VP of finance for a large firm that you just helped close an acquisition with, a few months after the deal goes thru. I never have though...I often feel it's risky to mix business and pleasure and never have the guts to put my professional reputation at risk for matters of the heart.
Perhaps I am a cold unfeeling bastard after all! LOL!
It doesn't sound like you limit yourself but it seems you're over-thinking things and putting too much pressure on yourself to meet someone. I've found it so much better when I just go out, have a good time and to meet new people. Women will be drawn to that and when you see someone you like don't you wanna get to know them first since they may in fact be half brain dead?
You will have to go through a lot of them just to find a good one. Don't be one of those guys who settles for anyone that comes along in fear of ending alone. This is getbig goddamn it, we're all Casanovas!!
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this is all BS
its facial attractiveness that women go for, esp younger women ie below 30 years old
if youre not handsome and hot youre fucking <5's or paying for hookers
for women >30, its still largely facial attractiveness that rates highest, then $
women will lie and say personality blah blah blah- its all lies- you cant fight nature- its natures way
the only ugly guys pulling 8's or better are mega rich or celebrities (usually wealthy too)
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If the man has both money and power covered, *most* women (I say so loosely, as I am not a woman) will rank it as such:
(1) Height: most women do not like short men ( < 5'8 ), unless they are particularly short themselves. Short stature typically means (in their minds at least) that their children will be short as well and while standing next to a shorter man women become overly self-conscious.
(2) Maturity: a man's maturity level determines how he treats a woman and others, women find this sexy, as it is also a sign of overall wisdom and experience throughout life.
(3) Facial Looks: You're either born with a good looking face or you're not. An attractive face is easy on the eyes, is telling of what your children might look like and is your calling card before you even open your mouth. Women like this, but also accept the fact that over time, a good looking face will become average due to seeing it every day.
(4) Physical development: how well developed you are is usually a result of genes + hard work and tells a woman how disciplined you are in attaining overall goals. You have a great build and she will assume that you have the necessary discipline to succeed in most aspects of life and that, in turn, your discipline can prove beneficial towards your ability to keep working towards the relationship. NOW, if you're too physically developed, think IFBB pro or even an NPC competitor, this will be a turnoff for most women. They will assume that you are too conceited and overly consumed with the gym, when they would much rather have a man lift their legs up in the air as opposed to a barbell. Moral here is that there must be a balance..
(5) Grooming: women like a man that is clean, well dressed and properly groomed. Luckily, this is something that she can work on with the man if she finds other aspects of him to be appealing enough.
(6) Youth:this can be both good and bad. A young man smells of virility, strength, energy, stamina and sexual prowess. The problem with a young man is that he is more likely to cheat than an older man, simply because he gets more choices/options with women. Also, a younger man is typically not as mature and women find this to be a turn off. After having sex with a younger man for a few times, they lose interest and seek a mature man that can stimulate both their mind and body.
(7) Penis size: This is a great way to catch a woman's attention. Unfortunately, you don't walk around with your penis exposed or with a sign that says how big your member is. While it would be a GREAT way to break the ice and make a woman want to sleep with you, women actually find that an average sized penis (around 6-7 inches with moderate girth) will do the trick so as long as a man knows how to use it in bed. Remember this quote by some random porn star, "A big cock is like an amusement park, you might enjoy visiting for the day, but you wouldn't want to live there".
Remember, this is just my opinion based on what countless amount of female friends (within the ages of 30-50) have told me over time regarding preferences in men.
Good Luck!
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very, very good post
i'm impressed
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if they think you can get rich in the future they also consider this
they feel as if they're "investing"
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It doesn't sound like you limit yourself but it seems you're over-thinking things and putting too much pressure on yourself to meet someone. I've found it so much better when I just go out, have a good time and to meet new people. Women will be drawn to that and when you see someone you like don't you wanna get to know them first since they may in fact be half brain dead?
You will have to go through a lot of them just to find a good one. Don't be one of those guys who settles for anyone that comes along in fear of ending alone. This is getbig goddamn it, we're all Casanovas!!
You're right about chronic over-thinking. I am naturally cautious and analytical - I do well in bear markets, not so much in the bull market (obligatory no homo).
