in general population of women, how much do they care about full head of hair?

[dj181]

If the man has both money and power covered, *most* women (I say so loosely, as I am not a woman) will rank it as such:

(1) Height: most women do not like short men ( < 5'8 ), unless they are particularly short themselves. Short stature typically means (in their minds at least) that their children will be short as well and while standing next to a shorter man women become overly self-conscious.

(2) Maturity: a man's maturity level determines how he treats a woman and others, women find this sexy, as it is also a sign of overall wisdom and experience throughout life.

(3) Facial Looks: You're either born with a good looking face or you're not. An attractive face is easy on the eyes, is telling of what your children might look like and is your calling card before you even open your mouth. Women like this, but also accept the fact that over time, a good looking face will become average due to seeing it every day.

(4) Physical development: how well developed you are is usually a result of genes + hard work and tells a woman how disciplined you are in attaining overall goals. You have a great build and she will assume that you have the necessary discipline to succeed in most aspects of life and that, in turn, your discipline can prove beneficial towards your ability to keep working towards the relationship. NOW, if you're too physically developed, think IFBB pro or even an NPC competitor, this will be a turnoff for most women. They will assume that you are too conceited and overly consumed with the gym, when they would much rather have a man lift their legs up in the air as opposed to a barbell. Moral here is that there must be a balance..

(5) Grooming: women like a man that is clean, well dressed and properly groomed. Luckily, this is something that she can work on with the man if she finds other aspects of him to be appealing enough.

(6) Youth:this can be both good and bad. A young man smells of virility, strength, energy, stamina and sexual prowess. The problem with a young man is that he is more likely to cheat than an older man, simply because he gets more choices/options with women. Also, a younger man is typically not as mature and women find this to be a turn off. After having sex with a younger man for a few times, they lose interest and seek a mature man that can stimulate both their mind and body.

(7) Penis size: This is a great way to catch a woman's attention. Unfortunately, you don't walk around with your penis exposed or with a sign that says how big your member is. While it would be a GREAT way to break the ice and make a woman want to sleep with you, women actually find that an average sized penis (around 6-7 inches with moderate girth) will do the trick so as long as a man knows how to use it in bed. Remember this quote by some random porn star, "A big cock is like an amusement park, you might enjoy visiting for the day, but you wouldn't want to live there".

Remember, this is just my opinion based on what countless amount of female friends (within the ages of 30-50) have told me over time regarding preferences in men.

Good Luck!

"1"

very, very good post

i'm impressed

[anabolichalo]

if they think you can get rich in the future they also consider this


they feel as if they're "investing"

[snx]

It doesn't sound like you limit yourself but it seems you're over-thinking things and putting too much pressure on yourself to meet someone. I've found it so much better when I just go out, have a good time and to meet new people. Women will be drawn to that and when you see someone you like don't you wanna get to know them first since they may in fact be half brain dead?

You will have to go through a lot of them just to find a good one. Don't be one of those guys who settles for anyone that comes along in fear of ending alone. This is getbig goddamn it, we're all Casanovas!!

You're right about chronic over-thinking. I am naturally cautious and analytical - I do well in bear markets, not so much in the bull market (obligatory no homo).

So I tend to act like that no matter the situation, social settings included. That includes evaluating my chances with a woman. I will always lose out to the man who takes chances. As Wayne Gretzky said, "you miss 100% of the shots you never take". I'm so concerned with lining up the shot perfectly, that by the time I get around to convincing myself that the game is rigged in my favor, I've lost her attention, some other guy has come in, or the night has ended.

By it's a pathological fear of rejection that keeps me from over-riding the analytical thought process. I refuse to lose and will over-think every decision until I know victory is a near certainty. It's been my hallmark in business transactions. At first it held me back in business, as opportunities exploded before I could capitalize. But over time, I've grown and developed, and can keep up pretty well without over-extending my risk. But that ability to spot opportunities in business faster, has not been married to an ability to spot opportunities with women faster than when I was young. I'm still inept, slow, unresponsive and overly cautious.

I do very well in social settings where there isn't pressure to "pick up" - I'm outgoing, funny, and love telling stories, which usually adds life to the party...I've lived a rich life so there's a lot to tell. And although I'm quite a dunce when it comes to picking on other women's cues that they may be interested, I've in fact had it told to me by a number of platonic female friends that "hey that girl likes you". Which I usually dismiss as whimsical female fancy. And even if I do consider it, my friend's opinion that I should "go hit that" is usually not enough to tip my scales...I seem to only respond to an overt display of interest (think along the lines of a girl saying "hey, you're really hot, and I need you now"). Anything short of that, and I get analysis paralysis.

It's all in my head. Just that my head is the only thing I ever listen to. LOL!

[mr.turbo]

ok I have to say I don't agree with the checklist style approach to relationships and women.

I would encourage you fellows to look a little deeper.

If you can do that you'll have a  lot more success.

[Dr Dutch]

Lotsa balding guys shave their heads completely, to make it look it's their own decision. But in fact they can't stand it becoming bold. They are insure people....

[anabolichalo]

Lotsa balding guys shave their heads completely, to make it look it's their own decision. But in fact they can't stand it becoming bold. They are insure people....

is this some sort of projection or just a baseless generalisation?

[Dr Dutch]

is this some sort of projection or just a baseless generalisation?

A baseless generalisation.

[240 is Back]

Perhaps I am a cold unfeeling bastard after all! LOL!

You are a getbigger.  It is part of the job description.