So I tend to act like that no matter the situation, social settings included. That includes evaluating my chances with a woman. I will always lose out to the man who takes chances. As Wayne Gretzky said, "you miss 100% of the shots you never take". I'm so concerned with lining up the shot perfectly, that by the time I get around to convincing myself that the game is rigged in my favor, I've lost her attention, some other guy has come in, or the night has ended.
By it's a pathological fear of rejection that keeps me from over-riding the analytical thought process. I refuse to lose and will over-think every decision until I know victory is a near certainty. It's been my hallmark in business transactions. At first it held me back in business, as opportunities exploded before I could capitalize. But over time, I've grown and developed, and can keep up pretty well without over-extending my risk. But that ability to spot opportunities in business faster, has not been married to an ability to spot opportunities with women faster than when I was young. I'm still inept, slow, unresponsive and overly cautious.
I do very well in social settings where there isn't pressure to "pick up" - I'm outgoing, funny, and love telling stories, which usually adds life to the party...I've lived a rich life so there's a lot to tell. And although I'm quite a dunce when it comes to picking on other women's cues that they may be interested, I've in fact had it told to me by a number of platonic female friends that "hey that girl likes you". Which I usually dismiss as whimsical female fancy. And even if I do consider it, my friend's opinion that I should "go hit that" is usually not enough to tip my scales...I seem to only respond to an overt display of interest (think along the lines of a girl saying "hey, you're really hot, and I need you now"). Anything short of that, and I get analysis paralysis.
It's all in my head. Just that my head is the only thing I ever listen to. LOL!
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ok I have to say I don't agree with the checklist style approach to relationships and women.
I would encourage you fellows to look a little deeper.
If you can do that you'll have a lot more success. :)
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Lotsa balding guys shave their heads completely, to make it look it's their own decision. But in fact they can't stand it becoming bold. They are insure people....
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Lotsa balding guys shave their heads completely, to make it look it's their own decision. But in fact they can't stand it becoming bold. They are insure people....
is this some sort of projection or just a baseless generalisation?
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is this some sort of projection or just a baseless generalisation?
A baseless generalisation.
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Perhaps I am a cold unfeeling bastard after all! LOL!
You are a getbigger. It is part of the job description.
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this is all BS
its facial attractiveness that women go for, esp younger women ie below 30 years old
if youre not handsome and hot youre fucking <5's or paying for hookers
for women >30, its still largely facial attractiveness that rates highest, then $
women will lie and say personality blah blah blah- its all lies- you cant fight nature- its natures way
the only ugly guys pulling 8's or better are mega rich or celebrities (usually wealthy too)
This, if you want to bang and be short term with any chick under say 28 you just need to be good looking.
Good looking guy who is quiet - mysterious
ugly guy who is quiet - boring
Good looking guy who is lazy- laid back
Ugly guy who is lazy - lazy
Etc etc
When women say they want a driven, humorous etc guy, they mean first and foremost good looking, the rest is just icing.
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Bold heads in bodybuilding (& elsewhere) is another confirmation that HGH don't work (if you a over 21yo) & don't stimulate hair RE-GROW
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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You are a getbigger. It is part of the job description.
When you do my annual review, I expect this to weigh in on my bonus. Just saying...
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Lots of bullshit in this thread.
A hairy ass is all that counts especially in prison.
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It's all about the hair.
(http://unfilteredpop.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/soul-man-1.jpg)
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This, if you want to bang and be short term with any chick under say 28 you just need to be good looking.
Good looking guy who is quiet - mysterious
ugly guy who is quiet - boring
Good looking guy who is lazy- laid back
Ugly guy who is lazy - lazy
Etc etc
When women say they want a driven, humorous etc guy, they mean first and foremost good looking, the rest is just icing.
QFT
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I have to laugh at the bald guys that have to be delusional and say women prefer bald men.
Who knows what women want? Men have been trying to figure this out forever. It's also age related too.
1.Early 20's women don't care to much if a guy is not successful. They are looking for a good looking guy.
2. Late 20's and 30's women want a guy who can provide for their future kids and themselves.
3.In their 40's many single women find older men is their only option and it is the option they want.
4. In their 40's if they are divorced and got the house with alimony and child support they just play the field. They dream of finding a guy with money but most divorced men in their 40's are broke and they had to give their house to their ex.
5. In their 50's it is where it gets interesting. Many are not looking for marriage. Only a good time. They can go younger or older.
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Seriously, who the fuck cares what women want?
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I have to laugh at the bald guys that have to be delusional and say women prefer bald men.
Who knows what women want? Men have been trying to figure this out forever. It's also age related too.
1.Early 20's women don't care to much if a guy is not successful. They are looking for a good looking guy.
2. Late 20's and 30's women want a guy who can provide for their future kids and themselves.
3.In their 40's many single women find older men is their only option and it is the option they want.
4. In their 40's if they are divorced and got the house with alimony and child support they just play the field. They dream of finding a guy with money but most divorced men in their 40's are broke and they had to give their house to their ex.
5. In their 50's it is where it gets interesting. Many are not looking for marriage. Only a good time. They can go younger or older.
A very good post ^.
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As I said elsewhere today, going bald is a shitty deal but totally 'acceptable' if you have a lean face and decent bod. Short AND bald. Kill yourself.
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Over time it matters less and less provided you take care of the things you do have control over.
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the perfect antidote to balding = a hefty bank account ;D
women love men with money. simples.
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the perfect antidote to balding = a hefty bank account ;D
women love men with money. simples.
X2.
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You're right about chronic over-thinking. I am naturally cautious and analytical - I do well in bear markets, not so much in the bull market (obligatory no homo).
So I tend to act like that no matter the situation, social settings included. That includes evaluating my chances with a woman. I will always lose out to the man who takes chances. As Wayne Gretzky said, "you miss 100% of the shots you never take". I'm so concerned with lining up the shot perfectly, that by the time I get around to convincing myself that the game is rigged in my favor, I've lost her attention, some other guy has come in, or the night has ended.
By it's a pathological fear of rejection that keeps me from over-riding the analytical thought process. I refuse to lose and will over-think every decision until I know victory is a near certainty. It's been my hallmark in business transactions. At first it held me back in business, as opportunities exploded before I could capitalize. But over time, I've grown and developed, and can keep up pretty well without over-extending my risk. But that ability to spot opportunities in business faster, has not been married to an ability to spot opportunities with women faster than when I was young. I'm still inept, slow, unresponsive and overly cautious.
I do very well in social settings where there isn't pressure to "pick up" - I'm outgoing, funny, and love telling stories, which usually adds life to the party...I've lived a rich life so there's a lot to tell. And although I'm quite a dunce when it comes to picking on other women's cues that they may be interested, I've in fact had it told to me by a number of platonic female friends that "hey that girl likes you". Which I usually dismiss as whimsical female fancy. And even if I do consider it, my friend's opinion that I should "go hit that" is usually not enough to tip my scales...I seem to only respond to an overt display of interest (think along the lines of a girl saying "hey, you're really hot, and I need you now"). Anything short of that, and I get analysis paralysis.
It's all in my head. Just that my head is the only thing I ever listen to. LOL!
^ why don't you look at it like this....
Any woman would be thrilled that a well educated and successful getbigger such as yourself would be remotely interested in her. Just don't bore them with financial terms....at first.
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Use this as a rule of thumb.....
Bald, lean, attractive face = You are good to go
Bald, lean, unattractive face = You'll be banging 2's and 3's
Bald, fat, attractive face = You'll be lucky to pull a decent looking porker
Bald, fat, unattractive face = You better have a shit-ton of money
Bald, fat, unattractive face, broke = Kill yourself
x1000
Most guys look just fine with very short hair or even a shaved head unless you are disgustingly overweight. Even if you have an ugly mug but are lean you can usually pull it off.
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I am trying to go bald now.
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create spider-man like muscles
ripped, dense, detailed, and seperated
then you're in like flint ;)
(http://www.elitefitness.com/images/rob-riches/rob-riches-bodybuilder-model.jpg)
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My issue is that I have enough wealth - made lots early on, and just kept at it. Wealth is the pleasant side-effect of applying intelligence in the pursuit of ambition, power and prestige. But I hide it. I don't like flaunting my wealth. If I'm being honest, I hoard my wealth for fear of losing it; and I abhor wasteful spending of my money...I worked hard for it and I'm not going to blow it on stupid emotional material possessions for the sake of peacocking.