[Army of One]

this is all BS

its facial attractiveness that women go for, esp younger women ie below 30 years old

if youre not handsome and hot youre fucking <5's or paying for hookers

for women >30, its still largely facial attractiveness that rates highest, then $

women will lie and say personality blah blah blah- its all lies- you cant fight nature- its natures way

the only ugly guys pulling 8's or better are mega rich or celebrities (usually wealthy too)

This, if you want to bang and be short term with any chick under say 28 you just need to be good looking.
Good looking guy who is quiet - mysterious
ugly guy who is quiet - boring
Good looking guy who is lazy- laid back
Ugly guy who is lazy - lazy

Etc etc

When women say they want a driven, humorous etc guy, they mean first and foremost good looking, the rest is just icing.

[Teutonic Knight]

Bold heads in bodybuilding (& elsewhere) is another confirmation that HGH don't work (if you a over 21yo) & don't stimulate hair RE-GROW
 

[snx]

You are a getbigger.  It is part of the job description.

When you do my annual review, I expect this to weigh in on my bonus. Just saying...

[_bruce_]

Lots of bullshit in this thread.
A hairy ass is all that counts especially in prison.

[YngiweRhoads]

It's all about the hair.

[old-school-lifter]

This, if you want to bang and be short term with any chick under say 28 you just need to be good looking.
Good looking guy who is quiet - mysterious
ugly guy who is quiet - boring
Good looking guy who is lazy- laid back
Ugly guy who is lazy - lazy

Etc etc

When women say they want a driven, humorous etc guy, they mean first and foremost good looking, the rest is just icing.

QFT

[oldtimer1]

I have to laugh at the bald guys that have to be delusional and say women prefer bald men.

Who knows what women want? Men have been trying to figure this out forever. It's also age related too.
 1.Early 20's women don't care to much if a guy is not successful. They are looking for a good looking guy.

 2. Late 20's and 30's women want a guy who can provide for their future kids and themselves.

 3.In their 40's many single women find older men is their only option and it is the option they want.

4. In their 40's if they are divorced and got the house with alimony and child support they just play the field. They dream of finding a guy with money but most divorced men in their 40's are broke and they had to give their house to their ex.

5. In their 50's it is where it gets interesting. Many are not looking for marriage. Only a good time. They can go younger or older.
 

[YngiweRhoads]

Seriously, who the fuck cares what women want?

[Mr Nobody]

I have to laugh at the bald guys that have to be delusional and say women prefer bald men.

Who knows what women want? Men have been trying to figure this out forever. It's also age related too.
 1.Early 20's women don't care to much if a guy is not successful. They are looking for a good looking guy.

 2. Late 20's and 30's women want a guy who can provide for their future kids and themselves.

 3.In their 40's many single women find older men is their only option and it is the option they want.

4. In their 40's if they are divorced and got the house with alimony and child support they just play the field. They dream of finding a guy with money but most divorced men in their 40's are broke and they had to give their house to their ex.

5. In their 50's it is where it gets interesting. Many are not looking for marriage. Only a good time. They can go younger or older.
 

A very good post ^.

[James28]

As I said elsewhere today, going bald is a shitty deal but totally 'acceptable' if you have a lean face and decent bod. Short AND bald. Kill yourself.

[Soul Crusher]

Over time it matters less and less provided you take care of the things you do have control over.

[f450]

the perfect antidote to balding = a hefty bank account 

women love men with money. simples.

[Mr Nobody]

the perfect antidote to balding = a hefty bank account 

women love men with money. simples.

X2.

[Borracho]

You're right about chronic over-thinking. I am naturally cautious and analytical - I do well in bear markets, not so much in the bull market (obligatory no homo).

So I tend to act like that no matter the situation, social settings included. That includes evaluating my chances with a woman. I will always lose out to the man who takes chances. As Wayne Gretzky said, "you miss 100% of the shots you never take". I'm so concerned with lining up the shot perfectly, that by the time I get around to convincing myself that the game is rigged in my favor, I've lost her attention, some other guy has come in, or the night has ended.

By it's a pathological fear of rejection that keeps me from over-riding the analytical thought process. I refuse to lose and will over-think every decision until I know victory is a near certainty. It's been my hallmark in business transactions. At first it held me back in business, as opportunities exploded before I could capitalize. But over time, I've grown and developed, and can keep up pretty well without over-extending my risk. But that ability to spot opportunities in business faster, has not been married to an ability to spot opportunities with women faster than when I was young. I'm still inept, slow, unresponsive and overly cautious.

I do very well in social settings where there isn't pressure to "pick up" - I'm outgoing, funny, and love telling stories, which usually adds life to the party...I've lived a rich life so there's a lot to tell. And although I'm quite a dunce when it comes to picking on other women's cues that they may be interested, I've in fact had it told to me by a number of platonic female friends that "hey that girl likes you". Which I usually dismiss as whimsical female fancy. And even if I do consider it, my friend's opinion that I should "go hit that" is usually not enough to tip my scales...I seem to only respond to an overt display of interest (think along the lines of a girl saying "hey, you're really hot, and I need you now"). Anything short of that, and I get analysis paralysis.

It's all in my head. Just that my head is the only thing I ever listen to. LOL!

^ why don't you look at it like this....

Any woman would be thrilled that a well educated and successful getbigger such as yourself would be remotely interested in her. Just don't bore them with financial terms....at first.

[Hulkotron]

Use this as a rule of thumb.....


Bald, lean, attractive face = You are good to go

Bald, lean, unattractive face = You'll be banging 2's and 3's

Bald, fat, attractive face = You'll be lucky to pull a decent looking porker

Bald, fat, unattractive  face = You better have a shit-ton of money

Bald, fat, unattractive face, broke = Kill yourself

x1000

Most guys look just fine with very short hair or even a shaved head unless you are disgustingly overweight.  Even if you have an ugly mug but are lean you can usually pull it off.

[Mr Nobody]

I am trying to go bald now.

[dj181]

create spider-man like muscles

ripped, dense, detailed, and seperated

then you're in  like flint