So I have to let everything else do the talking. And since I never feel confident enough in the body I've developed (I'm a bodybuilder after all...we always hate the way we look), I never have the confidence to use how I look to attract women. Instead, I come off as aloof, stand-off-ish, cold, and distant. Meanwhile, I'm just hoping the hot chick comes over and talks to me, because I don't have the nuts to go talk to her. I have a million things to talk to her about...just have to figure out a way to meet her.
Worst of all, I can't stand rejection in any form. So I usually just say "ah...she probably wouldn't like a guy like me anyways...I work too much and she probably wants a guy who's less than 5% bodyfat and I'm only 12%". And then I convince myself I'm right. And then laugh at myself for being delusional...I'm the guy who can close a M&A in a boardroom with tempers flaring, but I can't talk to a lonely girl at a bar.
LOL...such high school drama. I laugh at my own ineptitudes with women. We all have our challenges.
Are you average or below average height?
Bald?
Average looks?
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create spider-man like muscles
ripped, dense, detailed, and seperated
then you're in like flint ;)
(http://www.elitefitness.com/images/rob-riches/rob-riches-bodybuilder-model.jpg)
if this guy were bald he's look average at best
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if this guy were bald he's look average at best
bullshit
that body is out-fucking-standing
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if this guy were bald he's look average at best
He is a lot better than her because he doesn't have some stupid tatt on his hand.
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My issue is that I have enough wealth - made lots early on, and just kept at it. Wealth is the pleasant side-effect of applying intelligence in the pursuit of ambition, power and prestige. But I hide it. I don't like flaunting my wealth. If I'm being honest, I hoard my wealth for fear of losing it; and I abhor wasteful spending of my money...I worked hard for it and I'm not going to blow it on stupid emotional material possessions for the sake of peacocking.
So I have to let everything else do the talking. And since I never feel confident enough in the body I've developed (I'm a bodybuilder after all...we always hate the way we look), I never have the confidence to use how I look to attract women. Instead, I come off as aloof, stand-off-ish, cold, and distant. Meanwhile, I'm just hoping the hot chick comes over and talks to me, because I don't have the nuts to go talk to her. I have a million things to talk to her about...just have to figure out a way to meet her.
Worst of all, I can't stand rejection in any form. So I usually just say "ah...she probably wouldn't like a guy like me anyways...I work too much and she probably wants a guy who's less than 5% bodyfat and I'm only 12%". And then I convince myself I'm right. And then laugh at myself for being delusional...I'm the guy who can close a M&A in a boardroom with tempers flaring, but I can't talk to a lonely girl at a bar.
LOL...such high school drama. I laugh at my own ineptitudes with women. We all have our challenges.
So you're one of those rich guys that can't get laid, that we talk about here ;D
Seriously dude...are you THAT afraid of rejection ?
I got rejected once, in 1997 I think....it wasn't that bad... ;D
All kidding aside they're just chicks dude, and they are just as insecure as you are.....you seem to have a lot to offer, relax man.
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I am trying to go bald now.
Great.
I'm semi bald myself and the 50+ crowd loves it.
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You're right about chronic over-thinking. I am naturally cautious and analytical - I do well in bear markets, not so much in the bull market (obligatory no homo).
So I tend to act like that no matter the situation, social settings included. That includes evaluating my chances with a woman. I will always lose out to the man who takes chances. As Wayne Gretzky said, "you miss 100% of the shots you never take". I'm so concerned with lining up the shot perfectly, that by the time I get around to convincing myself that the game is rigged in my favor, I've lost her attention, some other guy has come in, or the night has ended.
By it's a pathological fear of rejection that keeps me from over-riding the analytical thought process. I refuse to lose and will over-think every decision until I know victory is a near certainty. It's been my hallmark in business transactions. At first it held me back in business, as opportunities exploded before I could capitalize. But over time, I've grown and developed, and can keep up pretty well without over-extending my risk. But that ability to spot opportunities in business faster, has not been married to an ability to spot opportunities with women faster than when I was young. I'm still inept, slow, unresponsive and overly cautious.
I do very well in social settings where there isn't pressure to "pick up" - I'm outgoing, funny, and love telling stories, which usually adds life to the party...I've lived a rich life so there's a lot to tell. And although I'm quite a dunce when it comes to picking on other women's cues that they may be interested, I've in fact had it told to me by a number of platonic female friends that "hey that girl likes you". Which I usually dismiss as whimsical female fancy. And even if I do consider it, my friend's opinion that I should "go hit that" is usually not enough to tip my scales...I seem to only respond to an overt display of interest (think along the lines of a girl saying "hey, you're really hot, and I need you now"). Anything short of that, and I get analysis paralysis.
It's all in my head. Just that my head is the only thing I ever listen to. LOL!
Starting today say hi to every girl you see. Hot ugly skinny fat old young doesn't matter. Don't start a conversation or say anything other then hello. Just say Hello and walk away. Do that for awhile and then worry about the next step. Before you know it you'll be able to walk up to any girl.
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I have to laugh at the bald guys that have to be delusional and say women prefer bald men.
Who knows what women want? Men have been trying to figure this out forever. It's also age related too.
1.Early 20's women don't care to much if a guy is not successful. They are looking for a good looking guy.
2. Late 20's and 30's women want a guy who can provide for their future kids and themselves.
3.In their 40's many single women find older men is their only option and it is the option they want.
4. In their 40's if they are divorced and got the house with alimony and child support they just play the field. They dream of finding a guy with money but most divorced men in their 40's are broke and they had to give their house to their ex.
5. In their 50's it is where it gets interesting. Many are not looking for marriage. Only a good time. They can go younger or older.
Haha oldtimer, I think this summary is about right ;D
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Are you average or below average height?
Bald?
Average looks?
Above average height.
Full head of hair.
Average looks (I've had some women say I'm handsome, but if I'm being honest, I'm probably just average looks in the face. Nothing memorable or overly attractive, but probably nothing grotesque, I would hope)
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So you're one of those rich guys that can't get laid, that we talk about here ;D
Seriously dude...are you THAT afraid of rejection ?
I got rejected once, in 1997 I think....it wasn't that bad... ;D
All kidding aside they're just chicks dude, and they are just as insecure as you are.....you seem to have a lot to offer, relax man.
Hahaha...groink, you're like the last guy on this board to tell average looking guys about rejection.
To say your facial looks attract women is to say that the smell of blood attracts sharks.
But that aside, your message is a sage one. The one about relaxing. I have to find a way to do just that.
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Starting today say hi to every girl you see. Hot ugly skinny fat old young doesn't matter. Don't start a conversation or say anything other then hello. Just say Hello and walk away. Do that for awhile and then worry about the next step. Before you know it you'll be able to walk up to any girl.
Honestly, this seems like the best actionable advice I've gotten, so I'll seriously give it a shot. Just be a conversationalist and put zero expectations on it. Thanks KH.
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Hahaha...groink, you're like the last guy on this board to tell average looking guys about rejection.
To say your facial looks attract women is to say that the smell of blood attracts sharks.
But that aside, your message is a sage one. The one about relaxing. I have to find a way to do just that.
I said this before...talk to women like you already know them, and have every right to be conversing with them. Polite, but casual, i dont even bother with an introduction. I just look for something, anything to talk about to break the ice...a lamp, some douchebag with a bad toupe, whatever. Make an astute and/or funny remark...you're a sharp dude..and just keep talking....LOL.
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hey, snx
ever since pickup videos became popular on youtube, there have been a couple of groups (simplepickup, vitalyzdtv) whose primary appeal is comedy, the actual pickup aspect being somewhat secondary. as such, they go up to complete strangers day in and day out saying the most ridiculous shit ever -- you WILL cringe watching their videos... and, alarmingly, half of the time they get the girl's number anyway! i'm not at all recommending these videos for "pickup advice" (::)), but, as someone who relates to the description you've given, what these videos did show me is there's really nothing to it. if these guys can go up to people and say the stupidest, most crass, embarrassing shit imaginable and still get away with it half the time, then people like us have nothing to "fear".
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getting a girl's number is for amateurs
even i succeeded recently at going home with two sluts (only banged one) at the same time without exchanging numbers
no numbers no trace
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absolutely hilarious and true.
some women say they dont mind receeding hairline blabla.thats al relative compromises for them.
and if they like a famous actor whos bald, its bc hes an actor.
george clooney lookalike will not do as good as the real george clooney.
women have very good and brutal sense for atractivity,they just pretend to not and do make compromises.
.......If she doesn't feel attraction there is nothing you can do about it, if she does feel attraction there is nothing SHE can do about it. as perfect as you might of thought she was....Im sure I can find 5 chicks hotter than her who dig you for you.
nothing like walking by a chick months down the road with a girl hotter than her....best feeling ever.
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Fuck hair.
(http://apocalypstick.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/patrick-bateman-cheers.jpg)
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I have tried to fake interest in women with money but I'm unable to do so. What is it that allows women to get with a man they feel no physical attraction for?
Is it in their genes?
Because theyre not dumb and breeding with some burrito race would contaminate their genetics. Europeans will stay pure from the fucking.jews pushing sick ass interbreeding the "white race" with 3tlrd world.destructicr animals. This is mostly to the sick fucking blacks, mexican cartel are also savages and their followers. Animals.
Stick with your race delusional clown. Niggs too.
Yes its in their genes
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Because theyre not dumb and breeding with some burrito race would contaminate their genetics. Europeans will stay pure from the fucking.jews pushing sick ass interbreeding the "white race" with 3tlrd world.destructicr animals. This is mostly to the sick fucking blacks, mexican cartel are also savages and their followers. Animals.
Stick with your race delusional clown. Niggs too.
Yes its in their genes
interbreeding huh ::) yes that's why Israeli womena re some of the most beautiful women in the world. ask arce...the best looking people are almost always of mixed races. It's a fact....
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by mixed i dont mean mexican and half black or half white and half asian, just a bit of something.......Im in the south, and the majority of people here are average looking.....IF you have a bit of italian,russian,german, greek in you it goes a long ways. women like men with rare exotic features...be it darker than aveage eyebrows, .a black man with blue eyes, a white man with green eyes, a man with darker eyebrows, or olive skin....most guys find this true with women as well. Israeli and italian women , shit on the so called "southern belles" out here ::)
this is one of the reasons accents are so attractive to . bigger cultural difference better chance of different genes- healthier babies.
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Im also under the impression that chicks dig a guy with some nice and fairly long hair. However, I dont know how many times Ive seen this dude showing up on girls dating profiles:
(http://i81.photobucket.com/albums/j221/True2006/vin-diesel-hd.jpg) (http://s81.photobucket.com/user/True2006/media/vin-diesel-hd.jpg.html)
That should tell you something.
Me myself like to keep my hair short, because I dont think I look that good with long hair. I either shave it off so Im left with a buzz cut similiar to this guy, or I just keep it short and style it with some wax. If Im going for the buzz cut look I could care less what women think though, because being that cut makes you both look and feel more hardcore and fresh.
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women in general expect more than what they have to offer. Goes other way around for men. Its all about confidence and women generally are in front in that aspect
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interbreeding huh ::) yes that's why Israeli womena re some of the most beautiful women in the world. ask arce...the best looking people are almost always of mixed races. It's a fact....
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I have tried to fake interest in women with money but I'm unable to do so. What is it that allows women to get with a man they feel no physical attraction for?
Is it in their genes?
Because theyre not dumb and breeding with some burrito race would contaminate their genetics. Europeans will stay pure from the fucking.jews pushing sick ass interbreeding the "white race" with 3tlrd world.destructicr animals. This is mostly to the sick fucking blacks, mexican cartel are also savages and their followers. Animals.
Stick with your race delusional clown. Niggs too.
Yes its in their genes
LOL
Please humor me and tell me why it is that you think I'm delusional. ;D
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interbreeding huh ::) yes that's why Israeli womena re some of the most beautiful women in the world. ask arce...the best looking people are almost always of mixed races. It's a fact....
Latin women are the best looking in the world alongside the non-hairy Mediterranean women.
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Latin women are the best looking in the world alongside the non-hairy Mediterranean women.
stick to your own kind darkie
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I'm bald and I don't really have a problem meeting women.
...but I have met some who only date men with hair and I've also met women that prefer bald men.
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stick to your own kind darkie
Racist post reported ;D
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everytime female colleagues are talking with balding men (a lot worse than me) and the men are talking all beta and the women mocking
i pretend not to listen and if they try to involve me i shrug as if it is totally not a concern